When I Was Still Religious Around The Age 13, I Wanted To Tell My Parents I Was Aro Or Ace And I Tried

when i was still religious around the age 13, i wanted to tell my parents i was aro or ace and i tried to explain it and my pastor dad looked me dead in the eyes and said "ohhhh so like jesus"

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disabled aro culture is ough oof the Everything

it's so weird being aroace and generally very repulsed in all those adjacent areas but then when i get into new media and start liking a ship i become a squealing schoolboy and have to do ten laps around the room and throw in a couple jumping jacks every time i even think about them BRO

actually

being aroacespec is wonderful

i enjoy being alone, w/o a partner of any kind

but that doesn’t mean im lonely, i have my friends and hobbies and isnt the sun in the morning the most beautiful thing????? the sound of rain??? laughing at a funny post until your stomach hurts?? isnt this community we built absolutely amazing????

i am not cold-hearted, im not a robot & most importantly, im happy this way

i just wish that little me wasnt fed so much crap growing up about finding “the one”; i wish someone told me sooner that i dont have to have relationships to complete me, that there were others like me, that im not wrong for feeling the way i do, that theres different ways of being & experiencing the world

but i have more of life to live & places to see & things to obsess over; theres always more

live laugh love the owl house (I’m back on my bullshit ngl)

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