- Coffee Date W Akaashi

- coffee date w akaashi

guys ik y’all follow me for harry potter content ,, but pls don’t let this flop 😭😭 just send it to your anime friends or pretend it’s for cedric or smth

it’s already winter and i don’t have a car or a bf to go out on dates w - but it’s always nice to pretend!! so here’s my imaginary coffee date w akaashi and our corgi

special thanks to @4fterh0urs for giving me tips on how to make moodboards on tumblr,, ty phoebe!!!

credits to @leviswaifu on pinterest + tiktok for the edited picture of akaashi!!

bakugo

my villain origin story is that bakugo wouldn’t want to be friends with me. and that thought keeps my on the toilet. it fucking ruins me. knowing that i’d be patient enough to try and get him to warm up to me, and he might! but i’m not a mind reader, and i can only take so many insults before i’m going to want to leave. and i still wouldn’t hold it against him. i’d be frustrated but i couldn’t be mad at him. i just really want to be his friend. i want him to give me a chance because i know i can be just as friendly and just as nice and just as good of a friend as kirishima is. everyone tells me i’m just like him, so why couldn’t you see the same and just let me in. because being in ua wasn’t enough for me. and that’s such a selfish thought and i’d feel horrible for thinking that, but i just want his friendship. but the hero course was perfectly balanced, as all things should be, and that means that there’s no space for me.

but i’ll love you anyways

oh so you'll like my post but not kiss me. typical

BECAUSE NONE OF US ARE MENTALLY STABLE:

Here, have a list of things to make you feel less overwhelmed, compliments of my boredom

Food - Because I’ve been told (repeatedly) that coffee isn’t food.

Chocolate mug cake (if you have a microwave)

Don’t like chocolate? Here’s a vanilla mug cake

Don’t have a microwave? Here’s a brownie recipe (You can substitute yogurt in case you don’t have applesauce)

Don’t feel up to cooking a meal? Here’s an easy snack (You can use almond or cashew butter if you’re allergic to peanuts)

Overnight Oats

Because pasta fixes everything

Some more recipes

Need A Distraction? Here are some websites 

This website puts you on a random spot on the globe and you can just click around to explore

Indirect catharsis we all need

Just a fun website you can use to create a galaxy

Scroll through a scale model of the solar system

Read a book!

Go on a research tangent

Here’s a link to Bernadette Banner’s Youtube channel because I love her videos (Fashion history isn’t for everyone, but you might like it!)

Don’t Like Silence? Here, have some background noise

Ten hours of rain sounds

Coffee Shop

3 Hours of Thunderstorm and Fireplace sounds

Air Conditioner

White Noise

Victorian Era Ambience

Train and Blizzard Sounds

Anxiety? Panic Attack? - Here are some websites that may help

A good overview of anxiety and what an anxiety disorder is

Understanding anxiety disorders

A beginner’s guide to anxiety disorders

Coping with anxiety

Some more coping strategies

Misconceptions about anxiety 

Ways to prevent panic attacks

How to stop a panic attack

OCD? - Some useful information

Understanding OCD

Types of OCD

Are you trying to empathize with or know someone with OCD? 

What not to say to someone with OCD 

Tips for coping with OCD

OCD explained

Self-Hatred? - These articles help you understand it better because sometimes, you have to understand it before you try to stop it 

The Basics of Self-Hatred

This article explains the causes of self-hatred really well

My cynical self found this article a little glib but it’s a great source of information

How to deal with self-hatred

An overview of self-hatred

Abuse? Depression? Addiction? Suicidal Thoughts? - Here are some text hotlines and emergency numbers

This website lists hotlines for a diverse range of issues

Stressed All The Time? - Here are some articles that can help you understand why

Causes of stress and potential solutions

Ways to prevent stress

Signs of too much stress 

Is it stress or depression?

How to stop feeling stressed

Too Much Schoolwork? - Here are some helpful websites

Ways to make homework stress a bit more bearable

Time Management For Students 

5 Tips for dealing with homework (Personally, I hate the way they put the words too much in quotes in a way that implies that some of us aren’t overwhelmed, but it still has some good advice)

How To Make Homework Less Work

Trouble organizing your papers? This article walks you through a good system

Khan Academy (It’s a great resource if you need some extra help or clarification for your coursework)

Sleep Issues? - These articles explain causes and solutions

Some basic information about sleeping disorders

This article points out potential solutions to common sleep problems

More in-depth information, mainly about diagnosis and treatment

This article details causes and treatments for nightmares

How to cope with nightmares

Is anxiety interfering with sleep? This article outlines possible solutions

Self care - It’s not all bath bombs and face masks (It’s me getting lost in the internet because I don’t understand self care-)

The basics of self care

Simple acts of self care

Inexpensive self care

Examples and benefits of self care 

Take a nap and drink some water

Some Miscellaneous Reminders - 

- Treat yourself the way you would treat a good friend

- Don’t forget to drink enough water

- If you’re under prescription, take your meds

- Try talking to a friend or someone you know won’t judge you and listen to what they have to say

- If you can afford it, think about therapy

- Take time away from school/work and focus on your own mental health

- Given that you’re alright with it, you may want to consider talking to your health care provider

Do you need to talk to someone? Send me an ask and I’ll respond to the best of my ability! 

