I Shall Focus On Being A Weird Fuck With All Of My Being

I shall focus on being a weird fuck with all of my being

I posted this on an aroace subreddit and what I loved is that everyone seemed to have their own interpretation of what it meant and how it applied to them.

Digit from The Jim Henson Hour

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

Ladies, if he nibbles your ear during sex, that ain’t your man, that’s a desmodus rotundus (better known as the common vampire bat)

I’m like 90% sure that guy from the Harry Potter movies isn’t named “Rupert Grupert” but I don’t really care enough to check.