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unpopular opinion but mobility aids shouldn't cost so much !!

I know what you're all definitely thinking. What if everyone from Gravity Falls was a chair. Well, I was bored enough at 3am to think about that too

Being disabled but not looking disabled honestly sucks ass.

Need a seat at the bus station because your heart is trying to explode and you can't breathe? Sucks to be you ig, you don't need a seat beacause you can walk.

Sitting in the priority seating on a bus or train because you physically can't stand up any longer? Fuck you, you're stealing seats from those who need them.

Use the lift because your body is incapable of surviving the stairs? You're a lazy, unfit, piece of shit.

Wear a sunflower lanyard so that people are aware that you are disabled? You're an entitled arsehole and deserve to die.

Honest to god it's a fucking nightmare. I'm not able bodied but, because I look like I am, I can't possibly be disabled. What is wrong with the world? Why are people so damn intolerant?

Idk which one of you fuckers started this shit but you need to get it through your heads.

You MUST respect people’s pronouns. (👍)

INCLUDING IF THEY ARE CIS. (🔥😨🔪💥)

When I still identified as a girl, I would try to make friends within queer circles and a Significant™️ number of people (in different friend groups!) would ask my pronouns, I’d say “she/her, sorry I’m boring lol”, and then they would REFUSE to call me by my preferred pronouns. It was ALWAYS they/them—which is a good default! Should be the default!! I am glad it’s becoming the default!!! The problem was that i informed them repeatedly that those were NOT the pronouns they should use for me anymore, and was repeatedly denied my gender identity.

“Sorry you just don’t look cis”

“Whoops I thought you were joking”

“Oh yea well I’m not used to those pronouns”

“Oh well I use they/them for everyone it’s not a personal thing”

You’re transphobic.

Any argument you use for not using cis people’s pronouns is a transphobic argument. You are refusing to use people’s preferred pronouns. You are transphobic.

Stop this shit immediately. I’m not gonna say it again (unless I need to :))))) {seriously quit I’m so sick of hearing us do this}

For the longest time, when people would say "Cryptocurrency," this is what I'd imagine.

Being on tumblr late is so weird I was asking my friend how to use it and they just looked at me horrified "you're gay how tf are you not on tumblr"

I think violence would really make me feel better honestly

Like just kicking something or punching someone's arm

Damn maybe my therapist was right I am autistic

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Casually daydreaming about the mobility aids I think would help me, ya know, like every able bodied person does.

Do you know how many times a day I want to scream at people "THIS ISN'T FOR YOU!" ?

Just yesterday, I was ten minutes late to my tutorial class because for whatever reason, almost every single person in my lecture decided to use the elevator instead of going down one flight of stairs while me and my classmates -- the ones who didn't have that choice -- were stuck waiting for the next elevator.

I constantly have to navigate around people walking up the ramps -- or, worse, standing in the middle of them -- because they couldn't get off their phones for two seconds to use the stairs instead.

At least twice a week I end up in far more pain than usual because people who don't need them take up the accessible seats on the bus and I either have to stand there and wait for somebody to get up (Which is already hard on my body) or just wrap my arm around the pole and try to suffer through a few stops until somebody gets off (Which has already caused several dislocations). As much as people like to brag about how they'd "always give up their seat for a poor handicapped person", they're far more likely to stay right where they are and ignore you in favour of watching Instagram reels on their phone.

And I've tried asking people to move. Directly. Making eye contact and everything. They'll just look down at their phone and ignore me until the bus driver or somebody else says something. And only then can they magically notice me and get up.

Before I get a bunch of people leaping to yell about people with invisible disabilities: I know. I know there are people with invisible disabilities, I spent most of my life with only invisible disabilities. I can guarentee that not every single person in my lecture of 60 people has an invisible disability. This is not the problem.

The problem is that able bodied people see these resources and supports made specifically for physically disabled people and assume they're entitled to them. Most of them see it as something that's put in place just to comply with certain rules or laws or regulations as a 'just in case' thing. Nobody thinks that disabled people are actually out and about. We're an afterthought to them.

And I get it. I do. We all have our blind spots.

But seriously, this is getting ridiculous.

I wanna start an autistic fight club I caNnOt be the only one who feels like being able to regularly fight someone would fix me

like we meet up, we beat the shit out of each other, we order pizza and tend to our wounds and watch a movie

freedom from pent up rage and understimulation

it'd be great who's in

dipper and mabel bad end where they end up like ford and stan

why is it so hard for able bodied people to believe that doctors are sometimes just incompetent? you realize doctors are people, right? people that can be bad at their job. that happens sometimes. they don't know everything because there's a piece of paper on their wall that says they're smart, actually. they can sometimes be wrong, actually. they can sometimes cut corners and take the easy way out, actually. they can sometimes hate their job and make that their patients problem, actually. doctors aren't all saints who do everything right the first time. please stop invalidating disabled people when they complain about their terrible treatment at the hands of medical professionals. please stop putting the feelings of doctors over the lives of their patients.

I watched The Owl House for the very first time, and throughout the show I really thought Hunter was such a strange name.

Not because it is a strange name necessarily, but because of the context. Hunter as a first name, to me, is a very modern name, and a very popular American first name. It seemed strange that a character in toh would be called Hunter if he was 1. From the Demon realm and 2. named by Belos. Because Belos lived in the 1600s, it wouldn’t have been a popular first name

Until I realized that he’s not named Hunter because of any normal naming convention. He’s named Hunter because that’s his Title. He is a witch. Hunter. He was based on the original witch Hunter.

And that’s what sent me into a spiral today.

Stumbling through life as an autistic person like: I don't know what an (gestures with a hand wave) everything is and at this point I'm afraid to ask

"but I could go without a mobility aid, I don't really need it –" that mobility aid is an investment in your future energy, time, and overall well-being. It's not any more selfless to go without it than it would be selfless to avoid a sale; it's not about "needing" an aid, it's about whether that aid would improve your life. Paying the full price (of a good, or of your body's health and your happiness) when you don't have to is not an inherently moral action.

Get the mobility aid. Enjoy having more energy and feeling better about moving around. Life's attempting to tax your body higher than it needs to; there's no need to let it scam you out of anything you don't absolutely have to pay

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