I Love My Fellow Femmes So Much! I Love You I Love You I Love You ! Femme Solidarity Should Always Be

I love my fellow femmes so much! I love you I love you I love you ! Femme solidarity should always be a priority in our community, it’s not a race and we’re not trynna outfemme each other out here; if you really think, as a femme, that other femmes are in some sort of competition with you, maybe you should re evaluate your position within our community because maybe you’re not as safe for us as you think you are.

i need a butch who will hold me and be patient with me when i cry

Huge commotion for the butches who can't or won't work out. To the butches who can't play any sports. To the butches who can't build or fix. To the butches who don't have the physical strength that can be so romanticized in online—but not only—spaces. To the butches who need any type of mobility aid. To the butches with any type of mental disability. To the butches with chronic conditions. To the shy or reserved butches. To the fat butches. To the butches who desire to be sought out. To the butches who can't or won't make the first move. To the butches who still suffer with the predatory stigma. To the butches with softer voices and softer personalities. To the transfeminine butches. To the submissive butches. To the average sized butches. To the butches with long hair. To the she/her, he/him, they/them, or any other combination of butches. To the butches who embrace their own brand of femininity or their own brand of masculinity. To the butches on E. To the butches on T. To the butches who decided to undergo top surgery. To the butches who decided against it. To the butches who have chosen a new name for themselves...

To every butch who doesn't fit into the tough stereotype, and who does not necessarily need to fit into any other type of stereotype.

To every butch who feels they won't ever find someone who truly sees them, loves them...

You will.

THIS #femme #lesbian #femme4butch

i strive for a level of feminine expression that nauseates men and attracts butches.

Shoutout to femmes:

With deep raspy voices

Who don’t always dress in high femme clothing

Who like to fix and tinker with things

Who have muscles and like to flex them (🙋🏽‍♀️)

Fat femmes

POC femmes, especially black femmes (and black mascs, butches and studs yall dont get enough love)

Trans femmes

He/him femmes

Loud femmes, femmes who aren’t afriad to have their voice heard

And finally, shoutout to the femmes who arent always traditionally feminine 🫶🏽 Being femmes comes in all different shapes, races, ethnicities, nationalities, aesthetics, sizes and personalities

being femme4butch is so much more than loving butches romantically. it requires femmes to consistently prioritize their love of community and being a safe place for butches above our own attraction to them. that being said, so many femmes perpetuate the sexualization, fetishization, and objectification of butches. we are supposed to be their safety. butches should not feel unsafe within their own community. plus, this kind of behavior often targets studs, butches of color, and trans butches.

unfortunately, problematic behavior from femmes can be written off as flirtatious and cutesy, when in reality it is harmful and potentially predatory. femmes, we need to hold each other accountable. it is our responsibility to keep our community safe for butches. if you are going to call yourself a femme, prioritizing and protecting butch safety needs to come before your own attraction to them.