1. Let It Hurt. Let It Consume And Devour You. Then Let It Go.2. People Will Always Have Their Side Of

1. Let it hurt. Let it consume and devour you. Then let it go. 2. People will always have their side of the story and you can’t control which side the people you care about believe. But you can control how you let it affect you. 3. Be consumed by love, not controlled by it. 4. Never compromise on the way you want to be treated. 5. It may seem like you can’t imagine living life without them, but in a month, 2 months, a year, you won’t be able to imagine life still stuck in their rut. 6. You aren’t weak just because you feel so deeply. 7. Heartbreak, in the end, is life experience. 8. Someone can only love you as deeply as they love themselves. 9. Allow yourself to face your demons. Discover your darkest fears. Learn to love every single flaw you have. 10. Be alone long enough to learn how to give yourself the type of love you keep trying to give everyone else.

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So Fucking true !

The Worst Tarot Cards Give the Best Advice

Some find it confusing when a difficult card falls in the advice position. Death is not asking you to die. But the Five of Cups wishes you would cry.

Death

Purge your soul of what no longer serves you. It will only be more painful if you wait for life to force you.

Three of Swords

Acknowledge your pain. The wound will fester if you keep denying its presence. Healing begins only with acceptance.

The Devil

Dive into it with all your might. Do not go gentle into that good night. It will all be worth the fall.

Five of Cups

Cry till the tears run dry. Till the darkness has gone, leaving only the light. Then turn around for a wondrous sight.

Two of Swords

You will never be completely certain. No one is in life. All you can do is follow your heart. It will lead you to what is right.

Five of Wands

There is a time for peace. But it is not today. You have to fight for your beliefs. Let nothing stand in your way.

Seven of Swords

Leave your morals at the door. This is no place for principles. What matters is survival. Time to think like a criminal.

Ten of Wands

You are walking through fire, and the pain is unbearable. But give it one more minute. The hurt will all be worth it.

Eight of Swords

You look at yourself and see a prisoner. And yet the ropes are loose and the lock is open. Stop acting the victim.

Five of Swords

So you lost. Cry for a while. Then dry your eyes and try again tomorrow. No need to drown in sorrow.

Nine of Swords

Turn your fear into fuel. Do not sit there waiting for destruction. Fight with all your might to escape annihilation.

Five of Pentacles

If you bother to look up, you will notice a shelter. Enough with the self-pity. Time to outsmart the weather.

Nine of Wands

As things stand, it is not safe for you to love. This is not the time to fall. Protect your heart, and build a wall.

Ten of Swords

Some pains demand to be felt. So feel them. Give them their deserved recognition. Then banish them to oblivion.

The Tower

Let it end. Watch calmly as it comes crashing down. You have to eradicate the old before you can build a new town.

ENTP is accurate af !

the MBTI types I know, as described by an ENTP

The last bullet for each person is how I imagine they would react if forced to fight a group of penguins

INFJ

i luv her

quirky af

ball of anxiety & depression

needs you to tell her you love her 36473492 times a day

so much luv to give

extremely caring

refers to animated objects as “she”

smol & sensitive

can dish it but can’t take it

drunk girl humor even when sober

would help penguins kill her

ESTJ

everyone’s bossy big sister

gossip queen

can’t shut up

doesn’t care how you feel

good at getting other people’s shit together

knows everything about everyone

manipulative af

it’s to your advantage to be her friend (which is why I am, guess what, ENTP’s are manipulative too)

thinks she knows people better than they know themselves, is only sometimes right

good for 4am conversations

EXTROVERT TO THE MAX

would fight penguins with a long stick

ESFP

has more balls than a locker room full of cis boys

works hard, plays harder

gives 0 fucks

LOUD LOUD LOUD

can be very sweet

can be very mean

seems cocky, is lowkey very insecure

funniest bitch you’ll ever meet

extremely blunt

will roast you to within an inch of your life, will not feel bad

loves math, hates anything remotely nerdy

when sober, would be mauled by a group of penguins

when drunk, would maul the penguins

ISFJ

says he’s 18 but is definitely 80

is constantly roasted by everyone, but it’s out of love

scrawny but stronk

SO ANIMATED

breathes sarcasm

pessimist

picture your grumpy old-fashioned grandpa as a fairly liberal college student… yeah that’s ISFJ

gets way too into debates

seems like a dick but is actually a Good Christian Boy

an old soul

good morals

will give you his coat, even if you’re not cold

would let penguins peck him to death; might hit back a few times but without much gusto

