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Confession time...

Please re-blog this if it is okay to anonymously confess a fantasy to you.

so, i received an ask telling me not interact with blog that mention 'Women DNI'..

if you can see this post, i hope you know that i am sorry for making your uncomfortable and i'll try and be more mindful when i interact with post from now on...

I am sorry

You whisper some words of praises and degradation as you work the ropes around my body until my face is pressed against the pillow, my ass in the air and my arms tied to my legs. All my holes are on complete display for you to appreciate and use.

"As expected of a slut. Already dripping down your thighs," you say as you press a finger against my wet pussy.

"Let's see how much of a mess you would have made once I am done with you tonight. What do you say, princess? Shall we begin?" you ask.

I eagerly nod against the pillow. "Yes, sir. I am ready for whatever you have to give me."

You hum a response and turn to the table where you have everything arranged in an orderly manner. I cannot see what you pick because of my position, but I know you LOVE tormenting me.

I feel the tresses of my favourite flogger caressing my lower back. You run it from my upper back to the curve of my ass and then back again creating goosebumps on my skin. I hear the whip of air before I feel several strikes of the flogger on my ass, my back and upper thigh.

The delicious sting of the flogger, makes me moan and whimper. You walk towards my face to caress my hair. You shove the handle of the flogger into my mouth.

"Keep it in. Make it fall from your filthy little mouth and you'll be punished. Understood?" you say gruffly.

You go back to the table and pick up the cane. I know it is a cane when you nudge my swollen clit with its tip. I moan around the flogger.

You strike my ass with the cane until you are satisfied with the shade of red that it leaves behind. I bite down on the flogger with every stroke of the cane. So hard that my jaw hurts.

You rub your hand on my ass, soothing the sting from the cane. Just when I think you are about to put the cane aside, I hear the crack of the air before the cane hits my wet and swollen clit.

The surprise of the pain and the sudden rush of pleasure courses through my veins, make me cry out loud, tears running down my face.

"Tsk. Tsk. Baby, you had one job to do, but you chose to disobey and moan like a whore that you are.."

That is when I realise that I let the flogger fall from my mouth. Fuck. Now, I'll be punished.

Ebony is a porn category not a compliment for Black women 😷😷😷

BBC is a porn category not a compliment for Black men 🥴🥴🥴

Stop referring to Black people as porn categories you racist fucks 💖💖💖

Non-Black ppl reblog this!!!

sometimes, you might believe that you are doing right by someone and treating them right...

but always check in if they want you to change something about how you treat them(even the good ones)

because when you do, you realise that treating and loving them the way they want to be loved is the best for both of you

and always check in every few months. our needs change and we gotta adapt to it

it saves relationships and so much pain

i need a man in control of me. not only sexually, but domestically too. i don't want to have to think or overthink around him. i want him in control. i just want to be myself and at ease with him. i want to be able to sleep safely in his arms knowing he is gonna protect me from everything and everyone and sometimes myself too.

i feel stuck in my body.. i hate my body, right now... i want to take a sharpie and scissors and cut off all the parts that make me feel fat

fuck my ass and spank my pussy

fuck my ass and rub my clit

fuck my ass and fingerfuck my pussy

fuck my ass and tease my pussy

fuck my ass and ignore my pussy

you can do whatever you want to my pussy... just fuck my ass

i just want to curl up in someone's arms and fall asleep and never wake up

completing one subtopic = 1 min of rubbing my clit

completing a chapter = 1 orgasm

i need this kind of reward system to help me focus!!

pillow fights that end up with you pining my wrists above my head and leaving hickies all over my body while you fuck deep into me, staring into each others eyes

i just want someone, anyone to hold me, kiss my hair softly and rub my back until i feel all better

I just wanted to be someone's new year fucktoy

For people with vaginas:

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What’s the nicest compliment you ever got about your vagina? What you think should be complimented on it?

the nicest compliment? i think it was "Look at your pussy. So greedy that it is sucking me in so deep. You pussy is perfect."

I think i would love to be complimented on how pretty it looks when it is swollen and wet

UNUSUAL NSFW ASKS

Wanted to create some more unique questions for y'all. Feel free to reblog and ask :3

What are the ideal nudes that someone could send you?

Have you ever humped a pillow until you came? Would you?

