Greythewolfdog-blog - ~Grey~

TIPS FOR SHOPPING FOR YOUR TRANS BOYFRIEND

Just some tips I’ve learned over the years to help with my boyfriend’s dysphoria

•vertical stripes (makes you seem taller) •uneven patterns such as polka dots (hides any chest bumps) •jackets, sweaters, or vests (layers hide curves. But be sure they’re not too long. Oversized clothes make you seem smaller. Hem should be no more than 2 inches below waist) •graphic T shirt (make sure design is higher up on the chest to hide any chest bumps) •pants (straight fitted. Go up a size. Try to get little to no breaks.) •round or pointed toed shoes (square toed shoes make you seem shorter) •hats, glasses, necklaces, bow ties, skinny ties (any accessories should be kept to the upper half of their body to draw the eye up and make them seem taller) •binders (best binder brands I know of are Underworks, and G2cb) •shoelifts (amazon has really good cheap ones) • shop online for smaller men’s clothes (rue21, Zara, American Eagle, Express Men, Asos, H&M)

A little spanking never hurt no one 😉😉

Dat Feel...

Where as a therianthrope you realize that no non-therian individual and no animal will ever “get you fully” because of how you’re constantly walking the line between human and animal experience.

Well I’m going to go out in a limb here and take a risk. I don’t really like to proclaim myself “as a therian” a whole lot, I prefer the term trans-species better. But I really don’t need a label to know who and what I am. But that’s not the point of what I’m getting at here. Just first saying I don’t make a habit of reaching out to the therian community so this will be a first. But, to my fellow wolf trans-species/therian out there I have a question. From my lurking along the edges of the community just observing others… I’ve noticed that not all, but a lot of wolf therians enjoy wearing collars to get more in touch with their true self. First I would like to say, if this really helps you feel in touch with yourself, I support this. That is the most important thing is for each of us to feel closest to our true selves and be the best version of ourselves we can be. So long as this does not cause harm or danger to others, I fully support whatever it takes to get you to that place. Do what makes you feel your best! :) I just am a bit confused because it could just be my personal taste and experience…but I struggle to understand how a collar helps a wolf therian feel connected to themselves? I’m not hating or trying to cause trouble, I just wish to understand. It’s just in my opinion (which I may not hold out over anyone else) that a collar is the symbol of a dog, either their loyalty to humans, or in a more derogatory sense, their enslavement to humans. A wolf can not be tamed, freedom is the birthright of a wolf. As trans species we are already trapped in this pathetic human shell. I’m just curious to understand where a collar helps one feel connected to their wild predatory nature as a wolf. It could be something I’ve not experienced so I would very much like to know why others feel so strongly about this, and understand my fellows. So if anyone had anything to say or a story to share I really would like to understand this. It could be my strong aversion to being bound or restrained (also ropes and chains and stuff just freak me out) but I am sure there must be some good reason behind it for others. I would like to understand. -Sibera