If anyone else has any additions, please add on!

 sirius black fic rec list!!

okay but imagine having sirius black fall in love with you...a concept 😌

the feeling that we’re meeting again by @writesowhatnext

cross house relationships!!!!! literally yall are missing out if you project yourself into the same house as your lover!! you’re missing out on the tension, the passion, the romance!!! and once you get out of hogwarts and that tension is still there!!! post hogwarts sirius!!! hes so hot!!! and grumpy >:) you can never go wrong with slowburn fics!! 

the risk of love by @with1love1anu

ive been following anu for foreeeeeever and she never fails!! her writing is always so good and shes one of my favorite marauders era writers <33 you’ll see as you go down this list - but i love pining fics like im obsesssssed!! ooo and this one has a hint of best friend james and it just makes the story 10x better! 

breakfast in bed by @wondernimbus

when authors are 14 years old but can write flawlessly even though i struggle doing simple short stories in english class 😘not but fr ysa is such a good writer xx. breakfast in bed! what would yall eat 🤔if we’re talking abt english food (like food from england) idk what they eat over there tbh but i would pick roasted potatoes and waffles for breakfast :) wait actually no i wouldn’t, id probably do french toast with powdered sugar, strawberries, and french fries. ik it sounds weird but i had that the other day and i teared up, it tasted so good. but in this fic they have something even better!! have you ever wondered what it would be like to have toast, strawberry flavored muffins, and fruit for breakfast, all from the comfort of your bed, with the one and only sirius black? well look no further bc this fic has that and everything more!! 

godmother by @blisfvll

jen does it again!! coming through with the godmother!reader x godfather!sirius fics <33 (shes on this list three times bc she just writes so much good sirius content 😫) not to be morbid but when im gone i want someone to talk abt me the way sirius talks about the reader 😔i just love the way the sirius talked about her so lovingly and treated her like this ethereal being and painted her like this angel bc that must be so comforting for harry knowing that not only are his parents looking after him but his angel of a godmother is too ♥︎

oh shit + pt2 by @im-a-writer-right 

big brother remus am i right! as the oldest child, i love reading fics where im the younger sibling bc i just want someone to be able to look after me and care for me and be protective abt who i date bc they’re like “ i just don’t want you to get hurt” 😔 but anyways - this was a rlly cute and funny fic! i love snarky sirius and butthead james and overprotective remus and scared of falling for her brothers best friend reader :) if you like those all too you should read this one 😌

warnings by @blisfvll  

i felt like i was watching a short film! i loved this one! its so well written that you can like watch the play by play of everything happening in your head, like its sooo good! im sorry i keep putting so many angsty fics on this list 🥺👉🏼👈🏼 they’re just all so beautifully written and jen is such an amazing writer <33 

just a natural fact by @iliveiloveiwrite 

MILLIE!! YOU DID IT AGAIN!! guys if you are not following millie pls do i freaking love her sh*t and shes so far been on every fic rec list ive made :)) back to the review tho! im a very big fan of those timeskip fics like where theres a scenario for every year at hogwarts - and this one is one of those and i just - AGHHHGH!!! idk if this counts as a slowburn but like as someone who injects themself into the hogwarts timeline and pretends to be studying for her NEWTS when shes really doing AP work - i love reading about study sessions w remus where sirius tries to interject himself so he can be close to you 😊i dont want to spoil anything but like the tagline “Break my heart. Break it a thousand times if you like. It was only ever yours to break.” RUINED ME!! and you know what! i’ll do it again! i will read this fic and let it ruin me three more times and ten more times and however many i feel like! so yes, if you couldn’t tell, i love this one, and you guys should totally read it

die for you by @blisfvll 

i like to torture myself with sad fics so now im passing them along to you so we can all cry together ;( domestic life with sirius is something so very personal to me 😌so ofc i jumped at the idea of being harry’s godparent along w hubby sirius! but do not be fooled by my review - this one is sad - but its totally worth it!!! the things we do for baby harry am i right?? i am right 😌

wrapped around my finger by @remusishotterthansirius

jealous sirius jealous sirius jealous sirius!! oooo and when he growls >:)) i love the idea of being like this unattainable magical being in sirius’s eyes and you’re just like completely unaware of his feelings and it just adds to the mystery about you like imagine him sitting with the marauders by the black lake and him picking at a flower being like “she loves me, she loves me not, she loves me, she loves me not” and then him being all sad and pouty once the petals are all gone and he was left with ‘she loves me not’ :(( but  n e  ways - this was so cute and so masterfully written and i just love everything this author puts out so do not be surprised if you see at least one of their works on every single one of my hp fic rec lists >:))

misunderstandings by @imagineitup

oof this one really played with my heart! you know those fics where someones feelings are painfully obvious and you just want the other person to finally realize so they can both be put out of their misery and then go on to have this cute relationship BUT NONE OF THAT CAN HAPPEN UNTIL THEY COME TO THE REALIZATION THAT THEY ARE CAPABLE OF BEING LOVED!!! i love those fics and this is one of them :)))

thats all for my recs! sorry this ones so short - ive been drifting in and out of life, and school has been hard for me. there was a lot more to this list but a lot of my favorite writers have left tumblr so i dont have as much to share w yall 😔and theres obviously so many more amazing writers out there, im just sharing what i know! i’m thinking of just finishing up the other fic rec lists i have and then im going to move over to anime recs! ive been obsessed w haikyuu lately and theres a lot of fics i want to share with others - so if you guys don’t stick around for that i totally understand - but don’t worry im not making that switch till much later ✌🏼love you all so much! hope you’re all taking care of yourself, but dont worry if you’re not, its always a process so don’t put too much pressure on yourself to get stuff done and make sure to celebrate what you do get done! congratulate yourself when no one else will, and remember i’ll always be in your corner cheering you on! 

happy reading!

- love, hari !!