I Think People Would Make Much Better Decisions When It Comes To Dating If They Stopped Focusing On Things

I think people would make much better decisions when it comes to dating if they stopped focusing on things like weddings and babies and instead focused on things like funerals and disappointment. What I mean is when I think about who I want to marry, I can’t just stop at who I want to meet at the altar. Because when you’re thinking about the person you want to spend your natural life with, that means the person who will be by your side when life is hard. When your parents die. When you lose your job. When your child is hurt. When bill can’t get paid. And when all of those painful moments come, you have to think “is this the person i want by my side? Is this the person who will be generous and giving when I’m in need? Is this the person who will find the words to soothe my aching heart? Is this the person that when I look across the room through tearful eyes, I want to, need to see their face?”

What I’m saying is when you’re thinking till death do us part, you really have to listen to the whole vow. The commitment is more than just walking down the isle. Its who you want to walk through life with.

hey black trans women i love you with all my heart forever

Wifeplay where you have sex with your wife who loves you and you love her

gender things.

sometimes i wonder if i'm actually genderfluid. sometimes i wonder if i'm really just a girl who is so afraid of being a girl that i needed to try every other identity just to make sure. and i know it's okay to detransition. i know it's okay to change your mind. i know i would fully support anyone who had been through my situation and came out on the other side and said "yknow what, i don't think this is me." i think i just put too much pressure on myself. it's like i think it's all on me to challenge the people who say "it's just a phase" and "you'll grow out of it." but it isn't. it's not all on me. i'm allowed to change my mind just like anyone else. i don't know. i really need to talk about this in therapy lmao.

desperately want to have a butch bend me over a desk and press against me so that i can feel the strap that's tucked into their pants :((

Pet names are cute but I love using your real name. I’ll say your name so sweetly that when someone else calls your name all you can think of is how much better it sounds coming from my mouth.