I Don't Care How Much You Reblog Ace Positivity Posts If You Don't Learn To Recognize And Call Out Every

I don't care how much you reblog ace positivity posts if you don't learn to recognize and call out every form of radical feminism in queer spaces. My community was decimated and our support systems destroyed because of this shit. Both we and the aromantic community have still barely recovered. Many of us won't feel safe in queer spaces ever again. And now I see the same vile shit now attacking trans mascs. Slapping "TERFs DNI" on your bio is worth fuck all if you're fine with keeping the door wide open to the same scumbaggery wearing different hats. If you aren't also dedicated to stamping out this culture of oppression Olympics, of trying to find acceptable targets by conflating individuals with oppressive systems, and making social justice into a cudgel to beat people into submission with, we're always going to be vulnerable to self-righteous bottom-feeders out only to validate their own trauma by hurting anyone within reach.

Parasitogender/Parasitegender

Parasitogender, or Parasitegender: A xenogender that is described more like gender affirming against cisnormativity than a gender metaphor, like classic xenogenders. Is based off of a scientifical fact that recognizes that the pregnant body doesn't primarily sees the fetus as a baby or as something good, but as a parasite, it being the reason why so many couples have difficulties and struggle while getting a baby or why miscarriages are pretty common (noting that is also the reason why miscarriages are also called “spontaneous abortion”).

This xenogender can also be described with a form of resistance against patriarchy and it's cisnormativity, by finally accepting the duty/mission of destroying it completely; by being a threat, a menace or a parasite to the system and it's structure.

Okay, so, do y'all remember that one post where I said I was thinking about creating a xenogender, but I was unsure about it because it was not like the classic xenogenders? If you're seeing this now, it's because I finally got courage to post it adagrhdjtvsjrv XP

But, anyway, what is this xenogender in specific? Well, it's pretty complicated, but like in the first description is a identity reaffirming xenogender and/or a anti patriarchy and anti cisnormativity xenogender.

“Angel, how did you got this idea?” The first moment I heard the fact that we are basically parasites on our mother's (or father's/parent's, if you were generated in a non girly uterus) body, I instantly created an inside joke of mine:

“Well, if it's like this, than I'm nobody is biologically a man nor a woman, were biologically parasites, lmao”

And this tiny inside joke turned into something more: Like something that could be totally used against transphobes, in a way of mockery or pirraça (in english: tantrum in a annoying manner). I mean that could be perfect.

And getting this together with the fact that society doesn't even see us as humans, but as some kind of mental illness or a verminosis, we could be easily use this label and be like:

“You know what? Yeah, I am a mental illness. And my first symptom is burning your fat ass bigotry in hell. Say goodbye, bitch. *Insert gunshots.*"

And, stopping to think, it makes sense for this to be a completely valid xenogender, even if it's not a gender metaphor. Because it kind of shows that transphobes are actually pretty stupid and only use biology when it's convenient for them and for this oppressive system. So, what is better than being a parasite with the objective of ruining this hierarchy to make the world a better place for everyone?

Feminism has always, always had a history with Racism and White Supremacy - particularly in a way that promotes fascist leaning "Protection for Me and Mine" type "activism".

There have always been several Upper Class, White, Women at the helm of Feminist movements and it is something Poor, Working Class, Women of Color have been vocally criticizing since the First Wave.

I mean, US Americans, did you not learn about Sojourner Truth? Have you not read "Ain't I A Woman?"? It is one of the most famous early accounts of the racialized nature of gender. It perfectly highlights the way the social aspects of gender have always been barred from People of Color in a way they aren't barred from White People in a firsthand historical account.

Women's Suffrage, and subsequently the First Wave of Feminism was an actively Racially Segregated movement. White Suffragettes intentionally campaigned for themselves and themselves only because they thought that campaigning for Black, Immigrant, and Indigenous Women would undermine their own movement. They did not seek liberation for women, they sought the Systemic, Institutional Power of their White Male Peers and they got it - by intentionally leaving Women of Color behind them.

This is most evident in the fact that White Women received the right to vote in 1920, but Black Women did not receive the right to vote until 1965 with the Voting Rights Act. Almost 50 years later. That is over half a lifetime. This was also only approximately 2-3 years before Radical Feminism and the Second Wave began around 1967~1968.

If you think racial segregation and racism in the Feminist Movement ended with Black Women's suffrage and completely dissipated within the two years it took for the Second Wave to pick up it's feet, you are naïve at best and actively racist yourself at worst. The Women's Liberation Movement / Radical Feminism have always been White Woman's movements riding the coattails of the Suffragette's racism.

Look at the website for the Women's Liberation Front. WoLF is one of the original Radical Feminist organizations. It was founded in the late 60's and is one of the largest Radfem organizations to date. Now. Look at their board. Look at the photos of women they choose to include across their site. Look at the women who are speaking at their events. Beyond one or two token Black Women, it is a sea of Whiteness.

You know who is a special advisor to WoLF and the founder of the group "Standing for Women"? Kellie-Jay Keen-Minshull, aka Posie Parker. Kellie-Jay is the woman who popularized "Woman means adult human female" as an anti-trans slogan. Kellie-Jay is also real good buddies with - you guessed it! Neo-Nazis and White Supremacists!

WoLF also takes money from the Alliance Defending Freedom, (ADF) a Right Wing Christian Organization, and it's members have worked directly with the Heritage Foundation, a Conservative organization founded during the Reagan Presidency.

Radical Feminism as a political movement cares about the lives and held power of White Women under the guise of "Women's Liberation" in the exact same way as their foremothers, the Suffragettes. It's a foundationally White Supremacist movement. Black Feminists, Indigenous Feminists, Immigrant Feminists, and Colonized Feminists have been talking about this for over a century but it falls on White ears so why would they listen.

Not surprising coming from the president of a country that build itself from colonialism, imperialism, wars, bombing, military coups, military dictatorships and, of course, genocides.

You say the acceptance of my gender is the rejection of femininity

But why am I the bad guy for wearing a skirt with my beard

As you barate and harass kids and teens for ignoring the gender norms you swear to disdain

You said as a woman I could grow up to be anything so why can't I be a pretty boy

Does my sex decide my clothes my hair my jobs my name my fate

We are not enemies despite what you believe