What Were NOT Gonna Do, Shadow And Bone Fandom, Is Harass New Comers That This Series Will Bring. What

What we’re NOT gonna do, Shadow and Bone Fandom, is harass new comers that this series will bring. What we’re NOT gonna do, is harass any of the cast members for the characters they play.  You can think the Darkling is The Worst. You can think Mal Oretsev is The Worst. But you leave Ben Barnes and Archie Renaux out of it.

You can think Alina should end up with so and so, but don’t go to new fans (hell, don’t go to veteran fans) and tell them what they can and can’t ship; you’re never gonna change anyone’s mind. 

The Grisha trilogy has always been divisive while Six of Crows was not, we can all have our opinions and criticisms. But we DON’T get to tell other people how to enjoy the series. We DON’T get to harass the cast, especially the young BIPOC members.  So when the show comes out, for Pete’s sake, be respectful to the cast and to each other. 

ARMY ARE CANCELLED???

At this point the fandom that no one could bring down and that everyone is afraid to face today is going to destroy its own self. And NO this is no exaggeration and I didn’t write this to be dramatic but because I have been sitting quiet for a moment looking at the situation go full downhill and couldn’t stand sitting there being hopeful and positive about something so sad and poisonous. I am talking about the cancel culture ARMY edition. So let’s have THE talk. Shall we?

Let me get this clear first, I am totally fine with correcting people’s misbehavior. If someone is doing wrong, it’s fine to point it out. I did make some mistakes myself and its people who helped me learn. Please remember that we come from different countries and cultures and all we need is some better understanding of some topics to be better citizens of the world. BUT this is no more about correcting something bad but indeed having an ego boost because you are part of the “good side” and that you are fighting “evil”. This is no freaking comic, most people are not angels nor devils, they are simply humans. Of course if I say “humans are imperfect beings that commit mistakes too” you will laugh at me ‘cause this is the #1 excuse anyone uses when they f##k up. Yet, it’s true. We should ask each other to be better but cancel culture is not about that. It’s about hating on someone forever without caring if they became a better person or not. You just hate them and feel good about it because in your head “Oh, I would have never done that.” but did anyone ask “did they ever do that again?” It’s hard for people to change, but people do change. If you have good intentions, you will realize your misbehavior, correct it and try to move on. However, what if the people who asked you to correct it will label you as that villain no matter what. You can’t rebound, you can’t move on and you can’t even be a better version of yourself because everyone is addressing you as if you are stillyour old self. 

Now what is cancel culture 2.0. It’s what ARMYs been doing. Cancelling each other for the lamest, stupidest, most miserable things. I saw earlier someone got cancelled for calling Hoseok a baby. Really ARMY? Someone even got cancelled over ‘CAKE’??? That cake btw was only sold in Korea and Korean ARMYs HATED it and called the company lazy for using BTS’ name for such lame design as they compared it to their other collabs. 

Like, I am a veteran ARMY and we called Jungkook a fetus once and everyone laughed about it. Even BTS didn’t take themselves so seriously. They posted the weirdest content on Twitter and everywhere. We even had this quote “No one disses BTS like BTS.” or “ARMY will not let anyone diss BTS because they do it themselves” (as we used to make memes and such) So? What is this? What is this childish and overly sensitive mind we have today? BTS do not even take themselves seriously nor ARMYs but why … are you all acting so firm suddenly? We are called ARMY not the POLICE.

But the reasons above are not the only ones that are making me feel desperate and mad to write this. I post content to share smiles but right now I might beat someone’s butt if they don’t behave (you are invited to cancel me over this joke. It will just prove my point). Seriously, we are losing BIG accounts in our fandom because of this. And some will just say “It’s ok our fandom is big anyways.” Sadly, this is not a good thing. Running any type of account require some type of experience the person builds in sometime YEARS, it also needs time, the person will give up sleep and free time just for this group they love and this fandom they wish to help. Yet, they will get cancelled over something so little and they will see their loyalty be questioned over this? A voting account a chart account, a update account, a giffing account, an art account and so on .. none of these can be done in a matter of seconds. YOU, consuming the info, yes, it takes you seconds. To make anything though, takes HOURS. A simple gifset that you enjoyed but just scrolled through in 36 seconds might have taken over 3600 seconds to make. Also, these big account are a big shield against haters. (I have been in the fandom since the early days and knew Kpop even before that but there are things I only learned after I started this blog) They also help when we want to spread an info or regroup for something. And maybe the fandom will be unbeatable for now but on the long run … we might turn into history and for the present, it won’t be that fun anymore.

If we are an ARMY, we are now losing our generals. How will you know where to go, what to do, when to meet even without the people that keep everything organized, updated but also fun? This is messed up. Let’s use better words towards each other. Be kinder. More understanding. More forgiving. More loving. Isn’t that what BTS stand for? Then what are we doing? 

We said WE gonna be in this BTS sh*t for life, didn’t we? So unless you wanna be in it alone, behave. Understand? 

Reminder that this is not meant to say that all ARMYs behave that way and is addressed to the ones who do. This is NOT to scold everyone but to make our fandom as a whole aware of this and remind that we should be spreading love not hate. 

being on tumblr is just so cozy... you know what i mean? instagram and twitter are all flashy and loud but tumblr is as cozy as my bedroom with scented candles on a cold November night

The fact that the tree was here the longest makes it feel special. Whether we’re on stage or in the shadow, let’s meet there on October 10. If we do that, I sort of feel like we might see each other for a long time like this tree. When we are 19 and 20.    

They never cared that you were hurt too. Not to them you weren’t the fact they forced you to grow up far beyond your years was your fault not theirs, not to them at least. Their arguments and fights hurt you but did they care? No. So stop shouting in the void for pain no one ever cared about, for the pain that you were told is your causation. No one cared, they had their own people to cry to, the tears you shed were of no value or care to them. Just stop it, they don’t care. 

Rebloggling to save my own life

the suffering never ends