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Let's see how many A's I am!!
Autistic, ADHD, alterhuman, arospec, acespec, anxiety, American [sadly], agnostic, artist [kinda], age regression [saw this in a comment on the original post so that's why it's included, lol], and I think that's it, lol.
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Guys, it happened. I’m an
AAAAAA (aromantic, asexual, agender, with autism, adhd, & anxiety)
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since its pride month can the aroace dread STOP. FOR ONE MONTH
Sometimes reading these confessions makes me sad, I don't know how the idea of you're only asexual/aromantic if you have absolutely nothing to do with romance/sexuality or shun parts of yourself or media that include elements of those two things. Ace/aro just means lack of sexual/romantic attraction, wanting to look attractive to other people or enjoying media with sex/romance or being okay with those aspects in a relationship shouldn't disqualify people from being aro/ace. It feels like the "gotchas" people use to say people aren't aro/ace are ingrained in people as standards to being aro/ace and its upsetting. I want to let everyone know that you can want to look attractive, want a relationship, want to know what sex/romance is like and consume media with those things and you'll still be aro and/or ace at the end of the day. That's not to say theres no sex/romance repulsed aros and/or aces. I'm one of them but I feel like people stereotype anyone identifying as aro/ace as that when it's not true.
Sorry about the long rant but I really care about the aro/aces here, you're accepted, you're valid and it's going to be okay.
I legitimately did not know that the phrase "Netflix and Chill" had a sexual connotation to it until like 1 maybe 2 years ago. Like dude I just thought that it meant what it said?? Why all of you allosexuals gotta be so confusing-
Aroace culture is not knowing what it meant to "Netflix and Chill" until someone spelled it out to us
what do you mean it's not what the name says literally???? i legit just wanna chill and watch She-Ra!!!!
Aroace culture
Fucking exactly lmao, like people just be very pretty and intellectually attractive sometimes, but I want absolutely nothing to do with them in a sexual/romantic setting-
Aroace culture is having a crush on someone and being SO CONFUSED because you have NO idea what to do with these feelings- you don't want romance, you don't want sex, you just want to watch them and smile to yourself in secrecy but that's creepy as fuck.
I saw someone headcanon Steve as aromantic (and possibly asexual) and I totally see that. Does anyone else see that too?
And yes before you say 'but Steve loves Nancy and he said that he wants kids in the future' aroace people can have sexual/romantic relationships if they want to, and believe it or not they can raise children with someone if they want to too. No two people on the aroace spectrum feel the same, some may be comfortable with things that others are repulsed by. I'm simply saying that I see Steve as a character that might be somewhere on the aroace spectrum. That might be just me projecting onto him, but either way those are my thoughts.
This is a safe space and I will tolerate no bigoted bullshit here. Feel free to share your thoughts! I'm curious to see if anyone sees Steve as (possibly) aroace!
ASEXUALS OF TUMBLR! I need your help. Basically I’m writing an asexual character and I need to know if this is a type of asexuality??? Idk how to describe it.
Basically she explains to the boy she likes that she doesn’t want to have sex with him because she respects him too much and she doesn’t think it’s necessary, she just wants to make sure he knows she loves him and isn’t using him for his body.
She also explains that she doesn’t like using the word “hot” to describe him, because hot is generally someone’s muscles or body, whereas she loves his eyes and his hair and stuff like that. IS THIS OK?????
