There These Seemingly Contradictory Societal Double Binds That Are Used To Enforce Conformity.

There these seemingly contradictory societal double binds that are used to enforce conformity.

Example: A Lesbian is told that "everyone is actually bi" while a bisexual woman is told to "pick a side". Seems contradictory but really they just want us to be straight lmao.

Another one: A woman who does not perform womanhood to society's standard is not a real woman vs. You can never change the gender you were born with. One is butchphobic/anti gnc women, the other is transphobic. Clearly both enforce transmisogyny.

The insidious thing is that these double binds also foster inter community division. Its easy to hear one side of these, for example: "everyone is a little bi" and assume that means bisexuality is more accepted. But on the other side bisexual people are getting the same shit.

None of these are contradictory when you realize that bigots simply don't want lgbtq+ to exist at all.

"Wait... is this for friendships, polyamorus relationships or monogamous relationships?"

Yes

This is more effective than... most sites.

It is a more effective way of finding job offerings on jobnet.dk (the danish state run job offering site) than using the sites search functions for example

Since that site simply deletes special characters... like the + in c++

I love how the search function on this site is absolute garbage. I can look up a post word for word and I will NEVER find it

I realized my notes at work had a bunch of errors.

Why?

Microsoft fucked up notepad.

It should not be possible. It is the simplest program there was.

But now it have autocorrect. Turned on by default to ruin your notes.

Because microsoft cannot just leave a program that works perfectly well, is super stable and requires no updates alone.

going back to windows to do something after using Linux for a while is always such a shock because of the 500 different pop ups, the fans go to max on the desktop, new daily update, stupid prompt to use edge and upgrade to windows 11, and linux is just existing no fans no pop ups nothing its just there ready to use when you turn the computer on

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They are honestly like magic!!!

i love digesting lactose it’s so easy to do

It is a cheap attack on nonmonogamy. I have also heard "ethical polyamory. When I asked what the heck that was, I was told "polyamory but where everyone involved is consenting and in the know".

Basically the idea being made is:

Monogamy is ethical, normal and good by default.

But non monogamy is corrupting, unethical and destructive by default. So you MUST specify that the one you are talking about is ethical. Because he default is unethical.

In short, it is bullshit

The term "ethical nonmonogamy" confuses me. Like is that just a weird way of saying polyamory/dating but not having sex monogamously or is it something else and I'm totally off base?