So Real

So real

Being a “nice girl” doesn’t get you anywhere. Ofc you need to be polite but you also need to be assertive and direct. Speak up, say no, ask for what you want. Demand it even. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

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“I must change my life so that I can live it, not wait for it.”

— Susan Sontag, Reborn: Journals and Notebooks, 1947-1964

don’t be someone’s “sometimes”. if they can’t see your value all of the time, they aren’t even worth any of your time. either you’re all in, or you’re all out.

Love, what a beautiful thing

“When you love someone, you are sure. You don’t need time to decide. You don’t say stop and start over and over, like you’re playing some kind of sport. You know the immensity of what you have and you protect it.”

— Nina LaCour, Everything Leads to You