ISTP

Alpha Male

mansplains but knows he’s mansplaining and makes fun of himself for it

my problematic fave

thinks he’s smarter than everyone; isn’t

quietness makes him seem like a stuck-up dick

is actually a stuck-up dick

but if he decides he likes you he’s SUCH a delight to be around; a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day

very goofy, silly, random

athletic nerd

fit body, shows it off every time he gets the chance

doesn’t show ANY emotion, but lowkey really cares about those he’s closest with 

will go out of the way to cheer friends up

processes emotions in a logical way, which I really relate to

totally gets my weird humor and vice versa

best bullshitter on the planet

would choke a few penguins out if he thought no one would find out

INTJ

major fucking nerd

tries to come off cold and distant like ISTP does naturally, but is the sweetest bean

loves dogs more than anyone else

thinks he’s smarter than everyone; actually is

very very judgemental about anyone who thinks differently than him

surprisingly sensitive and petty

black and white, one size fits all thinking

watches math videos for fun

funny but also very awkward

doesn’t understand others’ emotions but also really wants others to be happy so he Tries His Best

is only ever happy when eating pizza

would hug penguins into submission

ENFP

my bffl

I didn’t like her at first but she forced her friendship on me until I loved her

LOUD

vivacious af

never ever thinks before speaking

accidentally offensive

gay

absolutely no filter

obscenely confident and a nervous wreck all at once

emotional but also has a very practical side

the mom friend who should really never be a mom

shock humor

bad puns

*flirts*

biggest extrovert

could talk for hours

if you get her, you’ll love her, if you don’t, she’ll annoy the shit out of you

would feed penguins Lunchables

INFP

my other bffl

kind, yet sassy

*says witty comment under breath*

needs time to recharge

aesthetic goals

*scoffs*

is always traumatized by the things ENFP says

insta famous

gets adorably frustrated at the smallest things

*finger guns*

puns

will call you out on your bs

if penguins attacked, would just cry

INTP

my mom

very logical and unemotional but still kind

has no patience for whining; will tell you to get over it

dark humor

anxiety anxiety anxiety

always in a rush

swears like a sailor

always has good advice

hates lying

is somehow both no-nonsense and very chill/fun 

very very witty

will not talk down to you or soften the truth for you; speaks to everyone like they’re her peer

my friends always love her and wish she was their mom

“I’m not bossy, just the boss”

strong independent woman who don’t need no man

probably wouldn’t fight penguins off unless she thought they would hurt one of her children (or any child, really)

ENTP

me

anxious wreck

sense of humor switches between quirky, witty, awkward, and shock

is happiest around other people but needs more time to recharge than most extroverts

openminded, is not a fan of people who only see things in black and white

loves friendly debates, is terrified of actual conflict

a friend described me as “the most awkward with the most friends”

jumps from friend group to friend group because I get bored

*procrastinates*

is very very tuned into how others are feeling but doesn’t always know what to do with that info

is logical and unemotional about own life but very sympathetic to others

has a desperate need to be well-liked and popular

generally tries to be as kind as possible but has very sharp humor with close friends

expresses affection by roasting

hates planning, just wants to go with the flow

has been known to cut corners or BS a little in order to get ahead… 

does not mind lying if it won’t hurt anyone

craves attention, but gets shy in front of crowds

short attention span

a nerd who loves to party hard

would fight penguins to save own life, but would try not to kill them

Aquarius in the 2nd House

Birth Family

Aims high and wants to be atop the social hierarchy of family

High-strung amount of energy when in the presence of early birth family

Has a complex relationship with all of the blood family

Determined to interact with and include the parents, siblings, and relatives in life