shipping characters
this might be a bit too controversial but i'm actually decently uncomfortable with shipping culture in fandoms. to clarify, im talking about when people ship characters not canonically (or HEAVILY implied) in a relationship. i'm aroace spec, and as i've learned more about myself and my relationship with different kinds of love, i've started questioning the appeal of shipping characters together, especially in media where romance isn't a focal point. to me, it just seems entirely unnecessary to ship characters sometimes. why do we have to invent new relationship dynamics for people when they can have perfectly good platonic relationships? why can't we look at two close, non-familial characters, and just appreciate their close friendship without immediately interpreting it as a "budding romance"? personally, i find it really nice to just analyze the existing relationships and leave them at what they are. all of this to say, i dont hate anyone who ships characters, and even though i dont necessarily LOVE shipping there are a few pairings i root for or speculate about. i'm also aware of how much shipping culture coexists with queer spaces (who find it hard to get representation in media bc society sucks and might use shipping as a means to get some of that representation). i just, idk, i wish people wouldn't be so intense about it sometimes. i really wish i saw more posts about the close friends just being close friends without adding romance to the mix.
Oh so that's why when i look at my ocs's relationships/ways they act & react they all are a little bit hypersensitive and aroace...
Also! It happens because you just don't have any understanding of how neurotypical/not aro/ace people live at all, like you have no experience 😭.
I realised that not ALL people experience things the same way and that I'm neurodivergent just last year, by talking to my parents 😭😭
something they don’t tell you about being autistic is that every character you write WILL end up autistic/autistic-coded whether you like it or not
Im not even ace and I hate this shit
in honor of ace week id like to shoutout every asexual who first thought they were bi/pan because they looked at all the genders and felt no difference and zero is equal to zero so they said "huh. must be bisexual" and then shoved their sexuality back under the rug for 3-5 years
does anyone want to be best friends that also live together and go on adventures together but like mundane adventures like ikea and target and also wants to lay our heads on each others shoulders when sleepy but also have separate bedrooms but also enjoy spending most of our free time together……. just me? ok
okay your art is super kick ass first off, but i would love to know your headcanons about todoroki, like in your header is he holding a aro flag? and in a art of him dose have a hearing aid? and am also wondering other head cannons you have for him? have a grrreat day dude
Hello, thank you for asking ! I do headcanon him as aroace, that he always had this feeling but only got to put a word on it once he arrives at UA and meet other LGBTQ+ ppl. In one of my comic he has ear plugs. (so pretty much the opposite of an hearing aid) I headcanon that he is sensitive to sound, both because he was raised at home, didn’t went to public school with so many other people until UA so he is very overwhelmed by just the ambiant noise all the time. And just as a person he likes to work in quiet (and some of his classmates in the dorms tend to be the opposite and blast music) I think it factors in also how he socialize with his class. He tend to gravitate around classmates that are pretty calm themself like Tokoyami, Tsuyu, Momo, Uraraka, Shoji… It’s not that he dislikes the more loud students, it’s just that he doesn’t get them. I like to think he gravitate also to the group of A-1 girls. The boys seem to never have an off switch, or have a hard time making space for his need to relax. And the girls gets him. In a sense, it reminds him of Fuyumi. It reminds him of the only part of « home » that he likes. They cook together at night and watch sappy movies with him that he never had the chance to watch at home. Mina picks up when he doesn’t know something and is too afraid to ask what it is. She will on her own explain something to him behind whispers. He also bond with some of the boys, but he always have the feeling that there is something about boy culture he doesn’t get. In some of my pro-hero AU, I tend to write him as a burnout kid. Someone who pursue an education in something his father push him into without never really asking himself what he really likes. He doesn’t know if he is good at art or music or singing or photography. He’s just good at being a hero and he doesn’t seem to be fill with glee and pride the same way his classmates are when he saves people. I often give him a cat. He likes animals because they get him and he gets them. He doesn’t want kids of his own but he really likes to babysit his former classmates’ s kids.
Hi! I'm Cartoon Fan!
I prefer no pronouns, but it/its and they/them are good too.
I'm an oriented aroace autistic artistic! I love shows like HB, TOH, TMNT, LMK, and many cartoons of the like.
Dni if proship/NSFW
WEEEE ITS JUNE YALL GET ME BEING SO COOL AND SWAG AS AN ARO/ACE SPEC CHAD
(Flags are demisexual and aroflux!)
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