19 Ways To Be A Better Cocksucker

19 ways to be a better cocksucker

#1 – Be able to host, especially if he is married.

#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo.

#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to.

#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.

#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better

#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.

#7 – Buy some knees pads so you don’t need to take a break.

#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.

#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.

#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.

#11 – When he is done cumming, your are done. Never expect him to reciprocate in any way.

#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. Many guys would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off.

#13 – Try to make note of when he usually contacts you. And the frequency of when he does, so you can make sure you are available when he wants to use you. When his balls are full, he’s not interested in what else you have going on in your life.

#14 – If he lifts his legs back while you are sucking him, that often means he would like to get rimmed as well, and your should do that for him.

#15 – When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.

#16 – Never touch your cunt when you are sucking him, unless he tells you to.

#17 – Always provide porn for him to enjoy, and get the kind of porn he likes to watch.

#18 - Ask him if he wants to take pictures or record you sucking his cock to brag and show to his friends

#19 – When he is not using you, do not hassle him or bug him. At the very most, you can periodically let him know your availability, but never expect him to respond unless he wants to, when he wants to. And when he doesn’t feel like using your mouth, leave him alone to enjoy the rest of his life.

Gorean serve

One of the most beautiful and graceful expressions of submissions I was told to learn is a Gorean serve. Gor/Gorean is a subset of bdsm with their own culture and ways of doing things. You don't have to be part of it to take on elements you like. I make no claims this is an accurate representation as I am not Gorean, but I was taught by a Gorean couple active in their local Gorean community.

The Serve

The serve is done in one, sweeping, fluid movement from approach to offering. It can be done for food, beverages or an item you have been sent to fetch. If the item is a cup with a handle, make sure the handle faces the other's dominant handedness side (on your left if they are right handed).

Approach gracefully, have item in your hand, kneel and as your knees touch the floor slide them apart so your sex is exposed. Take the item, moving down in a softly rounded motion, place it between your legs next to your sex swirl it up to your heart raise to your lips complete the flowing swirl by going from lips to hands extended in front and slightly raised - while lowering your head. Hold that position until the item is taken from you.

Meaning

Open legs when presenting means you are free for sexual use by the person you are serving. If you are not free for sexual use then keep knees together.

Item to sex, heart, lips can mean different things, I was taught I was offering my body, heart and mind in service.

It can take a bit of practice to get this right and be graceful but it is achievable. I've been a bbw all my adult life and I still achieved it, so not just for the thinner females.

Hello everyone! I’ve made it to over 1000 followers recently, and my dom and I agreed to make one of these posts to celebrate!

This post will run until October 16th Noon EST

*Edges and/or ruins controlled by my dom will not count towards this post, and if he makes me cum I must start all over again.

Edit: Spamming is encouraged by the way ☺️ I love the idea of an unobtainable goal

Edit 2: Edges from this post will be completed in the shortest amount of time as possible, which will obviously fry my brain as much as possible because that’s the whole point ☺️

Every one note is an edge I have to do, but special goals include:

Every 5 likes is an edge with mint chapstick on my clit and/or nipples

Every 5 reblogs is an edge I have to do with a dildo in, but no touching my clit

Every 5 comments is an edge I have to do with sensory deprivation

Every 20 likes is a minute I have to wear nipple and/or clit clamps while edging

Every 40 likes is an edge I have to do without a sex toy or my hands, anything else is fair game

Every 50 comments is a ruin followed immediately by smacking my cunt until its tingly

Every 100 of all is an edge I can have only by smacking my cunt and clit

Every 500 of all is an edge with the tens unit

Edit: If this post can get to 1000 notes, I will hard edge as many times in a row as I can handle (whatever the end result may be) with my legs tied open so I have no choice but to feel it and submit to it more and more

No orgasm day 8. There's a ball of arousal permanently lodged deep inside my cunt, whispering one little cum won't hurt.

females do not require orgasms

I am a firm believer that females not only don’t need to orgasm for any reason but not having orgasms is a more natural, better state for our psychological and emotional well-being. Is this just a kinky fantasy that gets me aroused or is there some scientific proof to back this up?

Here is what I have discovered so far.

In earlier stages of evolution the clitoris was placed inside the vaginal canal and orgasm was necessary for ovulation to occur. The hormones released during orgasm is what triggered egg release. If an orgasm didn’t happen there simply could be no pregnancy. Over time some species began to develop regular ovulation cycles that did not require orgasm, humans are one. In our species the clitoris was also migrated to outside of the vaginal canal, moving further away over time. This gives humans an evolutionary advantage for species survival – more pregnancies will happen regardless of orgasm.

In some females the clitoral glans has moved to a position where it will not be stimulated through penal penetration alone. One theory about why some females never experience orgasm is that evolution is simply removing the ability to orgasm from females as it is simply not required for species survival. This would mean females who can’t orgasm are further along the evolutionary path.

How close the clitoral glans is to the vaginal opening is an inheritable trait. The more females who are unable to orgasm procreate girls, the more this will be passed onto the next generation.

The number of females who cannot orgasm is much higher than the number of males who don’t experience orgasm. In the case of females there is often no known cause or reason why – this would support it being evolution at work, yet with Men who don’t orgasm, there is always a reason.

Post menopause

Many females post menopause discover their clitoris is less sensitive to stimulation, shrinks in size and in some cases, disappears altogether. Since there is no chance of pregnancy at this stage, it would seem to suggest the use of a clitoris is a holdover from when it was required for ovulation. As females can live long, healthy lives post menopause, it gives more weight to the belief that an orgasm or clitoris is not actually needed by females for survival.

Effects of no orgasm in females

Many anorgasmic females report satisfying sex lives without orgasm. It absolutely is not required for procreation or enjoyment of sex, whereas Male orgasm is.

With females who experience no orgasm through denial, the vast majority report increased arousal with increased desire to please and serve. They have found it makes them more submissive, more feminine and more eager to obey. They are far more willing to explore more daring sexual activities than they would have if having regular orgasms.

Some females report orgasm denial makes them moodier and more depressed. That would be because of the hormones released during orgasm – dopamine and oxytocin. As orgasm is not essential for females, I believe this response to orgasm denial is akin to an addiction withdrawal, it’s not the lack of orgasm that causes mood change but the lack of the hormones in their system. Like withdrawal from any other chemical addiction, taking time to adjust and implementing other ways to gain these hormones (like increased exercise), will help females adjust to not having orgasms.

Sources:

YaleNews

Yale researchers shed light on evolutionary mystery: Origins of the female orgasm

Female orgasm seems to be a happy afterthought of our evolutionary past when it helped stimulate ovulation, a new study of mammals shows.

YaleNews

Female orgasm is evolution’s happy gift

New research suggests that the female orgasm is a neuro-endocrine response inherited from older lineages of animals who only ovulate during

refinery29.com

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I am a woman.

As such, my body literally exists to take cock and breed. The fuckbags on my chest make it impossible for me to hide my bitch nature.

I know wherever I go, men just see a set of holes and udders.

Even as my cunt clenches in shame to admit it, I know I’m literally just fuckmeat.