I Love Knowing Men See Me As Inferior And Will Correct Me Without A Second Thought.

I love knowing men see me as inferior and will correct me without a second thought.

Submission is a gift

I have discovered this is true, but not in the way people think it is.

Many submissives will say 'submission is a gift to the Dom' which is only a justification for kinky bottoms to appease their discomfort with submitting to men by convincing themselves they are an equal partner to the activities.

Relationships between people are not math problems, there is no equality. In some relationships you are in charge (ie: a parent) and in some you are not (a factory assembly line worker). D/s relationships are not equal. There is no balance and there never can be unless you both are switches who swap roles. There is complementarity, compatibility, synergy and fluidity, which is a much deeper and more beautiful thing than what equality could ever be.

Submission is a gift the submissive gives to herself. Surrendering to him is an act of self love, of self care and self acceptance of her own true nature. It is how she meets her need to please others and be useful. Every time she says 'yes Sir' she is writing across her soul validation and acceptance of who she truly is. She reaffirms what she knows to be the essential truth of her very being.

It's not cheating when he uses other women for sex, tells me about it and kicks me out of his bed so he can fuck her in it.

Patriarchy =/= misogyny

Misogyny can be part of patriarchy and can be fun at times, but it's not essential if you want to support patriarchy.

Patriarchy is the natural order of relationship between men and women, supporting it is supporting women. Being pro-patriarchy is being pro-women in the most basic way. What could be more natural and loving than supporting a man leads - woman obeys dynamic?

Wanting your woman to stay at home looking after the house and children is not misogyny

Wanting the head of the house to lead and make the decisions for his family is not misgyny

Obeying his orders because you know he has his family's best interests at heart and trust him, is not misogyny

Giving a woman discipline to help keep her focused and punishing her when she does wrong is keeping the family stable and is not misogyny

Expecting your woman to listen to your guidance and follow your instructions for the optimal running of your home is not misogyny

A woman surrendering her own needs and wants for the betterment of the family and to better focus on his satisfaction is not misogyny

They are all the most loving and supportive things that can happen in a relationship.

Misogyny is hating women, it can be fun to roleplay, but it is not patriarchy.

Mansplaining

If a man 'mansplains' something to you, thank him. He has used his valuable time to ensure you understand something better. He is not to know if you already have that information or not and he thought you were worthy enough to at least inform you. It is a complement when a man takes the time to 'mansplain', it is his way of helping you be a better person.

Always welcome mansplaining and always say thank you when he was gracious enough to give you that time - he didn't have to. It's just another example of how men are being helpful toward girls. We need to appreciate it more.