tohliamalpha - Alpha Pup from Canada
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Rules For All Slaves

Rules for all slaves

My Masters rules are:

The proper way of things.

i.e the way it will be

As My slave you have no rights; in fact you have nothing at all.

You will take your place in  fully recognizing the truth of My Supremacy, My Superiority and your own lowly status.

You will obey My commands eagerly to the letter without questioning any of them and you will accept My authority and judgment of your servitude. My word is law and My whip is the implement of its enforcement.

You will spend all your waking hours learning to exist exclusively for My pleasure, comfort, and glory and that of all masters .

You will not allow your mind to wander even for a moment from Me and when it is not occupied in My service you will remember that all you do is at My whim and command. Even the basic privileges for you to eat and sleep, are mine to command.

Do not expect to be cared for in the normally accepted meaning. In My world you will be valued for what you are (a slave) provided your servitude is acceptable. Understand that it will never be perfect in My eyes. You are considered nothing more than an object of My property. You will never forget that you, as a slave, are merely My plaything, a work horse and toy existing only for My service, amusement and pleasure. In your role as My slave I need merely to look after your welfare. You will be kept fit for purpose.

From this moment you will be known as “slave”. If there are, at any times, more than one  slave present you will be known as “slave S” or simply “S”.

All of the following rules which are for guidance in your servitude to your superior will apply from henceforth. I will expect absolute adherence to these rules in every detail.

Any failure on your part to follow the rules in every detail will result in punishment administered spontaneously or extended over a period of time determined by me.

       Slave Rules      

applicable to S, slave of

master

RULE 1

I make the rules and can change them and add to them at any time

RULE 2

slave has no entitlement to discuss the rules or question them in any way.

Appearance

RULE 3

Nakedness for a slave is an overt sign that the slave owns nothing. slave will therefore never be permitted clothes in the house unless there are visitors who are unaware of its status and may be embarrassed.

RULE 4

If we have been away from the  home, on return slave will, after any other routine duties, immediately remove its clothes and kneel at my feet to await instructions.

RULE 5

The following (highlighted in red) will be worn at ALL times with the single exception of when passing through airport metal detection equipment.

a stainless steel collar. This will be permanently locked in place.

A thick stainless steel ring around the base of its cock and balls.

a stainless steel chastity device, 24/7/365. This will be locked in place.

stainless steel wrist and ankle cuffs..

Rings piercing Its nipples and penis head.

A chain between its nipple rings.

A heavy steel cock ring-butt plug combination, locked behind its chastity cage.

(This will be worn for periods of up to 12 hours for anal training).

slave will be branded with My initial, such branding to be repeated yearly on its birthday.

slave will have its international slave registry number tattooed  at the back of its neck and on its buttocks.

RULE 6

slave will shower, shave its face, head, under arms and pubic area first thing daily.

RULE 7

slave will keep its whole body free from hair using an electric epilator.

BASIC RULES OF RESPECT

RULE 8

slave will treat all  masters as its superiors.

RULE 9

slave will address Me as ‘Master’ and all other  masters as ’Sir’.

RULE 10

In the presence of  masters slave will be on its knees unless carrying something or performing a task which requires it to stand.

RULE 11

slave’s eyes will be always lowered so that it looks only at its superiors’ feet.

RULE 12

slave will remain silent unless spoken to.

RULE 13

slave will never turn its back on a master.

RULE 14

If slave meets a master anywhere in the house whilst carrying out its duties it will immediately kneel, nose on the floor, until He has passed and is out of sight.

RULE 15

If I or any master enters the space where slave is working it will remain kneeling, position 2 until it is ordered to resume its work or carry out some other command or until I leave.

RULE 16

slave will accord all  masters the same respect as it accords Me

RULE 17

slave will obey all commands from  masters as if directed by Me

RULE 18

slave will beg permission to do anything that is not a direct order from me.

RULE 19

slave will adopt certain postures in different situations as a sign of its submission and respect for its superiors. These postures will be assigned numbers. If slave hears any of these numbers it will immediately adopt the required posture.

Postures.

1 on its knees, nose on the floor, arms straight outstretched towards Master, buttocks raised, thighs spread as wide as possible. This is its normal posture in the presence of any  male.

2 kneeling upright, hands folded tightly in back, shoulders pulled back, chest forward, belly sucked in. knees will be spread as wide as possible (at least 90 deg), head bowed down to chest.

3 as position 2 but with forehead and nose on the floor.  This is a kneeling bow.

