Me Me Angy

Me me angy

Guys, help, they’re both my childhood because my mom made me watch her generation’s childhood stuff, but also, Deltarune and Kris is part of my Internet bit of my childhood, and I can’t decide they’re both good WHYYYYYY

I can’t wait for this to become a shipping dynamic

@salticid​ you’re amazing and I love ur cryptic spambot convo I hope u like this!!

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Tired of seeing people say "if you identify as [x], you're misgendering yourself," or "if you use [x] pronouns, you're misgendering yourself."

You do not get to decide what other people feel misgendered by. The whole point of the word "misgendering" is to describe the experience of being called something that you don't want to be called. If someone has voluntarily opted into any word or label, then they are not misgendering themself, because that is what they want to be called.

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A man or nonbinary person uses woman-aligned terms or labels? Good for them, they're not misgendering themself.

A woman or nonbinary person uses man-aligned terms or labels? Good for them, they're not misgendering themself.

A man or nonbinary person uses she/her pronouns? Good for her; she's not misgendering herself.

A woman or nonbinary person uses he/him pronouns? Good for him; he's not misgendering himself.

A nonbinary person uses labels often associated with the gender binary? Good for them, they're not misgendering themself.

Also hi hello I'm pangender and use all pronouns. Literally every example above described myself.

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Identity is complicated as shit, and you don't get to decide how other people feel about their labels and pronouns. You have literally no idea what it's like to be them, nor what's best for them, because you aren't them.

People don't need you to assist them in not-misgendering-themselves, unless they've explicitly asked for that because they're still breaking into their identity, or they feel like they're faking.

Don't infantilize us by assuming we don't know how to validate our own identities. Don't assume that we need you to hold our hands and guide us. Don't assume that you know us better than we know ourselves. Don't assume that you know what's best for us more than we do.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Reminder that love can be:

-towards people

-towards animals and nature

-towards oneself

-towards objects

-towards activities

-towards concepts

Love can be:

-Romantic

-Platonic

-Familial

-Sexual

And more!

Don’t limit yourself to only expressing romantic love today! Tell your family and friends that you love them too!

Watch out. There's chasms out there