We Chose The Term Asexual To Describe Ourselves Because Both Celibate And Anti-sexual Have Connotations

“We chose the term “asexual” to describe ourselves because both “celibate” and “anti-sexual” have connotations we wished to avoid: the first implies that one has sacrificed sexuality for some higher good, the second that sexuality is degrading or somehow inherently bad. “Asexual”, as we use it, does not mean “without sex” but “relating sexually to no one”. This does not, of course, exclude masturbation but implies that if one has sexual feelings they do not require another person for their expression. Asexuality is, simply, self-contained sexuality.”

— The Asexual Manifesto, Lisa Orlando and Barbara Getz, 1972

this is sending me

jungkook has a special way of helping namjoon in his work out😆

Ace Culture is crying positively when you see someone headcanon your favorite character as asexual

as a black kpop writer, its more than often difficult to find other writers just like you putting out work targeted to you in particular ; so this list means a lot to me. even though it’s short, it shows that we, as a community, are putting in the work to provide the content that we deserve, when we’ve stayed too long not being taken care of.

I’m so so glad that my works have resonated with you [ @pixieknj ] enough that you even thought of mentioning me in this type of post. this warms my heart so much and motivates me to put out even more beautiful stories for you all to enjoy and feel loved and cared for.

I will take my time to look at every blog mentioned, and here is my own little of a few blogs that are awesome and that deserve more attention :

@pixieknj (of course!)

@bebejungkook (they’re not a black woman but their works are cool af)

@mercurygguk (same as ☝🏾)

@tanniewrld (they’re a bw I think + I love LOVEOLOGY !!!)

@ravenempress101 (amazing black writer)

joonscumbucket (idk where they went but I love their work!)

(and there is this one mature bw that writes really good stuff but I can’t bring myself to remember her @ 😭 most of her stuff are nsfw and her bias is namjoon if that helps identifying her !!)

that’s it ! also, I hope more fluff-oriented blog like me will bloom soon 😖🫶🏾

Love your reactions and scenarios but I was wondering if you know any other Black K-Pop tumblrs who do similar to you that I could also follow?

I’m so happy to hear that you enjoy my reactions and scenarios! I really wish I could give you a long ass list for blogs that are like mine...but I don’t know very many. There are four blogs that come to mind right away that are for black kpop fans @jjksblackgf @sugakookitty @blackgirlskpopkhh @changbite

There are a hand full of blogs that I LOVE a lot that you might like too. They aren’t black kpop blogs, but their works are wonderful! @personasintro @cloudteawrites @purpleyoonn @angelicyoongie

I wish I could give you more blogs to follow...if any of my followers see this and want to add any blogs feel free! I’m always down to read more woc fics!

Thank you for your ask,

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Happy Joon & Kook Saturday =)

I had quite the busy week but now it’s saturday so you can expect me to update college crush today !! maybe you’ll even get two chapters at once 🫣 I can’t wait for y’all to read all of it ! (≧◡≦)

Also I’m so happy that it’s gotten so much attention in only a few days, that’s great to see that y’all enjoy this type of fic. I’ll make sure to do more of it ! And don’t forget that you can send me an ask at anytime to give me feedback or request smth from me ! (´｡• ᵕ •｡`) ♡