Display a quirky and eccentric nature in the vicinity of the blood family

Likes to remain independent from, but yet still be involved with family

Seeks to gain freedom and separate from the birth family early in life

Can seem like the family outcast in some regards due to eccentric attachment style

An intellectual genius when it comes to dealing with family

Plays the problem solver in the family environment

Uses rational judgment and decision-making with family issues

Genuine caring attitude toward the blood members of the family

Selfless and cares for their well-being with no expectation in return

Socially aware of family dynamics that are going on, attempt to navigate them

Exercises a quick wit when dealing with sudden situations in the family

Comes up with ingenious ideas to solve family dilemmas and problems

A family visionary that sees past the family lineage and looks for its flaws

Looks to breakdown and move past the reputation that may plague the birth family

Seeks to make an effort to better the social reputation of the family

Social being involved with the blood family

A people person when it comes to interacting with mother, father, or siblings

Seeks a Solidarity bond with family members of common interests

Aspires to be involved in group-oriented birth family activities

Likes to network the family members together and do shared group activities

Looks for the social opportunities that birth family members can offer

Can be apt to network and extend personal social network through family

Alternative approaches towards being involved socially in the family life

Uses progressive ways to interact with the mother, father, relatives, and siblings

Make use of cell phones, video calls, and Zoom conferences to interact with early family

Tends to have abrasive interactions with family members due to dichotomies

Can have a "self against the family" ingrained complex going on

Depicit a judgemental attitude toward the parents, siblings, relatives

Fixated feelings and inflexible opinions toward blood family members

Possible to struggle with showing empathy specifically to the family

Inconsistent efforts being involved in interactions with family

Impersonal interactions in the early household, lack vulnerability

Act too preoccupied to be involved with family, especially if interests don't align

Bizzare, strange, or unusual behaviors when interacting or hanging out with family

Instigates and starts problems with family by being rebellious or outspoken

Is controversial and ruffles feathers on purpose dealing with family

Ghosts parents, siblings, and relatives, likely due to a lack of shared commonalities

Early Childhood Teachings

Aim high in life

Be original and have no shame in being yourself

Don't be afraid of being unique and original

Be controversial and buck the trends

Don't be afraid of standing up for what's right to you

Strive for being independent in life

Use your "big brain"

Always be logical and rational

Exercise logic over the abstract

Pressed to be a free thinker

Attempt to solve complex problems in original ways

Have your own opinions, and hold them in high regard

Try hard to be genuine and unselfish

Aspire in being friendly and tolerant of others

Be social and network to find opportunities

Encouraged to be an altruist and humanitarian; care about people

See and expect the best in people

Taught to be objective and see the entirety of society

Be a visionary and look toward the future

Change the world and reinvent the wheel

Be a visionary and have a grand plan

Look past preexisting structures when you arrive at them

Breakdown these existing structures and make something better

Reactions To Early Childhood Teachings

Friendly and accepting of the lesson given in the early life

Has respect for older classical teachings that are taught

Noble minded who believes the early teachers have the best intent

Tolerant of hearing out what the teachings have to say or propose

Impartial and listens to the sides of instruction given early in life

Remains objectives and removes feelings when taking in teachings

Lives in Dichotomies from being exposed and open to many instructions

Unpredictable responses toward early life lessons given

Can be very agreeable and go with them when views match, but defiant when don't

Is a Free thinker that doesn't blindly accept guidance early in life

Complex integration concerning lessons and values given in the early years

Internally wants to remain independent of early life instruction

Seeks freedom away from the construct of fully absorbing early life lessons

Delays in having any kind of full integration of the early life instruction

Opinions on lessons given can be altered by exposure to social influence in society

While initially accepting of early lessons, likely not always to be the case

Will reject teachings if there is a lack of "being on the same mental wavelength"

