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Being touch-starved while being an age regressor without a caregiver is so hard, it feels like suffocating sometimes. I wanna be hugged and held when I cry. I wanna be pulled into someone's lap and rocked to sleep. I want someone to cup my cheek and kiss my forehead. I want someone to hold my hand as we walk and pull me a little bit closer. I want tenderness so badly it hurts ❤️‍🩹

I neeed a mommy to be a little obsessed and overly possessive over me

SARAH JESSICA PARKER — Hocus Pocus, 1993

31 DAYS OF HALLOWEEN ↳ DAY #6: THE SILENCE OF THE LAMBS (1991) • dir. Jonathan Demme

Aftercare

I’ve organized some of the things I need from aftercare (in person or long distance) into 4 components, and thought it could be helpful for others too! I’ve put some examples for each, but it will of course look different for everyone.

1. Physical Care/Needs -

Wiping away tears

Helping up from floor

Getting a warm towel

Soothing bruises

Getting a glass of water

2. Physical Comfort/Affection -

Gentle kisses and hugs

Holding eachother tight

Breathing with eachother

Cuddling and/or napping together

Brushing fingers through hair

3. Scene Validation -

“That was so fun/sexy”

“That felt so good when you ____”

“You were such a good ____ for me”

“I love the bruises/marks you gave me”

“Thank you for (carrying out some fantasy) with me”

4. Human Affirmations -

“I love you; I care about you”

“I’m so grateful to have you in my life”

“I always have a great time when I’m with you”

“You’re a wonderful/kind/etc person”

Mentioning a non-sexual part of your relationship that you like, or reiterating that you value eachother as more than just a sub/dom(me)

I think that this can work whether you have a deeper connection or a more casual play partner! I always feel best when all of these components are covered during aftercare.

These things can obv be done in person, and I think it’s also really important to give this kind of care when you’re long distance, even if it’s just through words after sexting… for example-

“When we were done, I would help you up and wipe away your tears, bring you a warm towel and make sure you’re ok. Then I’d love to cuddle, with your head on my chest, and give you forehead kisses while telling you how good you made me feel and how wonderful of a person I think you are.”

Thanks for reading! Be safe everyone 💕💕

I am once again yearning for a girl to put me in her lap and give me head scratches while she calls me her princess 🥺 please

🧸ྀི

there’s nothing quite like feeling cozy

You are my favourite girl…. My only girl ❤️

All yours 🖤

"When you tell the truth you look different, your eyes change" - "Thanks for the warning" "What do you mean?" - "I mean I better not do it again." Atomic Blonde (2017) Dir. David Leitch Movies watched in 2024

I confuse people. i have a happy personality and a sad soul. i'm bold but shy. i love deeply but sometimes i feel heartless. i'm healing and hurting at the same time. i'm dedicated to growth, but i self sabotage