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Multiverselovegoddess - Follower Of Aphrodite - Tumblr Blog
I allow the Universe to make my wildest dreams come true.
You must master the art of believing in yourself. Nothing will propel you more forward in life than unwavering belief in yourself and your capabilities. This means rejecting any thoughts of self-doubt, of glorifying the input of others over your own, of seeing yourself as beneath others, or putting the considerations of others over your own.
You want to develop the type of confidence that is rooted so deeply within you that nothing can shake it. Having that type of confidence will keep you focused on the goal or mission and will keep you going when things get tough. It won't allow the opinions of others to skew the path you've decided for yourself.
How to make the most out of being single:
Learn a new language youāve always wanted to speak
Learn how to improve your makeup skills
Update your wardrobe
Watch movies about women traveling and finding themselves
Start a blog
Do research on a topic youāre interested in
Make a YouTube channel
Change your color palette
Go thrifting often
Discover new music
Read books about self-improvement
Learn a new skill
Update your room decor
Go on dates by yourself
Create full playlists for your different moods
Read fictions to give yourself a mental escape
Clean spaces in your home that youāve avoided cleaning
Start journaling and writing down what youāre thankful for
Become a skin care enthusiastļæ¼
Do research on taking proper care of your body
Clean out your closet
Organize different spaces in your home
Make working out a hobby
Listen to me: You get good at things by being bad at them. You learn by failing. You gain competency and a sense of mastery by failing at something many times and in many interesting ways.
The sooner you are able to laugh at your own failures, to enjoy the process of messing up, the easier life will be. Because you'll no longer be afraid of learning.
And once you're no longer afraid of failing, you can learn anything.


My body needs itāthe hot baths, the care, the soft water, the perfume, the warmth. I take on the colors of the flowers, the bloom, the delicacy. It becomes me.
AnaĆÆs Nin, Mirages: The Unexpurgated Diaries of AnaĆÆs Nin 1939-1947

avoiding nose blindness (odours) in your home š«§
- clean your home weekly.
- apply a no outdoor shoe rule to your home.
- always tidy after yourself before bed. dishes are washed and put away. quick vaccum/sweep of the floors. counters are wiped down. throw blankets are shaken out and folded. kitchen sink is scrubbed down. pour baking soda & vinegar once in a while down the drains.
- throw out garbage & disinfect bins every day!
- take care of your appliances! stoves and fridges, especially, accumulate a lot of debris and dust. every so often (for me personally, every other week) pull them out of place to dust and mop behind. microwaves and inside oven are also very important to keep clean. i also clean inside my fridge every week before groceries, and leave baking soda fridge deodorizer inside to eliminates odours. i also like to deep clean the filter and run a cleaning cycle in my dish washer with vinegar every other week!
- clean/wipe down cabinets, counters, any flat surface, weekly. especially in the kitchen where cooking is always done. donāt forget forgotten places like baseboards, behind your toilets, walls, etc. more hard to reach places can be done every other week or so.
- bedsheets, couch throw blankets, pillow covers, small rugs, etc; any fabrics that youāre constantly in touch with should be washed once a week. as for more higher maintenance items such as big rugs & curtains can be done once or twice a month.
- baking soda or vinegar thrown into your laundry cycles help remove any lingering odours on fabrics. and in topic of laundry, make sure youāre keeping your machines clean and drained (if possible) and always leave your washing machine door open after use to avoid mold & mildew odours.
- make your own upholstery/room sprays with your favourite essential oil smells + water. i also like making small sachets with herbs like lavender to hide inside couch cushions, closets, clothes drawers, etc;
- open your windows every day to let in fresh air.
- invest in a good air purifier!
Life is simple. I live fiercely by my own rules. I donāt let anyone encroach on my independence. I take risks. I live life on my terms. I enjoy the birdsong. I read my books. I look at the world with curiosity. I treat myself well. And I think hard about the people who fill me up with joy, who excite me, who care deeply. Those people are for me.
I want to encourage you to go after everything that is yours. To reclaim everything that was stolen. To release what is not progressing you forward. To become her and create the body, life, love, and enterprise of your dreams. To go after your real desires and get your creativity out into the world. To surrender to crying, shaking, screaming, purgatory, heart-opening, cervical orgasms. To die emptied. -India Ameāye, Author





first rule: more fruit, every single day

Rainbow Aphrodite
(All images found on Pinterest)
these are the habits you have to give up before the year is out:
worrying about people and things you canāt control
negative conversations with others
obsessing about what others think
lying for others
expect others to do what you want them to do and get angry if they don't do it
creating expectations on others
gossiping
making excuses for not taking care of your responsibilities
lying to yourself
putting your needs lasts
giving priority to other people's opinions rather than your own
letting the negative opinions of others affect you
limiting yourself
comparing themselves to others and putting them on a pedestal
giving prominence to people who do not deserve it
set boundaries with others but not with yourself
spending too much time on social media
habits you need to implement:
create a daily routine that you feel comfortable with and suits you
calming your mind a few times a day
positive affirmations and healthy thoughts
complimenting others and congratulating their success
letting go of things you canāt control
ending toxic relationships
more time outside
making yourself and your health a priority
self compassion and self forgiveness
taking responsibilities
more self care
beginning with a motivation each day
do what you need for yourself
starting something new (activity, hobby, habit)
not to depend on others and to learn to do things you want to do on your own
focus on the good things and not on the things you don't like
exercise and eat healthy for the sake of your body and not to fit into a beauty canon
getting out of your comfort zone
focus on building healthy relationships rather than being guided by false expectations of how relationships should be
be true to yourself and your values
not to sell or denigrate you for money or lavish gifts
oh to be a little cat and sit in a windowsill
My guilty pleasure right now is watching luxury hotel reviews and I found this british guy who keeps accidentally clipping into the backrooms.
He's unintentionally making the best liminal horror content on youtube
ahhhh Aphrodite is my patron goddess and I am feeling so drawn to worship and speak to ares
Love and war, patience and victory, kindness and vengeance
I suppose one doesnāt exist without the other, they are two halves of a whole



little babyĀ

Father Ares is the feeling of holding on even when it feels so hard.
Heās the sound of your heart beating, and lets you know youāre still alive.
Heās the courage to keep going, no matter what happens.
Heās the feeling of doing what you needed to.
Heās the feeling of not being afraid anymore.
He is Strength and Courage.
Praise to Father Ares. Ily dad ^^^^

Celestial strawberry wine