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Well I’m going to go out in a limb here and take a risk. I don’t really like to proclaim myself “as a therian” a whole lot, I prefer the term trans-species better. But I really don’t need a label to know who and what I am. But that’s not the point of what I’m getting at here. Just first saying I don’t make a habit of reaching out to the therian community so this will be a first. But, to my fellow wolf trans-species/therian out there I have a question. From my lurking along the edges of the community just observing others… I’ve noticed that not all, but a lot of wolf therians enjoy wearing collars to get more in touch with their true self. First I would like to say, if this really helps you feel in touch with yourself, I support this. That is the most important thing is for each of us to feel closest to our true selves and be the best version of ourselves we can be. So long as this does not cause harm or danger to others, I fully support whatever it takes to get you to that place. Do what makes you feel your best! :) I just am a bit confused because it could just be my personal taste and experience…but I struggle to understand how a collar helps a wolf therian feel connected to themselves? I’m not hating or trying to cause trouble, I just wish to understand. It’s just in my opinion (which I may not hold out over anyone else) that a collar is the symbol of a dog, either their loyalty to humans, or in a more derogatory sense, their enslavement to humans. A wolf can not be tamed, freedom is the birthright of a wolf. As trans species we are already trapped in this pathetic human shell. I’m just curious to understand where a collar helps one feel connected to their wild predatory nature as a wolf. It could be something I’ve not experienced so I would very much like to know why others feel so strongly about this, and understand my fellows. So if anyone had anything to say or a story to share I really would like to understand this. It could be my strong aversion to being bound or restrained (also ropes and chains and stuff just freak me out) but I am sure there must be some good reason behind it for others. I would like to understand. -Sibera

Hey !!

I’m a 19yr old black transguy who needs a little help. I recently started going on hormones! That’s really cool, right? Yeah well here’s the crappy part. I have no source of income, and I live with my transphobic grandmother who is very upset about my transition. So, I dont really have anyone to help me. I hate asking for money, but I really need help with refilling my prescription. If anyone is able to help me out I would be super thankful! (Or if y'all could just reblog, that’d be cool too)

cash.me/$mankiefray

Trans guy culture is when you talk about which dick to buy

me 2013: i want a cute bf me 2017: i am a cute bf

Reblog if you think I, a trans boy, have it in me to survive a few more years at an all-girls school

I need to prove a point. To myself.

Dear cis people,

When I tell you I’m trans:

Please don’t act like you know more about it than me, trust me the chances are you don’t.

When I tell you my prefered name, thank you for using it, but there’s no need to mention it. Please don’t mention it at all. I am my chosen name and always have been. I don’t need to be told that I don’t look like my birthname.

Please don’t laugh when I do strange things which help my dysphoria.

Although self explanatory, don’t refer to me as a girl or assume my pronouns. If you don’t know, please just ask.

If you have a question, please ask. But make sure you listen to the answer instead of asking and reasking several times.

Sincerely,

Your friendly neighborhood trans guy.

when you’re just mindin your own business eating dinner and your family starts saying homophobic/transphobic shit

TIPS FOR SHOPPING FOR YOUR TRANS BOYFRIEND

Just some tips I’ve learned over the years to help with my boyfriend’s dysphoria

•vertical stripes (makes you seem taller) •uneven patterns such as polka dots (hides any chest bumps) •jackets, sweaters, or vests (layers hide curves. But be sure they’re not too long. Oversized clothes make you seem smaller. Hem should be no more than 2 inches below waist) •graphic T shirt (make sure design is higher up on the chest to hide any chest bumps) •pants (straight fitted. Go up a size. Try to get little to no breaks.) •round or pointed toed shoes (square toed shoes make you seem shorter) •hats, glasses, necklaces, bow ties, skinny ties (any accessories should be kept to the upper half of their body to draw the eye up and make them seem taller) •binders (best binder brands I know of are Underworks, and G2cb) •shoelifts (amazon has really good cheap ones) • shop online for smaller men’s clothes (rue21, Zara, American Eagle, Express Men, Asos, H&M)

Therian things

Things I think I should to be able to do:

Call myself a wolf therian.

To discuss therianthropy with other people and share my experiences.

