Dressing Up To Get Attention Does Not Make You Slutty Or An Attention Whore Or Whatever People Want To

dressing up to get attention does not make you “slutty” or an “attention whore” or whatever people want to call you. you are just fulfilling a need, nothing wrong with that! just remember to stay safe💜

i don't know who needs to hear this specifically but with the influx of discord servers dedicated to only mental illness discussion and spaces that only talk about racial discourse etc.

don't join those. those are echo chambers, and they will effect how you see your life. if you only focus on your mental illness or disabilities or only focus on racism you experience i know it may feel good to have a community where you can say "well i know this because i am this and no one else understands me if they're not this" or spaces where you can "educate" people who join but you are isolating yourself from actual society. it's a form of isolation. please find mixed social servers with many different people and many different opinions and branch out. communities like these ruined my view of the world and made me assume no one was like me at all out there if they didn't fit a cookie cutter definition and I do not want anyone else to fall into that.

you will find other people like you that aren't prone to community isolation for things that make humans human ! and it will feel liberating

Racists pretend that "black lives matter" means "only black lives matter". They already know it's false, but they want black people to go crazy trying to prove it.

Homophobes and transphobes pretend that LGBT people are pedophiles. They already know it's false, but they want LGBT people to go crazy trying to prove it.

The vast majority of the people doing that are not mentally ill.

And ironically, the people who believe in "narcissistic abuse" are guilty of this. They know that "narcissistic abuse" isn't real and that abuse is normalized by society. But they want narcissists to go crazy trying to prove it.

HPD apl culture is mistaking wanting attention (and at the time having friendship be the only way to get it) from peers for platonic attraction and plato-favorability

if clone high had a discord id imagine itd go like this