4 Buttocks on heels, knees spread as position 2. Hands grasping ankles, hips thrust forwards and upwards, head forced right back.

This is a position for punishment.

5 standing, legs spread as wide as possible, arms folded tightly in back, chest forward, stomach sucked in, head bowed to chin

6 as position 5 but with body bent forward with head level with knees. This is a standing bow.

7 as position 5 but with hands placed on top of head. This is a position for both punishment and inspection.

8 standing, legs spread as wide as possible, body bent forward from waist to grasp ankles.

This is a position for punishment.

9 kneeling as in position 2 but with hands held in front, palms together as in prayer.

This is the supplication position slave will use to beg for permission to speak. slave remains in this position until spoken to.

10 flat on its belly, legs spread wide, arms stretched out towards Master

MOVEMENT AROUND THE HOUSE

Rule 20

Crawling

Crawling on all fours will be its normal method of movement anywhere in the sight of any  male, unless in public view. slave will crawl only with its nose rubbing the floor. slave will be expected to keep pace with Master whether leashed or not

RULE 21

entering My space on its knees.

Slave will enter the room crawling.

It will crawl to a position directly in front of Me,

kneel up in position 2, and then bow.

If carrying an object held it its teeth it will present the object to me.

Finally it will adopt position 1

Rule 22

Entering My space on its feet  

slave will only ever do this if it is carrying an object too large to be carried held between its teeth.

eyes are to be cast down looking only at My feet.

slave will halt in front of me and adopt position 5 then bow..

Once upright it will kneel in position 2, holding the object it is carrying for Me to reach.  

Its arms are to be straight and its head is to be bowed between them.

When I take the object it will remain in position until I click My fingers, if I do so it will adopt position 1.

Rule 23

leaveing My space on its knees

This will be its normal method of leaving My space. slave will crawl backwards until it is about to leave My sight. Bow and then leave the room.

Rule 24

Leaving My space on its feet.

slave will do this only when carrying a large object and it is not possible to crawl.  slave will walk backwards until it is about to disappear from sight.  It will bow and then leave the room.

RULE 25

STANDING BOW

slave will adopt position 5. then bend forward from the waist lowering its head to the height of its knees.  Finally it will adopt position 5 again.

RULE 26

Kneeling bow

slave will adopt position 2, bow to position 3. then adopt position 2.

PUNISHMENTS

RULE 27

slave will be punished for any deviation from the rules. This punishment may be instantaneous or deferred until later at My discretion.

For punishment slave will adopt position according to number given.

RULE 28

The  ‘ONE, TWO, TEN RULE’

For all acts of servitude I will, at any time, assess its performance on a scale from 1 through 10. (10 being perfect).

For each mark below 10 slave will receive a number of strokes of the cane or whip.

How many strokes awarded for each point below 10 will be decided by Me depending on My degree of dissatisfaction with slave’s servitude, the maximum number being 10.

As a guide

For sloppy adoption of any posture :-             1 or 2

For lateness or failing to bow :-                       2 or 3

For incorrect speech :-                                              3 or 4

For inattentiveness whilst serving :-               4 or 5

For unsatisfactory sexual servitude

or actual disobedience :-                               up to 10

However the final number is at My discretion.

Note that these are the number of strokes for each point below 10. Thus the maximum number is 100!

If performance does not improve after the application of this rule the number of strokes will be increased.

When I inform slave of my assessment slave will confirm its acquiescence by performing a kneeling bow and kissing My feet.

slave will offer no excuses and remain silent.

RULE 29

There are no excuses for unsatisfactory performance. slave will offer none.

RULE 30

When I inform slave of any dissatisfaction it will adopt position 2 and bow.

RULE 31

Following punishment slave will perform a kneeling bow twice then, crawl forward and kiss My feet. Then it will adopt position 1

RULE 32

FETCHING AN IMPLIMENT OF PUNISHMENT

slave will carry implement held between its teeth. It will crawl to a position in front of me and adopt position 2, it will bow and crawl forward to present the implement to Me. slave will crawl backwards, bow again and adopt position 1

COMMUNICATION

.

acknowledging a command

RULE 33

When I give slave a command slave will acknowledge the command by kneeling up and performing a kneeling bow. It will remain so until I give a signal to obey the command.

It is unlikely that the signal will be anything other than the click of My fingers. However I may add further instructions e.g. ‘you have five minutes’.

slave will then crawl from the room

RULE 34

If standing slave will kneel, bow, and  wait for My signal to obey. slave will then crawl from the room.