To in my free time, in appropriate contexts (such as in my own home) do wolfish things like walking on all fours, growl or sniff things.

To have a home, job, friends, family, just like any other person.

To have my family and friends respect me and not spread mean rumors.

To in my own free time, wear clothing, make-up or accessories that I find comfortable, beautiful or meaningful without people harassing me or pulling at me.

Things I do not demand:

To use neopronouns such as “pup/puppy/pupself”

That nobody ever calls me “human”.

That strangers should have to put with me biting or licking them.

Any change in my ID or passport that would reflect my canine nature.

That my workplace should accodommate my therianthropy by letting me urine mark the building or something. 

Forbid other people from using clothing, make-up or accessories that they find comfortable, beautiful or meaningful, just because they aren’t therians.

But you know, “otherkin and therians on tumblr demand such ridicolous things”. 

The soccer gender pay gap is ridiculous

anyone know any good sources to learn more about otherkin? it’s something i’ve been curious to learn more about but i can’t find any info that isn’t blatant anti-tumblr circlejerk.

Goals.

Fun toys ain’t I right daddy?

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A little spanking never hurt no one 😉😉

50 Rules for Daddies

1. Attention give it to her daily, even a quick thinking of you 2. Be her first, regardless of how experienced she is be her first in some positive way 3. Commit - poly or not if you’re her Daddy be her Daddy and see it as an honor and responsibility 4. Discipline her when necessary, not too much but not too lazy 5. Enjoy her silly, funny, or cute side she may grow out of it or you may miss it 6. Finger her the way only you can 7. Give her a reason for (or avoid) rules that confuse her (thanks @MyPreciousOne) 8. Grab her suddenly for a passionate kiss often 9. Help her accomplish things important to her 10. Hold her tight as much as you can 11. Imagine your life without her, if it makes you hurt, sad, or angry then don’t take her for granted. 12. Just love her the best you can 13. Know her middle name and birthday, its important 14. Keep those stinky bad boys away 15. Listen to her… Fine we get you know things but once a week open your mind and just listen, no judgement 16. Lick her, let her show you where and tell you how nipples, neck, clit anywhere… 17. Love her hard, she’ll do the same for you 18. Let her undress you 19. Massage her back when she cries 20. Maintain control even when she’s being so bratty or disrespectful, put her in her place and carry on with the day 21. NEVER put her down, regardless of how hurt you are… She’ll remember it forever like really FOREVER 22. Offer advice about anything she needs help with 23. Outline your expectations, doesn’t have to be on paper but make it clear, she’s less likely to let you down 24. Push her limits like only you can 25. Power is precious handle it as such 26. Protect her… From herself, negativity, bad influences, or bumble bees 27. Prepare her, if a time comes for her to do something specific and important don’t just spring it on. Do little things to get her ready even if you haven’t told her 28. Snuggle her 29. Sit her on your lap and tell her about your day. Then let her have a turn 30. Sing to her, even if you’re horrible at it, likely it will remind her of how special she is to you 31. Steer away from comparing her… She’s you’re unique and special girl, never make her question that 32. Spoil her - letters, juice, stuffies, and most of all kisses, hugs, and cock :-) 33. Spank her… You pick the purpose reward, sadism, or punishment soft or hard but just spank her. Often :-) 34. Squeeze her sexy tits or suck them or spank them or torture them. Just remember she has them and they need attention 35. Shower with her or bathe, its so nice 36. Swallow every compliment, she means it 37.. Show her love in her love language, not yours if she sees love as affection but you see love as gifts give that girl affection and call that your gift 38. Stand tall even if you aren’t, head held high and walking strong 39. Try new things whenever you get the chance 40. Take her places she likes - your backyard via skype or build a bear or the zoo she’ll always remember 41. Take your time - when being frisky do as you wish but lets not rip anything unless its your fetish 42. Trust her… what girl wants to hurt her daddy or let him down 43. Tuck her in, I don’t care if you do really live in antartica call that girl at her bedtime not yours and tell her night night and make sure she’s in bed. It’ll help her rest better 44. Taste her food to make sure its yummy 45. Under her skirt is one of your most precious domains make sure she knows it and keep it happy 46. Visualize new positions then try them 47. Voice your displeasure in a loving firm way 48. Wake her gently with a call or a kiss 49. Wipe her tears, especially if you caused them 50. Watch as she grows and all your effort pays off

by SweetRecognition 

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more articles in the Library For Kinksters.

