Its Not That My Parents Didnt Love Me, Its That Id Never Do/say Such Horrible Things To Someone I Loved.

It’s not that my parents didn’t love me, it’s that I’d never do/say such horrible things to someone I loved.

Power move; traumatize your dad back

i am not “laid back” i’m just a numb shell hollowed out by years of psychological abuse, pills and mental illness.. but it’s totally chill

If someone tries to make you feel incredibly guilty for not always putting them first and putting their needs in front of your own, you can be sure they’re abusive. 

Nobody is hurt by you caring for yourself. Nobody is hurt by you thinking of yourself, and making your own choices. Nobody is hurt by you living your life the way you want to. Those who claim to be have something else in mind - control. They want your thought and choices to benefit only them, and they’re ready to put you in pain if you care about yourself at all.

Let me tell you something, men leech off women with wisdom and grace and a feminine alluring personality and especially if you are knowledgeable and skillfulll.

Be careful of mental leeches, they will:

use long calls, to waste your time and lure you in.

penpal antics, by not arranging to see you and constantly contacting you.

use you as a therapist and a mental dumpster by telling you their problems in their life because they are attracted to the feminine side of you that allows them to be vulnerable.

SET BOUNDARIES.

Remind yourself of the woman you are and know there are going to be so many dusties that will attempt to try you and use you, FOR FREE.

Stay away from them, block them and from early on do not be vulnerable or allow long calls or texts at any hours.

Men take advantage of how empathetic women can be and will save their resources to get access to you for FREE.