(mmm, Never Done A Gush Before?) (guess Ill Try **shrugs**)

(mmm, never done a gush before?) (guess I’ll try **shrugs**)

there’s one F/O thought that’s been eating away my mind slowly because, you see, one of my F/Os was canonically food-insecure in the past, and I like baking. so just thinking about, like, baking a pastry for them and it being one the first sweets they’ve every tried, but also not letting them know I prepared it because they’re an asshole and a bastard, but I love them and I want them to enjoy sweet things and be happy and **froths at the mouth**

S/I: Loving me is a hard task to accomplish.

F/O: .....that is literally the easiest thing in the world to do.

your f/o loves when you're clingy. they love when you call just because you miss their voice even if you haven't been apart that long. they love when you kiss them even if you just kissed. they love when you reach for them, when you hang on them, when you tuck yourself against their side, even if you've been close all day. they love when you ask them to hold and cuddle you. they love when you tell them you love them over and over and over again. your f/o loves when they feel like you can't get enough of them because they'll never get enough of you.

Snotty faced, meltdowns, weeping til your voice is hoarse.

On the floor, crumpled up, feeling empty and useless.

Your F/O is there.

They sit in silence, wipe your tears, make you tea in bed.

You're not too much. They love you.

They love you again and again.

No matter how many times you need to be picked up.

They'll do it.

At the end of your rope, they'll hold you close.

You are never too much. Never alone.

Not to them.

So let yourself go. Let yourself relax.

Cry it out thrash, weep, claw at the floor, kick your feet.

Stomp, whine and howl your grief to the world

And once you are empty of the pain, sorrow and anger, wash your face and crawl into bed, face in F/Os chest.

They'll hold you tight, safe, u til you are ready to stand up and try again.

ohh... self shippers who create art, stories, headcanons, silly little scenarios in their head.... self shippers who love to love.... self shippers who take part in such a wholesome community..... self shippers who gush, write imagines, fantiction, keeping that bit of imagination and happiness alive for themselves.... self shippers who are silly and in love with their f/o.... and the self shippers who share the things they love, gift art, share their interests, make friends, encourage others!!!

the world is tough so i think it’s cool how we have this bit of space on the internet to relax and talk about our faves. ohh.... you guys are so cute when you gush, so cute when you write, so cute when you create, cute when you imagine of worlds far away, cute when you love and bond and aghh — i love this comm. you guys are so lovely ♡

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important reminder that you are more than your grades and accomplishments! your f/o does not care that you make all A's in school if it means you aren't taking care of yourself! your f/o does not care that you have a laundry list of things you can put on a resumé if it means that you aren't seeing yourself for who you actually are outside of external accomplishments!

they want you to do what's best for you even if it means "dropping the ball" academically or work-wise.

it's okay.

they can be attracted to your intelligence and work ethic and still be concerned about you and still want you to take breaks and still want you to find your worth outside of those narrow things.

you are a whole person with other attributes and skills that they like about you and that you should like about yourself too!!!