There is a difference between a daddy and rape….. 🎀🌸

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What is the Otherkin Community Really and Why Is the Therian Community A Huge Part of It

[The following is based on what sources can be found on both the Otherkin Timeline and those found on the various History of the Otherkin Communities project our system is working on.]

What we today call the “otherkin community” is more or less the blending between several communities for people who identify as nonhuman to create a middle-ground between them. An umbrella community if you will. The therian community was one of several communities that had a major hand in creating what we now know of the otherkin community today .

The term “otherkin” was coined in 1990 on the Elfkinkind Digest which was part of the growing Elfinkind community. It was originally meant to mean people who identified as nonhuman who did not identify as elves. So in its original meaning, there were “elfinkin” (Those who identified as elves) and “otherkin” (everyone else who identified as other than elves).   Then in the midish 1990s the definition of otherkin meaning anyone who identifies as “other than human” took off. This shift in definition appears to be because of the other communities that were appearing separately and independently from one another at the time. There was the therian community that began in 1993 on Alt.horror.Werewolves which started out being a community for people who identifies as wereanimals but included several weredragons among other mythical creatures. Also in 1993 on alt.fan.dragons the draconic community began to grow with members coming forward about identifying as dragons. In the mid 1990s, two websites also appeared independently for those who identified as unicorns. I’ve also seen reference to there being communities that also appeared independently for those who identifies as angelic and another for mermaid as well but haven’t found as much success on more information on them. (The latter may or may not have been mingled into the mermaiding community though.)

In the late 1990s websites like the Otherkin Resource Center and Shadow’s Den began to pop up. These websites mostly acted as hubs connecting these communities together. Otherkin Resource Center, for example, offering basic information about weres (the still used term for therians at the time) and links to various therian websites (such as WereWeb, Shifters.org, Were.net, and the Shapeshifter and Werewolf Handbook which were all very popular at the time). The website had similar pages and links for the elvenkind community, draconic community, and others. Shadow’s Den, had similar cross-community intentions as it acted like a hub for information and links about the therian community, vampire community, draconic community, fae/elvenkind community, and for those who identified as angelic entities.  

This trend of otherkin websites being meddling pots between these communities continued to grow into the early 2000s. Websites website (complete with forum) such as Enchanted Realms appeared which defined otherkin as anyone who felt “other than human” and the forum itself gave different otherkin communities their own subforum, including the therian community.  Another website called Realmsscape.org had a webpage on otherkin and refered that the three largest otherkin communities were the elven community, draconic community, and were community.

However, with the rise in activity from the middle-ground that is the otherkin community, several of the smaller otherkin communities suffered. We have found reference to there once being a separate community of people who identified as angelic that existed in the 90s, but no trace of the community seems to exist on today. The unicorn community is more or less inactive anymore. The therian community, due to it being the largest otherkin community, has not only thrived on its own without being more or less assimilated into the otherkin community, its directly influenced it.    

In truth, the therian community has had the MOST influence of the otherkin community compared to any other otherkin community. Many concepts and ways of looking at identity originated from the therian community - shifting and all of its labels came from the therian community for example. Almost all of the terms used to day in the otherkin community came directly from the therian community - kintype came from theriotype, polykin came from polytherian, shifting and all subsequent terms, polymorph, and so on.  

So rather than there being an “otherkin community” and a “therian community,” the therian community has always not only been a part of the otherkin community but has hand a major influence in the otherkin community. The otherkin community was created as a sort of middle-ground between various otherkin communities and the therian community isn’t the only community that arose for those who identified as nonhuman.  (Our multiple system, might work on this, clean it up, flesh it out, cite it out, and make this into an article or something down the road. Might be useful? Not sure.) - Miushra

Dat Feel...

Where as a therianthrope you realize that no non-therian individual and no animal will ever “get you fully” because of how you’re constantly walking the line between human and animal experience.

Those who keep company with wolves will be taught how to howl.

a Howler, 2016 (via alister-wolf)