Hottest food someone can eat?

Genie granted you three NSFW wishes. What are you wishing for?

Something you did in bed and would NEVER do again?

Something you did in bed and would LOVE to do again?

Something you never did in bed and would rather never do?

Something you never did in bed and would love to do?

Look around yourself. You are EXTREMELY horny. What unusual object are you using to get off?

What slasher killer would you love to get railed by and why?

What kink/fantasy of yours are you the most embarrassed about? Why?

What’s the weirdest thing that turned you on? Did you masturbate to it? Would you do it again?

What is your darkest kink?

What body part would you worship on other people to the end of time because NGHHHH?

Are you happy with the type of genital you have? If not, would you want the opposite? Why?

You masterbated yourself to starvation. What’s the top number 1 food you crave RN?

What’s the best term that describes you sexually?

You can do only ONE thing to your partner sex-wise for an entire month. What is your pick?

Would you be able to go full month just pleasing your partner daily, without getting anything back?

What hairstyle you find attractive?

What video of you would you love to take sometimes? Why haven’t you yet?

What’s a toy you’d love to use? Why?

What’s your favourite thing about a quickie?

Have you or would you ever masturbate with toothpaste/tiger balm/numbing balm etc.?

Have you ever kissed someone of the same gender? What’s the best part on it?

What’s the most flattering thing someone’s said about your naked body?

What’s a part of clothing you would love to see your crush/partner in?

What does your ideal one night stand look like?

Do you have a favourite CNC scenario? Which is it?

Favourite position to give oral? And to receive?

What’s your fantasy celebrity threesome?

What is your most unusual turn on?

Do you have some songs you wanna get railed to?

What’s your opinion on anal?

Do you like to have rough sex? What you love the most?

Do you like to have sensual sex? What you love the most?

What’s your opinion on sexting?

Do you like getting teased in public? Why or why not?

What’s your biggest sexual pet peeve?

What are you favourite pet names to be called during sex?

What’s the best orgasm you had in past months?

Do you like going commando?

What language is the sexiest?

Is FreeUse hot? Why?

What would you love to roleplay as in bed?

What scent you find arousing?

Favourite way of being degraded?

Favourite way of being praised?

Favourite thing to do when dominating?

Favourite thing to do when being dominated?

Have you ever tried something only for it to become a hard limit of yours? How so?

Would you be willing to try something off limits? If yes, what would the circumstances have to be?

Do you like to be intoxicated during sex? How? Why?

Would you like to expose yourself/get exposed? If yes, are there some limits?

Best romantic evening setting, go!

Best sexual evening setting, go!

Would you watch porn with your partner? What would be your pick?

Would you ever participate in a goon day/weekend?

Would you ever participate in Locktober?

Would you ever participate in NoNutNovember?

Do you like tattoos or piercings on your partner? What would be the best places for them to have them?

What is a sex-challenge you would create? Would you do it with your partner or solo?

What is something you always wanted to ask your partner but didn’t had the courage to?

What is something you would love your partner to forget about you?

Is there a kink/fetish you would like your partner to have? Why?

Is there a kink/fetish you would like your partner NOT to have? Why?

Considering you ABSOLUTELY WOULD HAVE to do the next thing your partner will ask you to. What do YOU wish that would be?

Do you trust your partner enough to be their no-limit sex slave for 24 hours? Why not? What would be the limits?

Would you let your partner pimp you out?

THIS OR THAT?

Ropes or Cuffs?

Furries or Robots?

Fully naked or Fully clothed?

Take Erotic photos of someone or Let someone take erotic photos of you?

What’s a better gag? Panties or Socks?

Creampie or Throatpie?

Cuck someone or Get cucked?

Blunt pain or Sharp pain?

Obedient sub or Bratty sub?

Forever watch porn or Forever read porn

Proffesional or Amateur porn?

Feet or Hands?

Lights on or lights off?

Have a harem of men or Have a harem of women?

Truth or dare or FapRoulette?

Multiple orgasms vs Orgasm denial?

Nylons or Fishnets?

Pet or Slave?

Worship ass or Worship feet?

Mommy/Daddy or Master/Mistress?

Bites vs Slaps?

Bruises vs Cuts?

Latex or Leather?

