Me: Questioning If Im Actually AroAce Or If Im Just Being Attention Seeking And Its All Been A Lie This

Me: Questioning if I’m actually AroAce or if I’m just being attention seeking and it’s all been a lie this whole time.

Allo person: *says or does pretty much anything related to a non-platonic relationship*

me: Why did I ever doubt myself? (I will repeat this process approx. once a week)

I'm always taken aback when someone asks me if I have a boyfriend because I've convinced myself so much that people perceive me as a sexless entity roaming the mortal world in search of something incomprehensible that I'm surprised the people around me see me as like.... a cishet

live laugh love the owl house (I’m back on my bullshit ngl)

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actually

being aroacespec is wonderful

i enjoy being alone, w/o a partner of any kind

but that doesn’t mean im lonely, i have my friends and hobbies and isnt the sun in the morning the most beautiful thing????? the sound of rain??? laughing at a funny post until your stomach hurts?? isnt this community we built absolutely amazing????

i am not cold-hearted, im not a robot & most importantly, im happy this way

i just wish that little me wasnt fed so much crap growing up about finding “the one”; i wish someone told me sooner that i dont have to have relationships to complete me, that there were others like me, that im not wrong for feeling the way i do, that theres different ways of being & experiencing the world

but i have more of life to live & places to see & things to obsess over; theres always more

Jon with mobility aids and eds bc I have eds so he can have it too

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