I Want To Melt Into Someone's Arms And Feel Safe.

I want to melt into someone's arms and feel safe.

REAL

dating to marry? at 20? I wish I was like u. I'm not bring taken serious

yeah it may seem silly to date to marry this young but i have no interest in dating around, i just wanna find my soulmate and be done with it 😭

What’s a girl got to do to get drowned in kisses

Why you can’t use stud if you white: A TED Talk

Differences in black masculinity and white masculinity. So like in ye olden days, lots of butches presented as men because it was safer for them to pass, yet that wasn’t really true for studs who were targeted regardless of gender, because racism. Homophobia and shit has always been so rampant within the black community because of respectability politics. Being Queer was seen as white. Black people, but more specifically black women,  really didn’t get rights at the same rate as whites. Any sort of deviance was punished even more aggressively.

Studs deal with over sexualization, except with added fetishization. We are seen as naturally more aggressive than our white counterparts, because black masculinity is seen as more aggressive, even in queer spaces. One of the other terms for Studs is AG, which stands for Aggressive, a reclamation of what we have always been called, now used for confidence .

I’ve linked a good doc to the stud experience.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna473796

nbcnews.com

Filmmaker Explores Black Lesbian Identities in 'The Same Difference'

Nneka Onuorah’s film, “The Same Difference”, is a presentation of an unflinching view of lesbianism.

I’m not saying I want a butch to look at my face and instantaneously fall in love w me but I am saying that yes

Dating me is so easy!! All you have to do is kiss me every two minutes!