Anxiety So Bad Everytime I See A Car Of The Same Brand As My Dad's I Think I Mandela Effected The Color

Anxiety so bad everytime I see a car of the same brand as my dad's i think I Mandela effected the color of his car

I don't remember the name but it was a book about a girl who's parents killed themselves, and she started living with her step-uncle and step cousins before her 18 birthday, one of her cousins tries to rape her, she gets stuck there for 6/9 months because winter I guess?, suffers SA from her 2 cousins and her uncle. And she ends up pregnant with her oldest cousin's baby and ah yes, the character who had the most common sense in the books ends up with the uncle

TW: STALKING, ASSAULT MENTION. PLEASE CLICK AWAY IF THIS MAY TRIGGER YOU. certain people when i tell them stalking isnt romantic:

anyways, jokes aside: stalking is not romantic. why do our movies love to imply that stalking people is not only acceptable but romantic?? it's the fact that people are r*ped and assaulted and harassed by stalkers every day, but it's still romanticized. stalking victims are told they should 'give them a shot.' in movies, stalkers are made to be sympathetic so you don't linger on the fact that they are acting very creepily. stalking has serious effects on the victim. trauma and more. with this being so common in popular movies and TV shows and books is it any wonder both men and women have trouble understanding what a healthy dating relationship looks like? also, dark romance. a lot of dark romance books are just straight up glorified sexual assault. where he's stalking her and grabbing at her, but he's so hot about it so it's okay. where she's clearly scared of him or doesn't want to do anything with him but he just pushes and pushes. where she states her boundaries and or tells him what he's doing isn't okay, but then suddenly she's the bad one there because he got all sad. i hate that. don't write shit like that. you cant write 300 pages of repeated sexual assault and harrassment and not pause, just for once to think, "man.. maybe this is wrong". anyways, feel free to say what kind of books/movies/shows you've come across with this exact trope of glorified stalking/sa.

Just remembering how I was told "you aren't bisexual, you are just a whore" when I was 12 after I came out of the closet :]

Mind you, I'm an 18 year old virgin who gave her first kiss last year

If it were up to me I would only eat when my stomach starts hurting, but I'm surrounded by people who force me to eat so

When has Kris Tyson ever been an anti? Because I'm seeing a lot of proshippers trying to have a gotcha moment by saying that a famous anti was revealed as a creep and they tag Kris Tyson, so I'm like ???

I don't follow Mr Beast nor Kris but the last thing I remember from her was that she was a follower of shademan (the weird dude who makes CP art of real kids) and even had one of his drawings on her wall

So I'm very, very confused

(cross tagging just so I can get answers, don't harass me please)

I could say the same about proshippers, I only had one civil conversation with a proshipper, just for them to bash me on their blog.

I understand why antis might block all proshippers because they don't want to risk having people threaten to rape them for saying that maybe drawing explicit content about children with their parents is not okay.

Antishippers, I’m a loss right now. How can I involve you guys in this conversation, where you can give your opinions, thoughts, evidence and experiences? When I try to pull you into the conversation, I’m met with silence and probably even ending up on several blocklists. I WANT you to share these things with me. I WANT you to be able to share your thoughts. I will ask questions, sometimes ones you don’t like, because that is how one can learn. I want you in the discussion, yet you guys act worse than adults in politics. At least the adults take the time to insult me more for asking them questions. I know they at least saw what I said. I’m trying to have you involved. If you want to change minds, leaving me with only the proshippers as those willing to talk is actually the worst way to do so. I can give a few DOZEN empirical journals about how this behavior actually makes things worse. Anyway, if you’re an antishipper please take this poll and share it. I’m proship heavy on it right now and I WANT your opinion on the topic.