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Happy Valentine's Day To The People Who Still Unsure Of/questioning Who They're Attracted To, You're
Happy Valentine's day to the people who still unsure of/questioning who they're attracted to, you're valid as hell and don't let anyone pressure you into thinking otherwise 💕
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I made this in my junior year of college. My mental health was spiraling b a d, and I didn't think sticking around in friend groups was good idea (they bred more anxiety at the time and I felt like I couldn't think for myself or speak up for myself). So I mostly isolated myself. I wanted to learn to love myself. Which meant new boundaries, new habits, new (positive) ways of viewing myself and others... it was an overwhelming, depressing and imperfect, yet exciting process.
Three years later, I think it's safe to say I did the right thing. At the end of the day, it's me, myself and the universe/God. I figured that if I could learn to take better care of myself, then I could take better care of others, and I was right. And I wasn't entirely alone the whole time. I made new friends along the way.
Sometimes when you lose something, the empty space makes room for blessings bigger than you can see.
Remember kids, stay away from codependent relationships. It's not just bad for you, but it's bad for the person clinging to you.
Nobody is perfect, of course. Nobody is 100% independent and it's nice to be able to get help and support from your friends. But if you're someone's only lifeline, you might think you're doing them a favor by letting them be dependent on you, but you're actually perpetuating their co-dependent lifestyle/mindset, which is gonna bite them in the butt someday anyways.
Co-dependency doesn't do anyone any favors. If you're in a relationship like that, romantic or other, get OUT of there
there’s nothing that makes me back out of a relationship faster than ‘you’re the only thing in my life that makes me happy’ or ‘i need you to make me happy’. like no. don’t put that on me. i don’t want it. i can’t take that. why are you doing that? pls don’t.
