She Can Be Stupid!

she can be stupid!

which i love...

I MEAN HATE!

In any case, she needs you right now.

Which is sweet...

I MEAN, I HATE IT AND ITS DUMB!

I wanna spread some love to everyone who has misophonia/misokinesia tonight

misophonia is a sensory disorder where certain sounds (things like chewing, breathing, tapping, any of those little human sounds we make all the time) cause a horrible surge of emotional distress in you. it’s not being “annoyed” or “grossed out” at a sound, it’s having an intense terrible feeling triggered inside you when you hear the noises that makes you want to scream or tear your hair out or claw out your own eardrums with your bare hands just to escape the sound. it’s terrible, and it’s awful, and there’s really no way to make it better or cure it. misokinesia is the same thing but with sights instead of sounds, like fingers moving or someone twirling their hair or even just specific markings on a piece of paper

I’m sorry if you feel like you’re a burden on your loved ones because they have no way of understanding how terrible it feels. you’re not a burden, and you’re not controlling. you’re not a bad person for not being able to eat dinner with your family. you’re not a bad person for needing to leave the room when one of your loved ones is humming to themselves. you’re not a bad person for asking someone to stop clicking their pen or bouncing their leg. you’re not a bad person for wearing noise cancelling headphones around other people. you have a really awful terrible issue and I know it sucks but people who don’t have it will never be able to understand what you’re going through and so their reaction to you comes from a place of complete misunderstanding, and it doesn’t say anything about who you are as a person. I’m sorry that they don’t understand you, and I’m sorry that you have to choose between being triggered and feeling like you’re the worst person alive for telling people about your triggers in the first place

Fuck romance except for what that little owl kid and that turquoise elf kid got going on

two dorks

there’s never . . . rly anything revolutionary about a white person making a character of color that has ‘complicated’ or ‘negative’ feelings about their culture. white people just cant depict the resentment and love and distress and comfort people of color have towards their culture. no matter how ‘researched’, no matter how ‘open-minded’. they will never do it in a way that fathoms and penetrates the way creators of color do.

self-racism and internalised prejudices or even just little frustrations should never be handled by white people. it’s ours entirely. and yet the practice is so fucking rampant. our intricacies have been taken, fashioned into some empty and lukewarm rendition — more often than not to serve as a foil to the more ‘progressive’ white culture — and white people are praised for exploring these so-called ..... Themes. fuck off

Just realized I forgot to post this here oop