People Are Really Out There Just Thinking About Having Sex All The Time And They Cant Even Help It?"

“people are really out there just … thinking about having sex all the time and they can’t even help it?" i spluttered. "people have dreams about it because they want it that much? how the – i’m losing it. i thought all the movies were exaggerating, but you’re all really out there just craving genitals and embarrassment. this has to be some kind of huge joke”

loveless by alice oseman

Omg omg omg. It all makes so much more sense when you realise it's not social anxiety but a fear of being perceived.

Why do you feel more comfortable with a long coat and a mask as opposed to summer clothes?

Why do you DESPISE taking pictures? Especially if it's someone else and not you taking them.

Why do you feel like you have to stop doing whatever it was you were doing when someone passes by?

Why don't you want to tell anyone how leisurely you go about your day, taking a nap, going for a snack, sitting on your phone playing games etc. because you know they will comment on it and even though it's not negative or mockery it's still feels like you've been perceived?

Why can't you make eye contact? Why can you do it only if the other person is looking away but the second when they look at you you stop listening and when you're the one speaking you can't bear to look at them because you know their eyes are on you and they are perceiving you?

Why don't you want to dress excessively or wear nicer clothes? Because you will stand out

People mistake you for shy because you don't speak often, but it's really the fear of drawing attention to yourself more than it is the things you actually say, isn't it?

Why do you hate overpopulated areas even when no one is speaking? BUT you still feel more comfortable when more than one person is in the room (but not too many!) so that the burden of being perceived is directed on someone else and you can safely lay back just observing the scene.

It's all a defence mechanism

Percy: Water Nico: Earth Leo: Fire Jason: Air Annabeth: Long ago these idiots would actually do their chores instead of quoting Avatar: the Last Airbender

Fantasizing about Nico asking his father “When the time comes, would you be there for me?” To which Hades replies with “Every step of the way.”

That sassy little piece of shit I LOVE HIM

"All I want," I said, choking back my tears, "is to see my loving stepfather again. Every time I saw him on TV, calling me a delinquent punk, I knew ... somehow ... we would be okay. And I know he'll want to reward each and every person in this beautiful city of Los Angeles with a free major appliance from his store. Here's the phone number."

- The Lightning Thief, Percy Jackson and the Olympians by Rick Riordan

I actually want this scene word for word in the show no like you do not understand I need it so badly

the whole ‘how do you know if you’re ace if you’ve never had sex’ argument is wrong on multiple counts.

a: you could argue this for anything. for example: how do you know that you’re not immortal, if you’ve never died? how do you know that you can’t fly, if you’ve never jumped off a fucking cliff?

b: ASEXUAL ≠ NO SEX! some aces DO choose to have sex, some don’t, some masturbate, etc., so this argument is also fundamentally incorrect.

c: it’s just fucking dumb. no elaboration.

(oh no i made another angry passive aggressive post about a-spec identities)