Reblog To Put One Of These In Your Mutuals Pocket When Theyre Not Looking

Reblog to put one of these in your mutuals’ pocket when they’re not looking

It's okay if you're an alter without a name or know much about yourself. Not every part needs a name, and you don't need to come up with one to be a valid "part". For us, we have plenty of parts who prefer to just use the system/body/singletsona name. And similarly, it's normal not to know what you like and dislike. That all comes from living your life and being allowed to express yourself, and if you've been a mostly internal part or been masking for a while or for any other reason been unable to explore what makes you "you", then it's no wonder you may not know these things about yourself. Take your time, and in the end if you feel that it isn't important to differentiate yourself with such things then that's fine too.

i live in fear every time we creat new ocs bc i get so attached to them so quickly and im just like

please dont split please dont split please dont split please dont split please dont split please dont split please dont-

your system is valid if:

you switch a lot

you rarely switch

you don't have consistency in your switches

your switches are always consistent

you have high amnesia barriers

you have very little amnesia, if any

you remember your trauma

you don't remember your trauma

you want to pursue healthy multiplicity

you want to pursue final fusion

you have a lot of alters

you have very few alters

you have poor communication

you have good communication

feel free to add on! <3

endos + tulpas, this post isn't for you

long distance relationships suck i need this man in my arms NOW wdym i have to travel for that

Idk who needs to hear this but you're allowed to have a wide music taste as an alter in a system. You don't have to limit yourself to just one artist or genre. You're a person, not a character. People are complex. It doesn't invalidate your system if you all have similar or overlapping music taste. It doesn't make you a faker if you like a lot of the same music as the host. People are complex and like a lot of different things, that includes a lot of different music. You don't have to limit yourself with hard lines like "I'm the alter that listens to Lil Nas." like no you can listen to other shit too.

Endos this isnt about you. DNI.

-Reese