These Guys Are So Gay. Good For Them

these guys are so gay. good for them

i think the reason why selfshipping can be so difficult for others is the mere fact that they think they don't deserve it. or don't deserve their f/o to love them unconditionally, or be there for them, or offer support and guidance, or be their crutch.

selfshipping is hard for those who are always the giver and never the receiver. you feel uncomfortable about selfshipping or thinking about scenarios with your f/o. or how you have no idea what to add to your selfship, what lore to even do, because you don't think you should do something like this for yourself.

but you do deserve this. you deserve to feel loved and cared for by your f/os, you deserve to create the most silliest of scenarios, you deserve to be so canon-divergent and self indulgent with your selfships. you deserve to love yourself, you deserve to receive love and care, you deserve to receive these things even if it may feel uncomfortable to.

you deserve to do things for yourself. it may take time for you to be fully yourself while doing so, but you got this! i believe in you. i believe we can overcome this together. <3

yes this is my face. be quiet. this is relevant.

[pr0ship dni]

imagine your f/o who's pining for you inventing reasons to touch you. one day it's, oh, let me pick this piece of lint off your sleeve for you. the next it's wait, there's an eyelash on your face. hey, there's a piece of fuzz in your hair. wow your hands are cold, let me warm them up for a second. whatever excuse they can find, you better believe they're taking it