This can occur if the lessons taught in early life disagree with evolved personal observations

A tendency to appear cold or disinterested entirely from accepting teachings

Struggle with empathy in understanding the angle teachers give instruction from

Speaks out against early life instruction if there is a disagreement

Tendency to ghost the instructors early in life if there is no resonance

Value System

Independent free thinker forms their own principles and ethics to live by

Likes to have the freedom to live by and form own values

Has a weird and eccentric mix of personal values which are convoluted and hard to understand

Values aiming high and being atop the social sphere in society

Like aforementioned, some values are personal and well-entwined meanwhile there is a desire to have broader values to live by

This may seem to come across as being defiant toward one own personal ethics, principles, and values

This results in delays in fully realizing own personal values, ethics, principles, and morals

Impiedment occurs due to the ingrained need to be exposed to people and broad societal views

Tolerant and patient learning about the wide scope of value systems that exist in society

Observant of the trends of society and learns what is worth personally valuing

Tries to remain objective in forming a basis to live through by observing society

Forms powerful opinions on what to value based on mass exposure to value systems

Becomes strong-willed and determined to stick to personal ethics once an opinion is formed

Value system becomes quite genuine due to intellectual processing put forth

Value systems can end up being quite a bit complex and very diverse in nature

This occurs of course due to exposure to mass social beliefs and their influence

Own values end up likely geared toward solving complex problems and needs in society

The root of ethics and principles is built on seeing flaws in society and improving it

Personal tends values end up as a mix of historical exposure and progressive traits

When formed seeks opportunities socially to showcase life principles openly

Seeks to aid people through humanitarian and altruistic principles

Integrational of values in societies is not without personal struggles, which are internalized

Ends up having a powerful dichotomy between what might be personal values or societal value

The value system can portray as unstable due to this issue of self vs society

Internal issues can develop and project as becoming unpredictable responses when asks what is valued

There can be erratic showcases of principles and ethics

Sometimes follows their own internal principles from the past, other time goes by principles born from observing society

Doe to this, from an outside perspective, the personal value system can seem odd, bizarre, and very unusual to others

Gained Assets

An intellectual authority on how to make money in life

Independent and want to make money through own efforts

Has a broad vision of finances and contemplates the financial future

Intelligent and wise in going about making a buck

Uses rational thinking when pursuing income

Makes use of a free-thinking mindset to come up with outside-box ideas to make money

A fresh, unique, and unconventional way of setting up businesses to make income

Creates income opportunity through revolutionary means

The main way to make money is by being tuned into the social collective consciousness

Remains objective and views the social sphere to figure out how to make money

Forecasts trends that can bring in money from observations of society

Ends up in business offering genuine services that people need as a way to make money

Another possibility is changing the educational focus to meet the demands of the public to be employable

Can apply a scientific approach toward generating income through personal observations

hypothesize, test if there is a market or services offered are truly needed

The same can go for putting out resumes and seeing if there is a market to be hired for skills

Always looking for flaws in money-making opportunities by being analytical

Remain impartial if business income opportunities fail, and seek out answers

Asks deep-ingrained philosophical questions when Failures in service (or employment) are noticed

Remain impartial if business income opportunities fail, and seek out answers

Could ask "Does society need this service? If deemed it is worthwhile, continues to do so

Works to re-engineer their efforts to match trends as society changes

Consistently renovates the wheel making money to remain profitable/employable

Can approach making money in very diverse

Make money through a mix of historical concepts and progressive ideas

Could work a job for a regular income, and also pursue new revenue streams from side business ventures

Make money by building a professional business social network circle

Or attempt to make money in connection with internet social networking

Can have a negative view of making money that is hard to deter from

Never happy with how much money is made

Preoccupied way too much by making money, which can hurt other areas of life

Extremist behaviors in following an idea to make money

Very stubborn in doing in personally how sees what

Lack empathy and does not care who is affected while trying to make income

Can possess perverse ideas in making money that others are offended by

Defies social norms and expectations in pursuit of income

Spent Assets

Extremally intelligent when it comes to spending practices

Aspires for financial freedom in life

Wants to be able to spend money freely

Has distinct opinions when it comes to spending

Observant and has ingenious ways of spending money

Innovative and can make use of more resources than own to get what is wanted

Borrow from the public resource pool to afford things outside means

Progressive thinking when spending (does this item have future value?)