RULE 35

Asking permission to speak

slave will adopt position 9 and wait until spoken to.

RULE 36

REPORTING COMPLETION OF TASK SET

slave will adopt position 9.

When spoken to slave will say

‘Master,  slave has completed its task’.

RULE 37

SPEAKING

In response to a question slave will begin every sentence with ‘Master’ or Sir’.

It will never use  the word  ‘you’ or ‘your’.  It will use Master’ or Master’s

It will always refer to itself as ‘slave’.

DUTIES AS WAITER

RULE 38

slave will prepare and cook any meals as directed.

RULE 39

slave will serve all meals at times and in places decided by Me. Menus will be decided by Me.

SERVING REFRESHMENTS

RULE 40

Refreshments are to be served on the small circular tray

slave will stand, position 5 and bow.  It will then kneel in position 2 and hold the tray within My reach. Its head bowed.

it will maintain this position until dismissed.

RULE 41

SERVING AT TABLE

slave will assist each master present to his seat, bowing both before and afterwards.

To serve a dish slave will approach, bow and set the dish down on the table. It will then bow again. When everyone is served slave will kneel in position 2

RULE 42

FILLING GLASSES

If anyone’s glass is empty, slave will stand, bow, refill the glass, bow again and kneel. If the master places his hand over the glass this signifies his wish to have no more. slave will bow and kneel.

RULE 43

REMOVING EMPTY PLATES

slave must pay attention throughout the meal. Empty dishes must be removed immediately everyone has finished the course.

slave will stand, bow, collect the plate, bow again and walks backwards towards the door.

RULE 44

AT THE END OF THE MEAL

When everyone rises from the table, slave will adopt position 3 until all have left the room. slave will then carry out instructions as ordered.

When completed slave will report same to Me.

RULE 45

slave will eat from a bowl on the floor after serving Me and any  masters and after reporting that the kitchen is clean and tidy.

RULE 46

Prepared food will never be reheated for slave to eat.

RULE 47

If slave is permitted to eat with masters it will be on the floor, kneeling or on its belly. It will be attentive to the needs of those at table, i.e., empty plates/glasses etc.

RULE 48

slave will drink only water.

GENERAL RULES.

DOMESTIC DUTIES

I may wish to retain some domestic chores for Myself but any domestic chore will be carried out by slave at my command.

slave will be ready at all times to immediately stop what it is doing and attend to the task he is ordered to do when summoned.

RULE 49

slave will keep the house clean and tidy. It will clean tidy and hoover all spaces at least once per week.

RULE 50

slave will tidy all bedrooms and make all beds on a daily basis.

RULE 51

slave will launder all clothing.

RULE 52

slave will keep my shoes/boots clean at all times

RULE 53

slave will clean any shower or bath after my use.

RULE 54

Discarded clothes in my bedroom are to be carried to laundry crawling with clothes held between slave’s teeth.

RULE 55

slave will iron My clothes and any other masters’ clothes as directed.

MISCELANEOUS DUTIES

RULE 56

slave will light cigarettes for all  masters.

RULE 57

slave will kneel holding ashtray if required

RULE 58

slave will act as table as directed

RULE 59

slave will kneel or stand holding a lamp for any  male.

RULE 60

slave will kneel or stand holding a sunshade for any master in the garden.

RULE 61

slave will act as footstool for any master

RULE 62

slave will lick the boots of any  male on demand

slave has no access to furniture; its position is on the floor.

RULE 64

slave may not use any toilet seat. Those are for the comfort of masters.

ROUTINES

RULE 65

MORNING TEA

slave will bring my morning tea as prescribed at exactly 07,30. Anything more that 30 seconds late will result in punishment.

slave will put the tray down and kiss my feet reverently beneath the bed clothes.  As I awaken slave will adopt position 5 holding the tray.

When I click my fingers slave will bow and serve the tea kneeling at the side of the bed, position 2. slave will wait until I replace the cup onto the tray. It will stand, bow and wait to be dismissed.

RULE 66

BREAKFAST

If I require breakfast in bed slave will serve it at the time stated. Lateness of more than 30 seconds will result in punishment.

Breakfast will be served on a large tray in the same manner as morning tea. slave will pay attention to any changes in My requirements

RULE 67

Whilst I shower slave will set out My clothes as directed

RULE 68

Following My shower or a bath slave will dry My body softly and reverently

RULE 69

slave will run My bath at any time as directed.

