Y'know, One Thing I Don't See Get Talked About Much In Regards To Asexuality Is How It Feels To Never

y'know, one thing i don't see get talked about much in regards to asexuality is how it feels to never be 'sexually motivated' by anything

and not just when it comes to advertisements using 'sexy' models to try and sell you stuff, but like. in general

sex as a favor, sex as a bribe, sex in exchange for whatever

casual sex, 'friends with benefits' situations, even simple flirting

it all looks a whole lot different from the perspective of someone who's immune to manipulation via sex appeal, who has virtually no understanding as to why sex would motivate someone to cheat on their partner, etc. etc.

sex is worthless to me

i mean, it's useful as a story element in fiction, but it genuinely perplexes me that sex is such a driving force behind so many aspects of irl society & of people's individual lives, for better or for worse

and that it's so deeply ingrained into how the average person views the world & various situations, because the average person feels sexual attraction, whereas i do not

i think the barrier between aces & allos is actually even deeper than it seems on the surface at times, because it's more than just the grating expectation that everyone must want to 'settle down' and have kids, it's also the fact that the majority of the world is sort of 'in' on a joke that aces will never truly be a part of

some people put "just a quick ____ sketch" and it be a whole drawing. fully lined and colored and rendered and beautiful. absolutely beautiful. like,,,i think our thought of a sketch is very different...

doodle of the love of my life (again)

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Rindo doodle

yea!! :D ♡♡

hello!! i just wanna say that your writings are so pretty! theyre just like, pleasing to read :D

i read the diasomnia at a perfect time bc malleus currently has me in a chokehold,,

anyways, just wanted to say that your writing is really pretty, i hope youre well, and have a great week! :]

I am also currently in Hornton HellTM, so I totally get you. I am ready for this stupid dragon boy to rip my heart out in the main story (hopefully not literally? But like. I don't even know.)

Anyways! Thank you muchly! Hope you're having a lovely week too!!♡