Looking for sales, thrifty, going out in society and shopping for used goods

Wants spending versatility with no boundaries or restrictions

Spends accumulated money logically and rationally

Very fixated when it comes to spending habits

Prioritizes spending resources to solve complex problems

Spends money in unique or different ways

Can be unselfish and give money or resources to others

Idealistic and wants to spend money to help people

Donate money or give it to solve societal issues

Extremist spending habits

Expenditures can be placed towards ensuring a better personal future

Money can be spent on social outcomes as a means to stay relevant with peers

Positively judgemental of own spending habits

Spends money to help forecast trends (which can in turn make money)

Uses logical and analytical intelligence to improve spending habits

Takes a closer analytical look at budget often and looks for flaws

Re-adjusts spending habits that aren't working to be a more productive spendender

Inconsistent and paradoxical in spend habits

Can be stubborn and refuse to spend money, appearing cheap

But then preaches or intends to save money, but spends anyway

Unpredictable when or on what that money is spent on

Defies others and spends how they want to

Spends income on controversial things

Ghosts people overspending

Examples are detaching from people over not returning money loaned

Another possibility is A sales person rips them off and never goes back to them

Accumulated Resources and Possessions

Makes use of the highest intellect when it comes to what is worth owning

Everything owned has a logical and rational reason behind it

A visionary that sees a place for all resources accumulated (resourceful)

Possessions owned can serve the purpose of solving complex problems

Want to own unique or eccentric things that others don't own

Owned items have to be genuine (no fakes, replicas)

Analytical toward goods and searches for flaws in them

Repairs possessions that don't work and make them functional

Lives in dichotomies of what is worth keeping or not

An authority on what possessions have value in the public sphere

Can detach from possessions and sell items that are in public demand

Things may come and go from the possession erratically for this reason

Might be interested in giving items away altruistically to help people in society

Can't be changed by others on views towards possessions, has to do it themself

Has a very inconsistent attitude toward ownership, seemingly bipolar

Aloof and detached toward possessions, but other times an extremist and highly involved

Has controversial things in personal possession

Things in possessions cab be somewhat bizarre, odd, or outright unusual

Outspoken and gets on people's nerves talking about owned items

Owns things to be purposefully controversial

Ghosts people over possessions (perhaps not returning an item loaned out)

Speech

An intellectual authority on speech

Appears smart and wise in tone

Sounds genuine coming across

Enjoys freedom of speech

Enjoys talking to people

Friendly tone in speech

Objective speech (focuses on others)

Speaks to solve complex issues

Determined to get a point across

A quirky way of speaking

Nonchalant speaking tone

Delays in speaking

Tolerant of others speaking first, then replies

Scientific speech (might research to learn the best ways to reach others)

Look for flaws in speech and seek to improve the style

Might have delayed speech as a child

Can seem disinterested in talking

Controversial things come out when speaking

Lack of Empathy in the tone

Judgemental vibes when talking

Unpredictable responses

Instigates people through speech

Purposefully controversial with tone or words used

Leaves others hanging and confused after speaking

What Goes into the Mouth

Intellectually based eater

Uses logic and science when consuming foods

Eats a scientific driven diet (proper vitamins, nutrients, etc)

Analyze total caloric intake

Searches for flaws in the diet process and tries to refine it

Eating serves as a means to solve problems (perhaps only eating when hungry)

Delays or pushes off eating consistently

Examples are too busy elsewhere or determines more calories aren't needed

Embellishes in the freedom to eat at will

Has strange and offbeat eating habits

Might have no truly defined eating schedule to abide by

Likes eating light and airy meals

Enjoys eating socially with others

Erratic eating habits and behaviors

Defiant attitude toward food offerings

Possible detachment from food (eating disorders)