RULE 70

slave will soap and rinse My body in the bath

LEAVING THE HOUSE

WHEN I GO OUT

RULE 71

If I am going out slave will fetch the shoes/boots I have specified and wait in the lobby on its knees

RULE 72

slave will assist me with shoes/boots having first kissed each foot.

RULE 73

slave will fetch any coat and other things I require as directed.

RULE 74

After handing them to me slave will kneel position 2, bow and kiss my feet. slave will then adopt position 3  in the lobby until I have left the house and closed the door

WHEN I ARRIVE HOME

RULE 75

I will expect to see slave kneeling in the lobby when I open the door. slave will crawl forward, bow and kiss My boots. It will then kneel in position 3 for instructions.

RULE 76

If slave has been chained up whilst I am out it will perform this gesture at the end of its chain as I approach.

WHEN SLAVE IS PERMITTED TO LEAVE THE HOME (accompanied)

RULE 77

slave will beg Me for clothing which I may direct.

RULE 78

slave will walk one pace behind Me to My left

RULE 79

slave will open all doors for Me and all  masters

RULE 80

slave will carry all object for Me. E.g. shopping, valise etc

RULE 81

slave will never sit in public without permission it will wait for a signal from Me.

RULE 82

slave will never initiate conversation

RULE 83

Unless others can hear slave will use normal forms of address and speech patterns.

RULE 84

In the presence of others slave’s speech will be polite and respectful

When slave is allowed to leave the house (unaccompanied)

RULE 85

slave will beg Me for clothing, which I may direct.

RULE 86

slave will present itself and kiss my feet before leaving

RULE 87

slave will always return on or before the time directed

RULE 88

On its return slave will immediately strip naked and present itself to me, position 1. When I click my fingers slave will kneel, bow and kiss my feet.

WHEN SLAVE IS REQUIRED TO PERFORM TASKS OUTSIDE THE HOUSE REQUIRING CLOTHES.

RULE 89

slave will beg Me for clothing and dress as directed, it will present itself for any final instructions, kiss my feet and exit my space.

RULE 90

If slave has need to ask Me a question in order to complete its task it may do so without removing its clothes. However all other rituals must be observed?

RULE 91

When slave has completed its task it will immediately strip naked, and present itself in the normal fashion.

It will adopt position 9 (supplication). When acknowledged it will adopt position 2 and report on the completion of its task.

DUTIES AS SEX SLAVE

RULE 92

slave will be required to perform any act of sexual servitude to Me and to other masters if directed by me.

RULE 93

slave will submit to anal rape  in acceptance of its status and the sexual dominance of its Master and all other masters.

RULE 94

slave will spread its ass cheeks with its fingers unless its hands are cuffed, as a sign of submission and subjugation to the master’s cock.

RULE 95

slave will thoroughly clean any master’s cock or other device used for anal rape, with its mouth and tongue as soon as permitted .

RULE 96

slave will be required to use its hands and/or tongue when performing massage of any part of Master’ body or that of any master.

RULE 97

slave will be required to offer its mouth or anus for the most intimate service to Me or any master at any time.

RULE 98

After the performance of acts of sexual servitude slave will kneel, bow and kiss the feet of the male who has used him. Such homage to the male form will continue until slave is ordered to the floor. Slave will kneel, bow 3 times and adopt position 1

RULE 99

Acts of sexual servitude will be deemed as completed only when I or any master orders slave to the floor.

The slave accepts everything written above and enters full slave servitude from this moment.

signed……………………………………   slave

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How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

1:  You  need to get into his head.

-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

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- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

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- Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

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- Wash his mouth out with soap.

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- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

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- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

-Humiliate him often.

- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

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- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

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- Talk sexy to him.

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- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

- Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

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-      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

-      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

-      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

-      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

-      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

-      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

-      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

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- Make him masturbate for You.

- Slap him in the face.

- Spit on him.

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- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

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- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

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- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

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- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

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- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

-  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

-  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

- Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

-Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

4 years ago

Consent

I can give you a singular experience—a truly unique experience that you won’t find in any other place. I’ve done it twice before, and I can tell you it’s hard work. I depend on some friends with a variety of… unique skills. But as I said, it’s a pretty fucking amazing experience.

There’s just one hitch: this is an all-or-nothing sort of thing. Once you start, you’re committed for the duration, and that duration starts at a week and may go much longer, depending on how much you take to it. You’ve got to give complete consent to giving total control over to me, and I mean ALL control.

