Parasitogender/Parasitegender

Parasitogender/Parasitegender

Parasitogender, or Parasitegender: A xenogender that is described more like gender affirming against cisnormativity than a gender metaphor, like classic xenogenders. Is based off of a scientifical fact that recognizes that the pregnant body doesn't primarily sees the fetus as a baby or as something good, but as a parasite, it being the reason why so many couples have difficulties and struggle while getting a baby or why miscarriages are pretty common (noting that is also the reason why miscarriages are also called “spontaneous abortion”).

This xenogender can also be described with a form of resistance against patriarchy and it's cisnormativity, by finally accepting the duty/mission of destroying it completely; by being a threat, a menace or a parasite to the system and it's structure.

Okay, so, do y'all remember that one post where I said I was thinking about creating a xenogender, but I was unsure about it because it was not like the classic xenogenders? If you're seeing this now, it's because I finally got courage to post it adagrhdjtvsjrv XP

But, anyway, what is this xenogender in specific? Well, it's pretty complicated, but like in the first description is a identity reaffirming xenogender and/or a anti patriarchy and anti cisnormativity xenogender.

“Angel, how did you got this idea?” The first moment I heard the fact that we are basically parasites on our mother's (or father's/parent's, if you were generated in a non girly uterus) body, I instantly created an inside joke of mine:

“Well, if it's like this, than I'm nobody is biologically a man nor a woman, were biologically parasites, lmao”

And this tiny inside joke turned into something more: Like something that could be totally used against transphobes, in a way of mockery or pirraça (in english: tantrum in a annoying manner). I mean that could be perfect.

And getting this together with the fact that society doesn't even see us as humans, but as some kind of mental illness or a verminosis, we could be easily use this label and be like:

“You know what? Yeah, I am a mental illness. And my first symptom is burning your fat ass bigotry in hell. Say goodbye, bitch. *Insert gunshots.*"

And, stopping to think, it makes sense for this to be a completely valid xenogender, even if it's not a gender metaphor. Because it kind of shows that transphobes are actually pretty stupid and only use biology when it's convenient for them and for this oppressive system. So, what is better than being a parasite with the objective of ruining this hierarchy to make the world a better place for everyone?

love the concept of <2 as an aromantic symbol/emoticon because not only is it a spin on the <3 heart (typically romantic) symbol, but it literally is written "less than 2" and idk as a non-partnering aroace that just speaks to me

@cin-tim @michaelsfavgirl

man.

PLEASE buy books from trans and nonbinary authors!

It's really fucking sad to me that, like, 60% of the top selling transgender and transgender studies books on Amazon CA are anti-trans, fear mongering bullshit from TERFs, bitter conservative doctors who don't want to treat trans people, whiny cis male professors who all think that they're embattled like Jordan Peterson, and journalist who think that respecting a trans person's identity and pronouns is an attack on there free speech and beliefs.

It's fucking sad.

EDIT for some trans and nonbinary authors to check out:

Tobi Hill-Meyer

Alok Vaid-Menon

Ivan Coyote

Florence Ashley

Mia Violet

Maia Kobabe

Julia Serano

Sinclair Sexsmith

Laura Kate Dale

Georgina "Gigi" Kiersten

S. Bear Bergman

Mx. Nillin Lore

Orlando Silver

Jamie Raines

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