FOR PEOPLE WITH VAGINAS:

Do you like your clit touched? How is it best?

Favourite way to jerk off?

Best thing about having a vagina?

What’s the nicest compliment you ever got about your vagina? What you think should be complimented on it?

FOR PEOPLE WITH PENISES:

Favorite blowjob technique?

Favorite way to jerk off?

Best thing about having a penis?

What’s the nicest compliment you ever got about your penis? What you think should be complimented on it?

BONUS QUESTIONS!

Are you satisfied with your sex life? If not, what would you change? If yes, is there something you would still like to improve to make it even better?

Are you satisfied with yourself in bed? What you think you lack? What you think you excel at?

Did you found out something new about yourself?

Considering you and your sex life, is there something you are so PROUD OF you would brag about it on reddit? (Or tumblr lol, Stole this from reddit)

Considering you are going to have sex today, what are some things you would love to experience?

slow reassuring kisses trailing down my body. slowly fucking while looking into my eye and reassuring me that it is going to be okay. that is all i need right now.

please, take control of me. let me turn off my mind when i am with you.

suck my nipples until they are swollen and put clamps on them so that you could tug it hard while you fuck me hard

oh, and leave bite marks on my boobs, they make me feel loved, please?

on a second thought, i wouldn't mind being fucked while asleep too

i want to be slowly fucked to sleep. or roughly. i don't care. i need two things: 1. to be fucked, 2. sleep

i want to be slowly fucked to sleep. or roughly. i don't care. i need two things: 1. to be fucked, 2. sleep

nice sadists are so so underrated.

if a someone told me they loved that i suffer for them? omg im gonna nut

tenderly caressing my cheek, then slapping it? beautiful 10/10

that fake pity voice? GOD

when they give you a break between spankings to play with your pussy? i’m in love

on that same line of thinking, when there’s playful spankings, and you’re giggling and trying to get away until they’ve had enough of your squirming and they make you stay still? literally ughhh

orgasm denial bc they love hearing you whine?? YES

making you come so many times you cry because they love to see you cry? please please please

don’t even get me started on humiliation.

i always wondered what got me into bdsm? i figured that was for two reasons.

1. i wanted to not be in control. i constantly ache to let go and without having to worry about consequences.

2. i liked the concept of pain and pleasure mixed together. it brought me alive.

right now, i really want to let go and not think. i need that

it is official!! i turned 21 today and i have never been swamped with work like this before.

wish me luck for tomorrow's test. i need it

i need to de-stress.. help me

♡ asks ♡

 Do you have freckles? 

 Do you drink tea or coffee? How do you take it? 

What was the last song you listened to? 

Do you sleep on your back, stomach or side? 

Do you sleep with a stuffed animal? 

Do you prefer drawing or writing? 

What’s your ideal number of blankets to sleep with? 

What’s your favorite band/artist? 

When is your birthday? 

How tall are you? 

What color are your eyes? 

Who are five (or more) people you want to hug right now? 

Fears? 

What’s your favorite color? 

What’s your favorite season? 

Want any tattoos? What of? 

Want any piercings? Where? 

Who is the last person you texted? 

Do you have a best friend? How long have you been friends? 

What/who do you miss? 

How was your day today? 

How much sleep did you get last night? 

Do you believe in aliens? 

When was the last time you cried? Why? 

What’s your favorite decade? 

What are some seemingly childish things you like? 

What’s your favorite book? Or just one you’ve read a few times? 

How are you, really? 

Does it take you a long time to make decisions? 

What are you looking forward to in the near future? 

What are you looking forward to in the distant future? 

If you could go anywhere right now, where would you go? 

Do you sleep with your door open or closed? 

What’s your favorite flower? 

Do you currently have a squish? 

Do you like your middle name? 

Do you prefer dogs or cats? 

Do you have any phobias? 

Do you stay up late?

Do you like the beach? Do you prefer it sunny or cloudy? 

What’s your favorite cartoon? 

Tag 5 of your favorite blogs

Do you have siblings? How many? 

Who was the last person you said “I love you” to? 

Is there anyone you would die for? 

What do you need when you’re sad? 

Have you memorized your phone number? 

Who’s someone you can trust with your life? 

What does your last text say? 

Wild Card. Any question, ask away.