77 And 92 From The Ask Because Im Feeling Romantic

77 and 92 from the ask because I’m feeling romantic

77. Ever been in love?

Yes, with 3 women

92. Do you want to get married

Already done marriage at 17, we never divorced as she died in 2009

need a fwb... father with benefits

📢🚨Rant time, folks! 🚨📢

So, everyone know I’m all about that Daddy Dom life—caring, protective, making sure everyone’s having a good time and staying safe. But lately, I’ve been seeing way too many so-called "Doms" out here who are straight-up missing the point.

Let me just say this loud and clear: Being a Dom does NOT give you the right to be a jerk. I’m talking about those dudes who think they can just slide into someone’s DMs with demands or "orders" without so much as a "Hi, how are you?" first. Like, what happened to basic respect? This isn’t some fast-food drive-thru where you can just order up a sub or a little with a side of kinks.

Being a Dom means more than just barking orders—it’s about connection, trust, and mutual respect. You don’t get to bypass the whole "getting to know you" phase just because you’ve slapped a "Dom" label on yourself. That’s not dominance, that’s entitlement, and it’s toxic as hell for our community.

And don’t even get me started on the "faux Doms" who think they’re God’s gift to subs just because they can spout off a few buzzwords. Real talk? If you’re not taking the time to understand the other person, their needs, and their boundaries, you’re doing it wrong. This lifestyle is about creating a safe, consensual space where everyone involved feels respected and valued—not about feeding your ego at someone else’s expense.

To those of you who are new to the lifestyle, please take your time. Learn, listen, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. We’ve all been there, and there’s no shame in taking it slow. But to the "Doms" who are out here acting like the rules don’t apply to you? Knock it off. You’re making the lifestyle toxic, and it’s not okay.

Let’s keep this space safe, fun, and respectful for everyone involved. If you’re in it for the power trip, then you’re not in it for the right reasons.

Alright, rant over. Back to your regularly Daddy Texts content.

Stay safe.

Intro Post

Name: Alex

Age: 41

Pronouns: He/Him

Location: UK

(Though I have D.I.D (and yes its diagnosed) so this can fluctuate to they/them)

I’ve been on Tumblr for a long time, possibly as long as its been around in various incarnations, I also have a secondary blog which is more socially acceptable. I have to appear normal now and again after all.

I’m literally old enough to be your father and admittedly I enjoy this fact. I also have children older than you. Don’t forget these two facts. They’re very important in remembering who I am fundamentally. I’m also very much single these days.

Secondly, I’ve been in the kink scene for quite some time, over three decades in fact, so I know what I’m doing, I’ve watched grow, and evolve, new kinks created and some disappear.

Which therefore makes this an 18+ zone, minors please DNI.

Thirdly this is fantasy, imaginary what ifs, the things I enjoy or that get me hot, however, CONSENT is critical, therefore I would never practice without a conversation long before anything happened. Kink is fun and I’ve no problem pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable but some lines aren’t to be crossed. Safe and consensually crazed is my wheel house.

I also run an 18+ kinky discord and we have a lot of fun there with more planned as we grow.

Kinks: Its probably shorter to list what I’m not into, and they can change depending on who I’m playing with. But constants are CNC, DDLG, R@PE PLAY, ROLEPLAY, FREE USE, SPANKING, CREAMP1E, FORC3D BR33DING.

Limits: Scat … just no.

The point of this post is a little get-to-know-me. Feel free to ask questions on anything else you may wish to know I have an ask box after all.

1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged? 2. You talked to an ex today, correct? 3. Have you taken someones virginity? 4. Is trust a big issue for you? 5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently? 6. What are you excited for? 7. What happened tonight? 8. Do you think it’s disgusting when girls get really wasted? 9. Is confidence cute? 10. What is the last beverage you had? 11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust? 12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans? 13. What are you gonna do Saturday night? 14. What are you going to spend money on next? 15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed? 16. Do you think you’ll change in the next 3 months? 17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything? 18. The last time you felt broken? 19. Have you had sex today? 20. Are you starting to realize anything? 21. Are you in a good mood? 22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks? 23. Are your eyes the same color as your dad’s? 24. What do you want right this second? 25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy? 26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color? 27. Would you be able to date someone who doesn’t make you laugh? 28. What was the last thing that made you laugh? 29. Do you really, truly miss someone right now? 30. Does everyone deserve a second chance? 31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to? 32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do? 33. Are you one of those people who never drinks soda? 34. Listening to? 35. Do you ever write in pencil anymore? 36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is? 37. Do you believe in love at first sight? 38. Who did you last call? 39. Who was the last person you danced with? 40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed? 41. When was the last time you ate a cupcake? 42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today? 43. Ever embarrass yourself in front of a crush? 44. Do you tan in the nude? 45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss? 46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night? 47. Who was the last person to call you? 48. Do you sing in the shower? 49. Do you dance in the car? 50. Ever used a bow and arrow? 51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer? 52. Do you think musicals are cheesy? 53. Is Christmas stressful? 54. Ever eat a pierogi? 55. Favorite type of fruit pie? 56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid? 57. Do you believe in ghosts? 58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling? 59. Take a vitamin daily? 60. Wear slippers? 61. Wear a bath robe? 62. What do you wear to bed? 63. First concert? 64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart? 65. Nike or Adidas? 66. Cheetos Or Fritos? 67. Peanuts or Sunflower seeds? 68. Favorite Taylor Swift song? 69. Ever take dance lessons? 70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing? 71. Can you curl your tongue? 72. Ever won a spelling bee? 73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy? 74. What is your favorite book? 75. Do you study better with or without music? 76. Regularly burn incense? 77. Ever been in love? 78. Who would you like to see in concert? 79. What was the last concert you saw? 80. Hot tea or cold tea? 81. Tea or coffee? 82. Favorite type of cookie? 83. Can you swim well? 84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose? 85. Are you patient? 86. DJ or band, at a wedding? 87. Ever won a contest? 88. Ever have plastic surgery? 89. Which are better black or green olives? 90. Opinions on sex before marriage? 91. Best room for a fireplace? 92. Do you want to get married

"That's it kiddo, you can take it" While you cry and tell me you can't