[ gemini / divi + they& / it / ♊︎ ]
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having online friends who are busy is just like. I LOVE YOU. I miss you. YOU GOT THIS. I'm giving you space to work. I LOVE YOU.
Friendly reminder:
People with low to no empathy are still perfectly capable of being ‘good’ people.
The amount of empathy a person has is not indicative as to whether that person will be good or not; there are plenty of ‘bad’ people with high empathy.
Empathy is literally just feeling the emotions of others or adequately reading them.
You can still be compassionate and kind without the presence of empathy.
Empathy isn’t as important as society makes it seem.
Shoutout to the fictives & fictionkin who worry that they’re not similar enough to their source character.
Shoutout to the fictives & fictionkin who come across doubles with a sinking sense of dread or disappointment because they feel like someone else is more themself than they are.
Shoutout to the fictives & fictionkin who don’t have the same accent, or the same style, or the same sexuality/romantic orientation as their source character, but are still fictives & fictionkin of them.
You are valid regardless of how similar you are or aren’t to your source. It’s okay if you’ve changed since then and it’s okay if you’ve grown.
You are still every bit as valid—and worthy of just as much respect—as any other fictive, even if you aren’t as close to your source as others are.
To endogenic systems: The proof that endogenic systems are real is you
queer system call us a fruit salad
WOAH
Comedian
[PT: Comedian]
“A comedian is a headmate that brings comic relief during stressful situations. This may be in the headspace, or while controlling the body. Some examples include making jokes to comfort upset system members or taking control of the body to do something fun as a coping mechanism.” - Pluralpedia(link)
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[Tag] @radiomogai, @pluralitywords, @pluralterms, & @system-term-archive
actually you know what . appreciation post bc as a traumagenic system who splits involuntarily, frequently, and with a lot of less developed alters, i look up tulpamancy and willogenic practices and it helps US !!! it helps those nondeveloped headmates to feel more like people!!! so!!!!! thank you for that!!! NO SYSCOURSE ON THIS POST ILL KILLLL YOUUUU
little and non-human alters being surprised by the body's hands for the 800th time:
If it is right to lock away one headmate it is right to away any headmate.
Persecutors are not suddenly inhuman because you label them as persecutors, they are as deserving of respect as any other headmate.
system stuff sometimes is like.
yes im an ancient godly power from another realm
and yes im doing our math homework because no one else wants to do it
Reasons someone may not have replied that aren’t the bad reasons your brain suggests to you (they’re mad, stopped caring, you aren’t important, etc).
They’re asleep/resting.
They have no service.
They want to take time to form their reply.
They don’t have the energy to reply right now.
They’re working / don’t have access to their phone.
They accidentally opened the notification and meant to reply and got distracted (this doesn’t mean they don’t care either! I do this a lot and I love my loved ones dearly. My brain is just chaotic sometimes.)
They’re in a really bad place.
They’re in a situation where it’s rude to use their phone.
They really just want a break from talking to people.
They are enjoying a movie, game, activity, etc.
Something came up they had to deal with asap.
They may have thought they responded (I’ve gone to check a text convo only to see my message sitting in the typing box and I hadn’t hit “send”)
A lot of the time, to challenge irrational thoughts we need alternative explanations to combat them. Here are some for a situation when a loved one hasn’t replied to you. I encourage you to plan for other situations that come up for you as well.
sometimes being a system is so crowded, ur never alone, ur brain always buzzing and swarming with bees
but its also having a moment of ignorance, forgetting ur a system and listening to music only to hear someone right in ur ear say "can you change the fucking song already???" in the most annoyed voice and scare the dog shit outta u
*at the alter store* uhhhh they're all out of normal guys
Traumagenics and Endogenics are best friends and they love each other, btw.
hello! just dropping in to say that your in-sys relationship(s) are valid and absolutely adorable! <3
Everyone talks about these detailed and fleshed out headspaces meanwhile our headspace is this:
requested by: 💜♠️anon
requests are open!!
Let's give some love to the body-sharers who fucking died in a past life! I know it's fucking lonely but you were given another chance, live again and live fucking loudly! I know it fucking hurts to know you died, I know it fucking hurts to feel like you failed at life, but we didn't. We're here again, even if its all changed we're still ourselves and we will try again even better than the last time! Up from the grave like phoenixes! Lets conquer our fucking afterlife! - SCALD
Star Themed System Names + Names!
Requested by anon!
System Names: (The) Milkyway (Galaxy/Collective), (The) Constellation (Map/System), Ecliptic (System/Collective/etc.), (The) Zodiac Council, (The) Supernova Organization, (The) Astral Regime, Celestial (System/Collective/etc.), Astronomical Network, (The) Luminary Administration, (The) Stellar Powers That Be, (The) Starry Complex, (The) Interstellar Order.
Names: Stella, Estella, Aries, Taurus, Pisces, Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Leo, Astra, Andromeda, Apollo, Bellatrix, Aster, Atlas, Callisto, Capella, Celeste, Cassiopeia, Danica, Esther, Nova, Nora, Caelum, Arche, Antares, Alzir, Astro, Astrophel, Canis, Cyrus, Dara, Indus, Navi, Orion.
- We meet someone
- They start questioning their singlethood
- We meet someone
- We meet someone
- We meet someone
- We meet someone
by now we all know and support the fact that in-sys relationships are real, but so is in-sys trauma. in-sys arguments can be just as upsetting as irl ones. in-sys breakups. in-sys abuse. in-sys traumatic events of any kind. people affected by them are just as valid as people affected by real-world trauma or exotrauma and i see very few people discussing it.
i see u guys. i love u. be kind to yourselves today <3