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Day 3.

day 3.

this is not a hell site? i have been warned repeatedly that making an account was a bad idea, but so far it seems... sane? however, i do not have a single clue about how i am supposed to navigate this site. i very much want to find all the cool little nooks and crannies, but for now i am entirely without a map, so the going is slow. however! i will continue to push onwards and downwards through my dash until i find my comfy corner or i get too bored and give up ((i do not give up easily)).

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im too old for this shit /s

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3 years ago

blog is pretty now i can go back to thinking about other (probably more important) things >:)


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3 years ago

ok, so!

The typical reader may now be wondering, “pile-o-words, what in the world are you going to do with this blog thing?”. well. now i have an answer!

You [reader] may have some Things that you think are cool. And you [reader] may want to share those Things with other people so that they hopefully can see your excitement and also get excited about your Things even if they don’t normally care or know very much about them!

I am going to talk about my Things and maybe also reblog some stuff about my Things and hopefully you get a little peek into my brain and also I get to tell you about things you wouldn’t otherwise get to hear about!

Here’s a list of my current Things, so that you know what to expect!

Short (or maybe long but no promises) programming stories, anecdotes, horror stories, whatever, written so that even if you don’t get the technical details, they’ll still make sense to you

Aro(-spec) and/or ace(-spec) things that I vibe with! Generally more on the wholesome side, or things that I experience and resonate with me :)

Cute fandom stuff. Hopefully even if you don’t like the same fandoms as me, you will also find them cute. But I’ll try and keep that to a minimum because I know it’s niche

And finally what you’ve already seen me post, things about my experience with tumblr or general things that happen to me IRL or on the interwebs!

I’m going to aim for about a post a day, maybe a few more, but we’ll see how this goes!

Enjoy! :D


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3 years ago

Ok this is like one of my favorite ace fun facts, but did you know that over 50% of aspec youth are also trans or nb?

(source: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/research-briefs/asexual-and-ace-spectrum-youth/)

Ok I don't know if this is a me thing or a thing that other aroace people might feel. But one of the reasons I think I am sex repulsed and romance repulsed is because it makes me really aware of the gender people perceive me to have & the associated gender roles & expectations. I've never really questioned my gender until recently since I don't think I really understood what gender actually is. But I mostly think it's just the perceptions of heterosexual cis men that make me very uncomfortable.


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3 years ago

Hey OP, I feel ya. I really do. But the nice thing is that there’s an easy something you (yes you!) can do about that! You can just ask, in a totally chill and platonic way, “hey, do you mind if I rest my head on your shoulder/put my arm around you/give you a hug?” It took me the longest time to realize that as much as I’m a touchy-feely person, so are many, many other people.

That’s only my experience, but I think it makes a lot of sense -- humans like touch, and we like feeling close to each other. And while a lot of the time that stuff reads as ““romantic”“ it really really don’t have to. By challenging that idea and being physically close with your friends, you can help to change that :) Plus, who doesn’t like being cozy with their pals?

Sometimes I get the worst yearning to just lean in and hold my friend, but like--platonically. I don't know his orientation but I wouldn't want him to think anything of it either way. I wish touch wasn't seen as such a romantic thing at times


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