Controversial or strange diets

Unpredictable if food will be liked

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Subtle, appropriate and painfully accurate ...

how the venus signs know they’re in love

aries venus: an aries venus knows they’re in love when they no longer feel like they have to chase the object of their affection. when they finally feel like time isn’t running out.

taurus venus: a taurus venus knows they’re in love when they finally feel safe trying new things. when they feel like the world is expanding and opening up new opportunities and experiences.

gemini venus: a gemini venus knows they’re in love when they can lay in silence and still feel so fulfilled. when the silence isn’t awkward. 

cancer venus: a cancer venus knows they’re in love when they find themselves much more outgoing than ever before. when the home is not the safest place anymore, but their loved one is. 

leo venus: a leo venus knows they’re in love when they realize they’ve become the biggest fan. when they no longer need to show off their loved one, cause their loved one is already standing beside them under the stage lights. 

virgo venus: a virgo venus knows they’re in love when they no longer need to fix or adjust. when they fall in love with quirks and flaws. when they finally accept that nothing is perfect.

libra venus: a libra venus knows they’re in love when they only want to give their attention to that one special person. when the rest of the world just fades away, and they’re left with their loved one (and for the first time, that feels perfectly fine).

scorpio venus: a scorpio venus knows they’re in love when they don’t have to worry. when they know their loved one will come home safe. when they feel warm and fuzzy inside, and all the hurt is gone. 

sagittarius venus: a sagittarius venus knows they’re in love when they wanna stay home. when the love they feel inside is way more exciting than any adventure. 

capricorn venus: a capricorn venus knows they’re in love when they feel unstoppable. when they feel like they want to conquer the world with their loved one. 

aquarius venus: an aquarius venus knows they’re in love when they don’t feel like running anymore. they can finally meet their love in the middle. they finally feel like it’s okay to feel something.

pisces venus: a pisces venus knows they’re in love when they no longer feel the burden of giving too much. when there is a healthy amount of give and take. when they finally feel appreciated and not stepped over. 

9/10

DIY ZODIAC COMPATIBILITY!

compatibility can be super easy once you get the hang of it, and i thought i’d make this game thing to show you what to do/how well you’d work with someone else.

this works for friendships, family relationships and love relationships. this is not guaranteed to work and don’t always rely on astrology for compatibility, if you want to date someone and you’re not compatible, go for it.

also note: if all/most of your signs are opposites (water x air, fire x earth), this won’t really apply as there can be strong connection with opposites, and a relationship is very possible but it might take more effort that if you were not opposites)

– what to know –

use your sun, moon, rising, venus, mars. if you do not know these, you can try here, here and here. If you do not know your/their time of birth, look at this, this, this, this, and this.

– what signs are in each element –

fire: aries, leo, sagittarius

earth: taurus, virgo, capricorn

air: gemini, libra, aquarius

water: cancer, scorpio, pisces

– what to check for compatibility –

your sun + their sun

your rising + their rising

your moon + their moon

your venus + their venus

your mars + their mars

(also, your rising + their sun and your sun + their rising.. if your suns aren’t compatible and your rising aren’t, you can try this.. but both have to be compatible)

– what is compatible/how many points they are –

fire x air = 2

water x earth = 2

fire x fire = 2

water x water = 2

air x air = 2

earth x earth = 2

fire x water = 1

earth x air = 1

fire x earth = -2

water x air = -2

now add them all up and see what you get out of 10

FOR EXAMPLE, aquarius sun/capricorn sun, scorpio moon/cancer moon, virgo rising/leo rising, leo venus/sagittarius venus, aries mars/pisces mars (ps genders don’t matter)

aquarius sun + leo rising = 1

scorpio moon + cancer moon = 2

virgo rising + capricorn sun = 1

leo venus + sagittarius venus = 2

aries mars + pisces mars = 1

all together = 7/10

HAVE FUN ♥