Another Thing From Your Fellow Psychological Dissertation Anon, When You Level Up In Life And Attempt

another thing from your fellow psychological dissertation anon, when you level up in life and attempt to level up mentally, remember that recognising your trauma or understanding what traumatised you is not the only thing you need to do.

It’s one thing to understand or recognise that your family being poor traumatised you. That your abusive parents traumatised you. It’s another thing to recognise that your coping mechanisms are unhealthy and are hurting you and others. And it’s a whole different beast to work on changing those coping mechanisms.

Recognise your trauma -> learn how the trauma manifests in your life (anger issues, insecurity, etc) -> learn and recognise how you cope with the trauma (food addiction, drug addiction, taking it out on others, isolating yourself, etc) -> work on changing the coping mechanisms (when you spot yourself spiraling and what to emotionally eat, isolate, etc, pause yourself, count to five and then count backwards from 5 to 1 to calm down, and do something else that you feel should replace your current coping mechanism. Instead of reaching for the food in the fridge, breathe and grab a book or something. Instead of raging on everyone, breathe, calm down, and journal or something).

Just gave y’all free therapy if you can’t afford it. Take my advice or end up screaming into the void in your 40s baby trapped by an offender.

get this anon in a office STAT!!! YALE IS CALLING. (all jokes aside tho read this)

one who speaks ill on boygenius name shall not prosper.

She just mad that no nigga ever loved her No nigga gon' stand ten toes behind her

At this point, I confirmed in my head that Nicki Minaj was projecting. Nicki Minaj has gone through a lot of trauma in her life, I won’t deny that. From her abusive dad and brother, to her mom who abandoned her multiple times in Trinidad until she was five. I sense that she has abandonment issues and daddy issues and that’s why she is such a pick me for men. Willing to throw women under the bus for the love of a man. She accuses Megan of adultery and being a side chick in her lyrics and constantly brushes off her husband’s offence as “old tea”. She views cheating as worse than rape due to her abandonment issues.

To Nicki, a loyal rapist >>> a consensual side chick/cheater.

That’s probably why she ignores the existence of her man’s other kids from other baby mamas, so that she can mentally pretend that she’s been his only one.

Jokes on her, the only reason Kenneth Petty is loyal is because he can’t leave the house.

Notice how the Barbz main motto is “loyalty” to Nicki? She fed into this behaviour. This culture of toxic loyalty. The Barbz will do anything for her. Just like how she thinks that Kenneth Petty would do anything for her.

That whole song is a projection. I knew that she was basically beefing with herself when she said “why the fuck is you humpin on a minor?” Because Megan didn’t do that, she did.

What Megan has done is become somewhat of a mirror to Nicki, let me explain. When you scream into the dark void, the only thing you can hear is yourself and your own echo.

When someone is left in silence, the only thing they can do is talk to themselves and listen to their thoughts. It’s no longer Nicki talking to Megan because Megan left the conversation. It’s now Nicki talking to Onika.

And nobody hates Onika Tanya Maraj more than Nicki Minaj herself.

Repeat that sentence in your head.

Let this be a lesson for everyone who reads this. Learn to become comfortable with yourself. Comfortable by yourself. When you level up in life, you need to mentally level up as well. Nicki didn’t do that. Even though Nicki has all this money and a great reputation as a rapper and all these designer deals, etc, in her mind she is still that little girl stuck in Trinidad with her abusive father, abusive brother, and a mother who never defended her as a child.

When you level up financially and make moves, you also need to learn to heal. You no longer should accept what you used to allow when you were at a lower level. Otherwise you’ll be a cracked out hag screaming on instagram while your baby cries and your sex offender husband can’t quiet him down.

.... thats it. give this anon a platform. a show. a podcast. this person broke down nicki so quick like she was a lego project. they hit every nail on the head like we are building shit. i completely agree 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and one more thing. she needs a friend. not a yes man. a friend.

*ariana grande meme*

Meg: I could’ve said “your daddy is a speed bump, roadkill”, I could’ve said that… but I didn’t.

that would actually have me on the floor she better do that. but imagine how nicki would act

https://www.tumblr.com/cremegrll/740972542045667328/its-not-witchcraft-its-cocaine-lmfao-im-a-real?source=share

not all witches are Wiccan, wiccans are the one who believe in the rule of 3, I’m talking traditional witchcraft like Caribbean shit, not that European shit

yall I DONT KNOW ABT WITCHCRAFT ALL THESE TERMS CONFUSING MEEE. CHILE LET ME READ UP

what i’m ordering