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✧ eclipse para :: a flag/term for paraphiles who don't take shit from non-paras and paramisics and stand up for themselves and their community.
eclipse paraphiles want to see paraphiles be liberated (not in the sense of allowing problematic contact to happen) and don't bend over backwards or throw eachother under the bus to appeal to non-paraphiles.
eclipse paraphiles are anti-assimilationism. they are also profiction and pro-roleplay and any other coping mechanisms and any other coping mechanisms that one may use as a harmless alternative to contact.
(consider us the "mean lesbians" of the para community. also calling yourself an eclipse para doesn't mean you can't also be another para sublabel, unless the para sublabel contradicts the values of eclipse para and i won't be making eclipse alternatives of existing paraphilia flags.)
pro-contacts, radqueers and radpara this is not your flag.



*REQUESTED* Hi. this week is my birthday and i was wondering if you can do an a imagine where it’s the readers birthday and Bucky, her newly wed husband tries to fix her breakfast in bed? But has a hard time since his bionic arm and that he doesn’t know how to cook. I love your blog by the way. Please and Thank you.
You and Bucky have been married for a month now. Everyday, you would wake up next to him. His arms wrapped around you, In his embrace.The warm feeling that you get he he would tighten his grip on you not wanting to let you go. The sun would always beam down on the two of you as you two laid in bed.
Today was your birthday. When you woke up this morning, the room was filled with sunlight as usual but something was off. Bucky wasn’t holding you in his embrace. In fact, Bucky wasn’t in bed. As you sat up, you could just hear objects being dropped on the floor outside of your room.
“Dammit.” You heard Bucky hiss, “What is he doing?” You whispered to yourself, getting out of bed and putting your robe on. You went out of your bedroom and into the kitchen, where you find Bucky trying his best to cook and not burn down the house.
“Whoa, what happened in here?” You asked looking around the kitchen. There was pots and glass plates on the floor. Stuff was overflowing out of the pans. “Happy Birthday!” he said giving you a hug. "Thanks. What were you trying to cook?” You asked. Cleaning up the kitchen.
“Wanted it to be a surprise.” He said, dusting the broken glass into the pan and dumping it into the trashcan. “Today is your birthday and I wanted to make you breakfast in bed.I wanted to do something special for you. I thought if I went on that computer thing and looked up videos on how too cook. But the computer thing wouldn’t work so i thought i try to cook by the way you always cook and that didn’t work. Plus I keep breaking everything with my bionic arm.” He said looking defeated. You smiled gently, washing your hands off. “That was sweet that you wanted to make me a birthday breakfast, Bucky.” You say, as you walked up to Bucky, taking his flesh hand into yours. He pulled you close to him, wrapping both his arms around your waist. Kisses your forehead. “ I’m sorry, doll. I just wanted to make your birthday special for you.” said
“You already are. The fact that you went out of your way just to do this for me. That means a lot, Bucky” You say as you see a smile form on his face. “I love you (y/n).” Bucky said as he was staring into your eyes. “I love you too, Bucky.” You say, staring back. Bucky kisses you on the lips.
“Hows about I teach you how to make some pancakes?” You ask him, still in his embrace. “I would love that.” He said. "Good.” You took the frying pan out and set it on the stove, you take out flour, eggs, milk, butter and oil, while Bucky watched you from the counter, liked he didn’t actually have to do anything other than watch you.
BLACK LIVES WILL ALWAYS MATTER.




Ariana Grande performing at the #OneLoveManchester benefit concert in Manchester, England on June 4, 2017.
Something I might have to say for greatest possible clarification, not to catch anyone on the wrong side (but I'm pretty sure I did already).
Like I've said a few times now, I'm indeed an ai user. Art generation / Song generation. Yes, I enjoy using both of those.
HOWEVER it's merely for personal use. Every time I share results, I add "it's ai, I know". I'm fully aware of what especially art generation is. I'm aware that it steals work from real artists and I DO NOT agree with people who use the honest work of others to train their ai's. It's unreasonable and I'll never support it despite me using ai.
I mentioned that I'm doing a worldbuilding project and more or less have to rely on ai to get pictures for my characters. Why's that? Well.. 1. I've got no option to commission anyone 2. I prefer to work on a fairly fast pace aka I'm an impatient person
Since I'm also not good at explaining or defending my point, have this as a conclusion. I deeply appreciate all those real artists. I KNOW what is ai and what not, I KNOW that the results are not actually mine. Everything that includes ai in future posts will be tagged as such in case you want to avoid it. Everything will be marked with something along the lines of "this is ai, not mine", just to be sure.
I simply hope y'all understand and don't judge me too much ^^"
Something I might have to say for greatest possible clarification, not to catch anyone on the wrong side (but I'm pretty sure I did already).
Like I've said a few times now, I'm indeed an ai user. Art generation / Song generation. Yes, I enjoy using both of those.
HOWEVER it's merely for personal use. Every time I share results, I add "it's ai, I know". I'm fully aware of what especially art generation is. I'm aware that it steals work from real artists and I DO NOT agree with people who use the honest work of others to train their ai's. It's unreasonable and I'll never support it despite me using ai.
I mentioned that I'm doing a worldbuilding project and more or less have to rely on ai to get pictures for my characters. Why's that? Well.. 1. I've got no option to commission anyone 2. I prefer to work on a fairly fast pace aka I'm an impatient person
Since I'm also not good at explaining or defending my point, have this as a conclusion. I deeply appreciate all those real artists. I KNOW what is ai and what not, I KNOW that the results are not actually mine. Everything that includes ai in future posts will be tagged as such in case you want to avoid it. Everything will be marked with something along the lines of "this is ai, not mine", just to be sure.
I simply hope y'all understand and don't judge me too much ^^"