A Radiodust Shipper Known Only As Shay Was Bullied By Huskerdust Fans On Twitter, And Their Sister Later

A Radiodust shipper known only as Shay was bullied by Huskerdust fans on Twitter, and their sister later reported via discord that they had unalived themselves. There’s a big Google Doc detailing the incident here:

I already hated Huskerdust, but ever since finding out that Huskerdust shippers bullied a Radiodust shipper to death, I don’t think I can ever support it, regardless of what happens in the show. Are you happy, Huskerdust fandom? You have blood on your hands, and all because of a ship.

Autism culture is hating going to new/unfamiliar restaurants because even if they have your safe foods on the menu you don’t know how they make them, and there’s a chance that they’ll find a way to make your safe foods completely unsafe to eat

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Most of what gets labeled as "trauma suffered by narcissistic abuse victims" is actually trauma suffered by narcissists.

Most of what gets labeled as "narcissistic abuse" is actually abusive actions that are widely normalized by society and regularly committed by neurotypical people.

By demonizing narcissists, you're very likely demonizing victims of abuse while giving their abusers a free pass.

Autism culture is sleeping with a bed full of plushies when you’re in your 20s because you’ve been doing it since you were a kid and can’t imagine sleeping without them

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Alastor and Rosie are the type of people to get married for every reason EXCEPT romance...(aka some of my qpr radiorose hcs)

(Demon)Al's reasons: stops questions, permanent alibi, partner in crime, easy way out of people hitting on him (*ahem* Angel *ahem*), given there's nothing to be loyal to (except ofc their secrets) he can be single whenever it's convenient (he never does anything ofc but it could help with luring victims yk)

(Demon)Rosie's reasons: permanent alibi, partner in crime, always has someone to gossip with, someone who will give her pure unfiltered opinions and advice (ex: "Rosie that hat looks atrocious do not wear that"), protection(she doesn't NEED it but it's nice to have)

(Human)Al's reasons: all the same reasons but add the fact it makes his mom happy, she was really worried nobody loved him, which wasn't the case, he just didn't have the "time" for romance (it is a glass closet buddy)

(Human)Rosie's reasons: all the same reasons + makes her parents happy and (mostly) protects her from homophobia(*ahem* her parents *ahem*), she can get with as many women as she wants knowing damn well her husband could not care less, easy escape from men hitting on her (not a problem in hell, she is known, respected, and feared)

Inspired by @arrgh-whatever's post on helping ppl with BPD

Edit bc I forgot to add this: Being vulnerable means smth different for different ppl, something that could read as being vulnerable to you can read as just another Tuesday for someone else

[ID: a simply-drawn comic, narrated by a person coloured-in in pink.

Panel 1: The pink person narrates: "So there's a lot of "signs your ex is a narcissist and how to deal with them" and it's not very accurate. So here's how to actually "deal" with a narcissist from someone with narcissistic personality disorder."

Panel 2: This panel has the heading: "1. Supply." The pink person narrates: "People with NPD have very fragile self-esteem, and supply is what keeps us from having a mental breakdown. Supply can be many things, but often attention and praise are effective. Stuff like "Wow! That's super cool!!" can go a long way." A person is shown saying this to another person, who smiles.

Panel 3: This panel has the heading: "2. Criticism." The pink person narrates: "Oh boy. So narcissists take things as personal very easily. It's because if anyone contradicts our delusions that we have built our entire self-image on, it feels like you are attacking us as a person." There is an example shown, where one person says "hey, you were a bit too rude back there," but the other person hears "You're an awful dick no-one likes." The alternative manner of phrasing is suggested as "Hey, you were a bit too rude. You're cool, but some people took it poorly." The second person in this example thinks "I'm still a cool person. It's not my fault, but I can do things to be better." The narrator continues, "We don't really understand the concept of a harmless mistake."

Panel 4: This panel has the heading: "3. Boundaries." The pink person narrates: "With narcissists, setting down strict boundaries is very important. 1. Knowing we have hurt you because you didn't set down boundaries can really upset and annoy us because the delusions that we can do no wrong and know you best get broken. 2. If you let us break boundaries, it can lead us to see you as "weak" and devalue you. Communication is key."

Panel 5: This panel has the heading: "4. Anger." The pink person narrates: "So people with NPD tend to be prone to anger. This is a defense mechanism, because to us, it's either facing the inaccuracies of our delusions and having a mental breakdown, or blaming something else. We do not mean to lash out; we just don't have the skills to cope properly. You can help by: 1. Letting us express out emotions without judgement; 2. giving us praise or attention; and 3. Distracting us from what angered us." Each example of how to help is accompanied by a small cartoon.

Panel 6: This panel has the heading: "5. Other NPD things!" The pink person narrates: "'Love bomb, devalue, discard' is actually: we are genuinely obsessed with you and want you to recognize us as cool, we lose that obsession and move on, we feel threatened in some way and lash out. We can't really handle being seen as vulnerable. We take sympathy and empathy as pity and pity as you telling us we're weak. Not acknowledging we're being vulnerable and acting as if nothing is wrong can be helpful in these situations. People with NPD have a very warped view of reality. We do not mean to hurt you and often do not realise we have. Remember, this won't work for everyone, and talking is very important."

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Ty to @aromanticsky for the id