Do You Have A Bandaid

Do you have a bandaid

BITES.

OW OWIE OW OUCH

Im still teeny that hurt *sniff*

/silly,lh

I have an oc Im trying to develop so send me asks plsplspls

oc asks: not-so-nice edition

alone: How does your OC deal with loneliness? Have they ever been completely alone before? How do they act when there's no one around to see them?

betrayal: Has your OC ever been betrayed by someone they thought they could trust? Has your OC ever betrayed someone who trusted them?

bound: Has your OC ever been imprisoned or captured? What happened? How did they get out? Did the experience leave any scars?

break: What would cause your OC to break down completely? What do they look like when that happens? Has anyone ever seen them at their lowest?

desire: What's one thing your OC wants more than anything in the world? Are they open with that desire? Why or why not? What would they do to fulfill it?

failure: What's your OC's greatest failure? Have they been able to move past it? Does anyone else know about it?

fear: What is your OC's greatest fear? What do they do when confronted with it? Are they open with their fear, or do they hide it away?

future: What's the worst possible future for your OC? Are they taking steps to avoid that outcome? Are they even aware it's a possibility?

ghost: Who or what haunts your OC? What happened? How do they live with their ghosts?

guilt: What is your OC guilty about? How do they handle their guilt? Do they try to avoid guilt, or do they accept it?

hate: What does your OC hate? Why? How do they act towards the object of their hatred?

heartbreak: Have they ever had a relationship that ended badly? Experienced some other kind of heartbreak? What happened?

hide: What does your OC hide? Why do they hide it?

hunt: Who or what is your OC hunted by? A person, a feeling, a past mistake? Is your OC able to let their guard down, or are they constantly alert?

mask: Does your OC wear a mask, literally or figuratively? What goes on beneath it? Is there anyone in their life who gets to see who they are under the mask?

midnight: What keeps your OC up at night? Do they have nightmares? Fears? Anxieties? What do they do in the small hours of the morning when they should be sleeping?

mistake: What's the worst mistake your OC ever made? What led to them making it? Have they been able to fix it? How have they moved on?

monster: Is your OC monstrous in any way? Is there something that makes them monstrous? Are they aware of their own monstrosity? Do they accept it or reject it?

nightmare: What does your OC have nightmares about? How do they deal with their nightmares? Do they tell people, or keep it to themself?

pain: What's the worst pain your OC has ever felt? Do they have a high pain tolerance?

secret: What's one secret your OC never wants anyone to know about them?

skin: How comfortable is your OC in their skin? Do they grapple with anything that lives inside them—a beast, a curse, a failure, a monster? How do they face the smallest, weakest, most horrible version of themself? Are they able to acknowledge it at all?

torture: Has your OC ever been tortured? Would your OC ever torture someone else?

wound: How does your OC handle being wounded? Are their wounds mostly physical? Mental? Emotional? What's the worst wound your OC has ever experienced?

Hiding as anon because F E A R and asking you because god forbid I ask this to other friends who are systems.

But, what does it mean if I constantly and consistently dream of being a system? In the waking world I feel these forces but I can’t see into any innerworld, can’t see any one unless they’re right up close to my face basically but it’s always in this dream like state paired with my depersonalization and derealization.

Yet sometimes I dream, full switch outs, an inner world. Interacting more with the others. But a lot of dream logic. I’ve been having this dream consistently for a few years since gaining more friends who are systems and I just, god damn. :( bit confused over the whole thing.

Heyo! What could be happening here is that dreams are your main form of communication. Plurality is a wide spectrum, and there are many that never realize they are a system of some sort because of not having the resources to learn about it, but there are some systems (and we know a few like this) where dreams are their main form of communication with those in the innerworld. Especially if this has been a consistent thing for years now, Id say theres a good chance that you may be a system.

If its hard to interect with those in the system while awake unless theyre very close, thats a more common thing than you may think. Practice and visualisation excersizes will help with being able to see into the innerworld while awake. Itll also help to build the innerworld, but you dont nessicarly need one! It took us around a year to be able to passively keep track of both bodily stuff and things happening in headspace.

Now, we havent personally had the dreams of innerworld happen too terribly often, I know there are a few systems on tumblr where it is their main form of communication, though I cant remember any off the top of my head at the moment.

Im glad you find us a safe system to come ask about this, we love helping people out immensely, especially since we didnt have that kind of support when we were trying to figure it out and thus took much longer.

Were always open to help, so dont be afraid to send more asks or dm us if youre comfortable with that! 8⁰]

Hello. I have a question. I am completely new to well everything dealing with objectums. So, excuse any nativity or ignorance.

Is it possible to not be in love with an object but rather a concept (?). I am absolutely in love with storms, rain, etc. I consider the rain my wife if that makes sense. Is that apart of objectums or something like it?

Thank you for taking the time to read this, have a splendid day!

Yes! Absolutely!! The name for this is Conceptum! It falls under the objectum umbrella and is pretty common, actually!

Holy shit its as big as me-

Uhhh, maybe we can cut it in half length wise??

BITES.

OW OWIE OW OUCH

Im still teeny that hurt *sniff*

/silly,lh

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