You can’t imagine the scope of what I’m asking, so let me take a few minutes to get really explicit about what “total control” means. There are actually five realms of “total control” and you have to agree to all of them.

The first is physical control. I may restrain you, making you immobile or simply restricting the use of your arms or legs, such as putting you in a straitjacket. You may be gagged, blindfolded, hooded. But when I say “total physical control” that also means you may be shaved or pierced or tattooed or your body parts may otherwise be modified or enhanced or enlarged. Oh, and it goes without saying that my friends and I will be exposing you to sexual acts: fucking and being fucked, that sort of thing. We’ll be in charge of your mouth and your cock and your ass.

Next is a little similar—that’s pharmacological control, and by that I mean drugs. I may at any time administer substances, whether orally, anally, inhaled or even by injection. You may receive any drug that can affect your mind or body. There are drugs that simply impair judgement or make you suggestible, and there are others that induce overwhelming arousal or euphoria, or cause temporary amnesia.

The third realm has some overlap with the last one, and that’s mind control. You may be programmed or hypnotized or, as I said before, drugged. Your mind may be implanted with various triggers or urges, or other sorts of behavioral conditioning.

The fourth has a lot of crossover with the last one, and that’s control over your memory. I may induce a sort of amnesia so that you don’t know who you are or how you came to be in your current situation. I might remove your entire identity and replace it with one of my choosing, along with false memories. Or I may suspend your ability to record memory, so that I can interrogate you about things that you later don’t remember having told me. Hell, I could even erase the entire next week so that once you emerge out the other end you’ve got no idea whatever happened to you!

The fifth realm of control is arousal. You may become helpless to your hidden or suppressed desires and fetishes, or I may create and implant new fetishes and make it so that you don’t realize you haven’t had them all your life. Your sexual arousal may get so heightened, by prolonged edging or other means, that you will do anything or surrender anything in order to get release. I’m serious: you might get so horny that you lose control of your mind and actions! That may become part of your conditioning regimen where I continually build your sexual arousal to the breaking point where you surrender your mind to me, only to have me put you in isolation to rest so that hours later I can repeat the entire process.

So that’s what total control is. You’ve got to give me consent up-front to any and all of this. I promise you won’t come to any permanent physical harm, but I can’t promise that you won’t be permanently changed by the experience. On the contrary, I promise that this will change you, but you’ll love it. Once you come out the other side, you’ll be so happy that you took the plunge.

Now, there’s one other thing about this opportunity: it’s a one-time offer. You can’t tell me next week that you’ve mulled it over and you’re ready to go. It actually has to be now or never. There’s something about the heightened stakes of taking a totally blind spur-of-the-moment plunge that makes this process work. You can’t “make preparations first” or anything like that. I’ll take care of family, friends or work—you’ll essentially be calling in sick or going on an unexpected work trip, or something like that. My friends and I will help create the backstory and cover for you.

If you want to give your consent, there’s something specific you have to do. It’s sort of a ritual that you have to initiate in order to make it clear that you’re not just passively agreeing. I’ve been video recording this conversation so that it’s clear you’ve heard and understand what this entails, and that you’ve given consent freely. You have to do three things in order.

First, you have to swallow this pill. I’ll tell you right now that it’s a combination of a mild hallucinogenic and a hypnotic. It’ll make you a bit happy and horny and suggestible, and you’ll feel it kick-in in about five or ten minutes.

Consent

Second, you must put this muzzle on yourself. You put this penis-shaped gag in your mouth and bite down on it, and then the straps go around your head and snap into place in the back. See, this is where the small buckle is, right here. And then you put this miniature padlock through the ring and lock it in place. I’ve got a mirror to help you see what you’re doing.

Consent

The last thing is something you’ll need my help with. I’ll hold out these two fist-mitts. You’ll need to put a hand in each one and then make a fist, and then I’ll tighten the strap securely around your wrists. Up until that point, you can back out of this, and you won’t be committed. Even if you’ve taken the pill, put on the muzzle, and gotten your first hand secured in its fist mitt… even then you can shake your head and just not put your hand in the last glove and you can back out. That’s okay. I’ll make sure you have a great time, and we’ll have some freaky-intense sex.

Consent

It’s at the moment that I’ve secured the fist mitt over your second wrist that you’ve past the point of no return. That’s when I own you. That when you give up control across all five of those realms I spoke of. That’s when you start down the journey of becoming another person.