We Only Fall In Love With 3 People In Our Lifetime Each One For A Specific Reason.

We Only Fall in Love with 3 People in Our Lifetime — Each One for a Specific Reason.

-Kate Rose (Elephant Journal)

Falling In Love the 1st Time: The Love that Looks Right

This is the love that appeals to what we should be doing for society’s sake—and probably our families. We enter into it with the belief that this will be our only love and it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t feel quite right, or if we find ourselves having to swallow down our personal truths to make it work because deep down we believe that this is what love is supposed to be.

Falling In Love the 2nd Time: The Hard Love

The second is supposed to be our hard love—the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved. This is the kind of love that hurts, whether through lies, pain or manipulation.

Sometimes it’s unhealthy, unbalanced or narcissistic even.

There may be emotional, mental or even physical abuse or manipulation—most likely there will be high levels of drama.

This is exactly what keeps us addicted to this storyline, because it’s the emotional roller coaster of extreme highs and lows and like a junkie trying to get a fix, we stick through the lows with the expectation of the high.

Falling In Love the 3rd Time: The Love that Lasts

And the third is the love we never see coming. The one that usually looks all wrong for us and that destroys any lingering ideals we clung to about what love is supposed to be.

This is the love that comes so easy it doesn’t seem possible.

It’s the kind where the connection can’t be explained and knocks us off our feet because we never planned for it.

We are just simply accepted for who we are already—and it shakes to our core.

This is the love where we come together with someone and it just fits—

there aren’t any ideal expectations about how each person should be acting, nor is there pressure to become someone other than we are.

It isn’t what we envisioned our love would look like, nor does it abide by the rules that we had hoped to play it safe by. But still it shatters our preconceived notions and shows us that love doesn’t have to be how we thought in order to be true.

This is the love that keeps knocking on our door regardless of how long it takes us to answer.

It’s the love that just feels right.

This is me every day.

Me: *so tired my eyes hurt and I’m struggling to keep them open*

Brain: hoe don’t do it

Me: *clicks*

Brain: oh my god 

One of the best clexa fics i have read

Chapters: 14/14
Fandom: The 100 (TV)
Rating: Mature
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Clarke Griffin/Lexa
Characters: Clarke Griffin, Lexa (The 100), Anya (The 100), Raven Reyes, Octavia Blake, Lincoln (The 100), Abby Griffin, Jake Griffin, Merlin (Kingsman)
Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Modern Setting, Alternate Universe - Spies & Secret Agents, Kingsman AU, you don’t need to know anything about the kingsman films to read this, it’s basically just a secret agent au
Summary: Lexa Woods, an impeccably dressed British secret agent for the covert Kingsman organisation, whose latest mission sees her sneaking through the corridors of the White House in the middle of the night, finds herself having to seduce the daughter of the newly elected President of the United States in a bid to save the world. It’s a surprise to Lexa when she ends up falling for her target as fast as she does, meanwhile Clarke doesn’t expect her gorgeous date for an international political gala dinner to drag her into a world of thrill and danger where one wrong move could cause a global disaster.

do you think Swan Queen has what's needed to be canon?

Listen, no I actually KNOW that at this point swan queen is the only thing that makes sense. they have come so far and fits in so beautifully. I mean come on? swan queen is the most well written and developed relationship in the show, it is the most layered and and the balance of the entire storyline.

Full offense but they’re worthy of canon more than the canon shipssq is so fucking layered I could drown in its depth There are so many sides I love about this ship, and they’re all canon AF,

Family?

Check ✔️

History?

Check ✔️

Romantic tropes?

(i could go on lma o)

Check ✔️

Magic?

Check ✔️

Development?

Check ✔️

Chemistry?

Check ✔️

Trust?

Check ✔️

parallels ?

Check ✔️

Love?

Check ✔️

Married af?

Check ✔️

Heteros?

No check tbfh ❌

Is it only me or has anyone else noticed that since Kara and Lena became close friends both of them have not had any close love interests?

I mean in first season alone kara had two Adam and James

There was Mon-el but kara and lena were just getting to know each other.

After Mon-El left and Kara and Lena became really close and there has been no love intrests!!

The whole of season four.

Tell me I am just not seeing things that aren't there or imagining this!!

There is no other explanation other then the fact that Kara and Lena Love each other and are in denial, that even the thought of someone else does come to their minds!!