Iasip Moment

Iasip moment

if there’s one self-care skill I really wish fans would develop – especially fans of continuing media, where you get into a thing before it’s finished – it’s the ability to say “this is no longer the story I wanted it to be” and walk away

(and I am not exempting myself from this! there are definitely periods in my past media engagement which would have been less negative for my mental health if I’d been able to do this, rather than banging my head in increasing frustration as the story veered further and further away from what I had always thought its arc was supposed to be.)

you gotta marie kondo this shit. if the story no longer sparks joy for you, then let it go. and you can grieve for that! that loss of potential, that happiness you might once have had with it. you can be frustrated and sad and bitch about it in your group chat. but you have to let it go.

because the alternative is trying to force the creator to change course to comply with your  vision and historically? the success rate of that is very, very low, and far more statistically likely to result in the destruction of the thing entirely. which might sound tempting and satisfying in those moments of frustration but in the end, honestly, is not going to make you any happier. (and is definitely  going to make other people  unhappier.)

what will make you happier is finding some other story that is more like what you wanted. because it’s a vast vast world out there, and people are creating stories and media faster than ever. yes, even queer media, yes, even PoC driven/led media. no one person will ever be able to consume them all. find something out there that brings you joy, that is the story you wanted. and the rest? let go.

I haven’t stopped singing Life on Mars all day.

This idea has been in my mind since I finished reading this story, and I couldn't rest until I did it. Inspired by the amazing Little Compton Street (One Rainy Night in Soho), by @writcraft

I made this macdennis video with all the moments i could think of. Its 26 mins long.

I wish i could have found some more "small" moments but im still happy with how it ended up :) and i really wanted a big macden comp so i just did it

Here is the obligatory “it’s easy to become an ordained minister” so

It’s easy to become an ordained minister

IS THIS TRUE THIS IS SO FUNNY

White people don’t need this cause it’s not reported on when it happens to white people

“White *Privilege is not having to create hashtags like #IfTheyGunnedMeDown

racism kills”

I mean no reason not to

Start reblogging the money blessings post…

If you haven’t already done it…. Go hit that reblog button. Do what you have to, just do that too.

Like seriously. Just find one and reblog it real quick. I post a couple yesterday and put into the universe that I actually wanted it

Only been at work for a couple and I get this at as a tip! (tips ain’t normal at ALL in here)

Come on now!!

Let it work for y’all too