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IM SO FUCKING HUNGRYYYYY
Puckicho can you draw an intersex flag from memory without google
As an adult still living with their abusive parent, I often find that affirmations meant to empower me are unhelpful at best. They often feel like they're overstating the amount of agency I have as an adult; I've spent my entire life being abused. It's all I know and I have a lifetime of conditioning and nervous system damage to show for it.
All that doesn't just go away now that I'm older than 18, and neither do the material circumstances that keep me here. Even though I have more legal rights and have grown since I was younger, I am still not in control by the very nature of being the victim in an abusive relationship. So, for those who relate, here are some affirmations that might hit different:
My abuser does not have my best interests in mind, even if they think they do.
I am my own person; my mind and body belong to me.
My feelings are justified, and I deserve to feel and express them.
I am doing what I need to survive, and that is all I need to do.
I am doing my best given the knowledge, resources, and support I have.
I am the only person who can decide what is best for me.
My situation is unfair and wrong. I deserve to be happy and safe.
I do not have to engage in toxic positivity; that will only hurt me.
As long as I am alive, there is something good in this life for me - no matter how small.
I have inherent rights just because I exist.
I shouldn't have to deal with this on my own; I deserve support and protection.
Everything I need is something I deserve. Everything I deserve is something I need.
If any of these don't resonate, feel free to discard them. Everyone finds comfort and empowerment differently.
Modern Fatui harbingers but it’s just Childe making excuses for why he never brings any friends over for the holidays bc the other harbingers r the worst types of boomer relatives
Featuring:
The Jester “there’s nothing wrong with being gay, but don’t you think it’s a little weird that *all* your friends are homosexuals” Pierro
The Captain “no one is leaving this table until we get along” Capitano
The Doctor “I hacked into the pentagon and now I’m on a watchlist but trust me they’re reptiles” Dottore
Damslette “Arlecchino, you won’t believe what Pantalone said about you. You should confront him” Columbina
The Knave “I INVITED YOU INTO MY HOUSE AND THIS IS HOW YOU REPAY ME YOU SLIMY WORM” Arlecchino
The Rooster “Childe, you should really eat more! You’re far too skinny” Pulcinella
The Balladeer “are we still getting together for the holidays this year? Guys? Is this the right number” Scaramouche
Marionette “this machine is a 20-in-1 juicer, server, pressure cooker…trust me, this will make cooking way more efficient” Sandrone
(Spoiler: it did not)
The Fair Lady “she’s in our thoughts and prayers” Signora
(She’s not dead, she’s just always fashionably late)
The Regrator “maybe if Dottore put as much effort into our marriage as Sandrone put into her failed cooking device, I’d be willing to sit next to him” Pantalone
(He would not sit down next to Dottore at the table until an enraged Arlecchino threatened him with a fork)
And Childe “I’m gonna eat in my room” Tartaglia