I Keep Seeing Misinformation About This, So: Queerplatonic Relationships Do Not Have A Set Definition.

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

There’s a very real possibility that the word “Clussy” will be included in the Oxford Dictionary in the not too distant future.

Violets are blue

Roses are red

I’m still aroace

So fuck yourself instead

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I'm not getting into your bed

I'm AroAce, FUCK YOU

I shall focus on being a weird fuck with all of my being

Art by Liminal Void GF