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Today's a very special day. Happy National Girlfriend Day to my lovely girlfriend!!

She and I have pretty different love languages. I like to hide myself and my loved ones away from the rest of the world. It's my way of keeping them safe. Her way of showing love is to post things, to be big and bright and show the world that she's here and she's in love. She makes posts every time she thinks of me, on every anniversary, every holiday, and every birthday.

I never post about us, I'll be honest. This will be my third ever post about her. However, today isn't just about one way of expressing things- Today is for both our love languages, so I'll give it a shot.

Thank you for a wonderful year, dahlia. A year with the gal who doesn't care that I'm aromantic and don't feel love easily. Who isn't afraid when I shut myself out, who encourages me to walk in the sun with her. A year lifting her up in good moments and bad. A year of writing countless letters for her. A year of singing for her almost every night because she likes my voice.

I'm not the best with quick doodles, but she loves cats, so I thought I'd do this.

Happy National Girlfriend Day <3

being aroace and also a picky eater is just a constant stream of "well how do you know you won't like it if you never try it"

This is really important!! It only takes a few seconds, and it's pretty simple, so I'd recommend that those who don't want AI using their blog for information go ahead and opt out!

PSA: Tumblr/Wordpress is preparing to start selling our user data to Midjourney and OpenAI.

you have to MANUALLY opt out of it as well.

to opt out on desktop, click your blog ➡️ blog settings ➡️ scroll til you see visibility options and it’ll be the last option to toggle.

to opt out on mobile, click your blog ➡️ scroll then click visibility ➡️ toggle opt out option.

if you’ve already opted out of showing up in google searches, it’s preselected for you. if you don’t have the option available, update your app or close your browser/refresh a few times. important to note you also have to opt out for each blog you own separately, so if you’d like to prevent AI scraping your blog i’d really recommend taking the time to opt out. (source)

Is it just me or are the new tumblr users convinced there's a penalty of some kind for using this site like it's meant to be used?

I was feeling terrible all morning. I've been having a tough few days, but I thought I was past it. The bad mood was weird to me because of that. When I went to go run errands, though, the sky was dreary. I chalked my bad mood up to that, but then it started to rain.

Usually, I get annoyed by the rain. This time, though, it washed all my heartache away. I felt so much better just from seeing it. Smelling the wet bricks, the clay pots, the dirt from the plants at the store. Maybe I've been reading too much poetry, but it reminded me of something.

Rain brings life. It travels, bringing new smells and sensations from place to place. Animals love it because it enriches their lives. It reminds them that the world around them is alive and full.

What a beautiful thing it is, to be alive. To be here on the planet Earth with you. With everyone. Rain is symbolic for life and rebirth, and I remembered that today.

I remembered that just because I'm in pain doesn't mean it will last forever. The rain leads to new life and new beginning. The pain is temporary and life is beautiful.

I'm so glad to be experiencing life on Earth with all of you.