The Greatest Lesson In Life Is Learning To Say No.

The greatest lesson in life is learning to say no.

When something doesn’t benefit you, say no. Don’t like doing favors? say no. If someone is giving you the bare minimum, say no. If their energy isn’t right, say no.

Your energy is sacred. Stop wasting your time appeasing irrelevance. Become an expert at saying no and conserve your energy.

It’s always the ones less than you in looks, status, appearance and power who are hungry for your downfall. Always watch them carefully — drop them at the slightest act of disrespect. It will only get worse.

literally never underestimate how contagious kindness is. I saw on venmo that my friend had sent someone 5 dollars for coffee because she was having a bad day and I thought that was a cute idea and so I venmo’d a different friend coffee money when she had a huge assignment and now I have a huge assignment and that same friend sent me money for a chai latte. she doesn’t know the friend who taught me to do this but she learned it from me because I learned it from my first friend. like we are all learning from each other all the time and learning how to be kind anyway yeah buy your friends coffee do little favors for them tell them you love them. it’s cute and good