EVERY TIME

EVERY TIME

btw remember you have every right to interact with the wider selfship community as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. if you’re just here to post about your faves, or to read comforting posts, or to talk to your friend circle, then that’s fine. don’t let anyone guilt you into going out of your way to “contribute” to the community by performing extra emotional work. your worth is not decided by how “productive” you are, in society or on social media. you are allowed to just chill, i promise

i love love love when you're in the crook of your f/o's arm and then they have to do something that involves bringing their arm up, like checking their watch or answering their phone, and instead of unwrapping themselves from you they just smush you against their chest to do it.

Imagine your f/o memorizing specific things about you. Your favorite versions of songs, that one passion or hobby you have, but the oddly specific parts of it. The way you arrange your things, each and every ingredient for that recipe. Even if small, they recognize the importance of these things to you, and they'll gladly support you with it too.