This Im Going To Win At Therapy Or Im Going To Be Toxic With My Therapist Mentality Some People Have.

This “I’m going to win at therapy” or “I’m going to be toxic with my therapist…” mentality some people have.

Look. You have to be willing to do the work yourself. If you don’t, your therapist gets paid anyways, but you don’t get better

Also I think we need to get rid of the idea that therapy is just a paid bestie for you to vent at because like therapy is so much more than ranting to someone it's challenging your internal cognitive disconnects and replacing maladaptive coping mechanisms and a whole bunch of other stuff and involves you putting in as much work as the therapist but I feel like that part is lost on people

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reblog if youre the kind of person that checks other ppl’s tags when they reblog ur stuff

My old person trait is that I think a website should work in a web browser and not try to open an app

qwydion: *exists*

me:

Literally just romanticize your own life. What’s stopping you. Who will care. Commit to enjoying things.